BOIYEN: DALAM 1 BULAN KAKAK AKU MENINGG4L SEMUA OM AYAH JUGA, SKRG HANYA IBU DAN AKU

BOIYEN: DALAM 1 BULAN KAKAK AKU MENINGG4L SEMUA OM.. AYAH JUGA, SKRG HANYA IBU DAN AKU...

Deddy Corbuzier

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My dad is gone.

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Your mom is still here?

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My mom is still here. My brother is gone. Huh? That's why I get a lot of appreciation. I'm happy and sad at the same time. I'm sad because I'm like this. I don't have anyone I love anymore.

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My mom said this to me. Uh, Ian. I hope you find someone who loves you.

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She said if I'm gone, who are you? No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, boy, yeah. Yeni Rahmawati. Yeah, Alhamdulillah Yeni Rahmawati. The most favorite female comedian of 2024. Amazing.

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Alhamdulillah.

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But this is using real money. Cool. Mas Jarwo using real money.

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Usually it's plastic.

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Right?

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This is not.

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This is iron. Iron. Because if there are two, it can make...

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Look.

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See, what is this? I'm not going to talk about it. It's hard. But I'm really proud of her.

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Alhamdulillah.

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I'm really, really proud of her. I was going to talk about, I don't want to talk about things like this. I want to talk about Taci. That she's a struggle. She said, Aci.

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What is Aci?

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I'm Taci, from Batangkarang. That's Haci. Haci, yes. Hachi. But are you proud? I'm so proud. I'm so proud. I didn't expect that I would win the comedy award. I've been a Dangdut singer since I was a kid.

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Right. It turns out that sometimes human expectations don't come true because God's plan is better.

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God's plan is better, but if God's plan is not carried out well, it won't work. It won't work. I'm We'll discuss this later. So, you said that in your career, not everything is easy. How old were you when you started?

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I started when I was in junior high school.

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Junior high school?

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In junior high school, I started to perform really well. I was looking for money, Om Deddy.

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Looking for money, performing, and singing?

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Singing.

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Okay. Singing. And then I was once opposed by other musicians.

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Why did you look for money in high school? Because you have a family, you have the ability to make money.

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I saw my parents looking for money, I felt sorry for them. I felt bad. Then I thought, my parents are already in school, my siblings are tired of being spoiled, looking for money, and so on. I thought, I have to be able to find my own money.

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Oh, to help your parents? Yes. Or for charity?

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I also want to give it to my mom.

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Okay.

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Because my mom used to buy me clothes, whatever I wanted. I wanted to buy her something that she gave me. I wanted to do charity.

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Do your parents still exist?

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My dad is gone.

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Your mom is still there?

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My mom is still there.

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My brother is all gone.

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What?

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Yes.

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I have left everything behind.

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I'm sorry. I didn't know.

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That's why I'm sad. If I didn't tell you this, you would be sad too.

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Why?

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Can I know why?

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In 2010, my father passed away. In 2021.

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How old was he?

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62, my father passed away. Okay.

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62 years old.

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But your older brother?

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My older brother is 40 years old. So, he's still young. Still young. 45 and 42. Do you have tissue?

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I don't have tissue.

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I don't have tissue.

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You're preparing the tissue? Yes. I don't have tissue. You don't have tissue? I have tissue.

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I have tissue.

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You have tissue?

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I don't have tissue.

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Is there a toilet here?

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Yes, there is.

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Sorry, but you're 40 years old.

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Yes, so in 2021 I got a test. In 2010, my dad passed away. I thought, now is the time for me to take my dad's place.

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So, you were in the back?

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Yes. But before that, it wasn't that hard. Because my older brothers were still there.

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Your older brothers were still working at the beginning?

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Yes, they were still working. My third brother passed away in elementary school. He had a blood cancer.

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Oh, your third brother died of a blood cancer in elementary school?

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Yes. He died in 2010. And in 2021, my brother was gone for a month. One month? Yes, 25 days apart. So, in 2021, it was March. Covid? No. So, in March 2021,

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my first brother got into an accident on the train. For 25 days, my brother fainted in front of the house, he was brought to the ER, and he was gone. Heart.

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How old was he?

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The first one, I think he was about 4 years old.

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The one who got hit by the train? The one who got hit by the train was 45 years old. So, the first one was he? The first one was about 4 years old. The one who got hit by a train?

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The one who got hit by a train was 45 years old.

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So the first one was younger?

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Yes, he was younger, 4 years old. They still had 2 or 4 kids. I had 4 kids.

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So you were only with your mom?

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Yes, I was with my mom. That's why when I saw him, I felt sad.

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Yes, sis. That's why when I see you like this, I feel sad.

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That's why I actually, if I get a reward, I'm happy and sad at the same time. When I'm like this, the people I love are all gone. Only my mom is left. She's my life's witness, my struggle.

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Sorry, I don't know the story at all. That's why I'm at all. You've never told me about it?

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I've never told anyone about it.

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But, okay. I'm sorry. I don't know if... My sister just passed away. She's a girl, but she's been sick for a long time. If she's been sick for a long time, we're more prepared to die.

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All of this is a heart attack.

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What about the chicken?

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It's the same. It's the same for the heart.

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It's the same for the heart.

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It's also a heart attack in a fainting office. So, everything is a heart attack.

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But sometimes, except for accidents.

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Accidents are like riding a motorcycle. Riding a motorcycle without a plank.

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Oh.

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So I got this trophy, I was happy, but at a time like this, they're not there. But I believe, I believe that

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they will see it. But how is your relationship with your family? How is your relationship with your father and your siblings?

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Very good. Sometimes there are family members who are fighting, one is smart, the other is defending. So, there are no such moments. That's why I'm so happy I see people laughing. That's what I like. That's my hobby.

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Because if we make people happy, it's like positive energy. It's like, it turns out, what is it, it makes people happy.

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And the happiness is back to us.

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And the happiness is back to us.

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The aura. Satisfied. Satisfied. Like this, uh, so it's like, uh, for my sins, which I used to do bad things.

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Oh, I never thought of that.

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Yeah.

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I never thought of that.

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Yeah, me too. I never thought of that. I never thought of that. Like, in the past, we humans don't always think. We have mistakes. Now, seeing people we entertain,

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and make them happy. Maybe our sins can be... not paid, but we can... we can make the opposite compared to before. Yes. What do you call your mom? Yeah, I think that's a good point. I think that's a good point. I think that's a good point. I think that's a good point.

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I think that's a good point.

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I think that's a good point. I think that's a crazy struggle. Yes. They said the clothes and everything. Everything. Anyway, I used to sing on stage. Then I was given a cell phone. I was still in school. So if there was anything, I would say, yes, later if I go home, if there is anything, for example, no one will pick me up.

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Then on the road, if there is anything, I will call. Take a taxi or something. I will pay for it at home. Okay, you're alone. For safety. Anyway, he gave me his phone. He gave me his phone and I was attacked by two other people. Huh?

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Yes, I was attacked. My mom always wants to be an audience. So, if I perform, my mom will definitely come and want to be an audience.

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You don't know?

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No. Then I was about to finish, and he was like, I'm here. So, he was like, protecting me.

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Protecting you, but he didn't want you to know he was there. He was afraid of being embarrassed.

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So, I was like, if it's okay, I'm here. Because if I sing, I can see my audience.

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What did your father do to support you?

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My father didn't support me. He told me to go to school. I used to be quiet. I'm I was fooled! So I left, I was happy to leave My mom asked my dad Yan, Yan, Do you know this story? Yes, I do. My father finally found out. When I got home, I was at school at 5 or 6 AM. I was at school at 7 AM. So, I was sleepy and my eyes were red. Then, I was like,

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I was singing, and he found out. He found out.

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You don't need money for your family, right?

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No. I want to have my own income.

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And you're a family? No. I want to have my own income. And you're happy? I'm happy.

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Basically you're happy? I'm happy. And even though I get a small income, I give my mom a salary.

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Oh, a salary?

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Yes.

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Oh.

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For example, 70 thousand.

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30. Yes, 30-35 thousand. If the ojek is 50 thousand, I'm happy dear oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, What did you do in 2010? In 2010, I was in school while singing. And I was about to apply for a job.

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Ah, okay. But you didn't get a job yet?

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Yeah, I didn't get a job yet. Then I got a job, I worked at the office. Then I sang Dangdut on Saturday and Sunday. Then I was really... Now people only see the good side, right? On Monday to Saturday, I worked.

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I worked at the office. What did you do at the office? I was a finance. Finance. I calculated money. I was good at calculating money.

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Is this true?

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It's true.

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What kind of office? Bank?

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Export-import.

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Export-import.

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Yes, I worked there.

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What did you do?

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I was a secretary.

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Secretary? Okay.

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Yes.

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So you worked on Saturday and Sunday?

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Saturday and Sunday. So I work on Monday to Saturday. But Saturday is half a day. Half a day I'm at the office, I'm already in bed. I'm already at 4 o'clock, I'm in bed. I wake up at 4 o'clock, I'm already there, I've brought my makeup, my makeup, my fake

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eyelashes. I said, you're performing, right? I know. I know. So I sang, I left the office, I sang, I went home in the morning, I sang again the next day. Then on Monday I went back to work. I didn't get a break.

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My life. That's crazy.

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What was your salary?

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A widow. A widow. I can wash cars.

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The car is dirty.

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Then why did you want to work?

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Why do I want to work? Yes. Well, instead of working from Monday to Friday, I'm busy. Right? It's not good either. I graduated from school, I'm already in school.

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Yes.

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It's like life is not very useful.

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So, the point is, there is still work. I'm more sensitive, can I? Sure, sure.

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But you're also a cassette player, right? Yes.

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You cry like a cassette player, so I won't get mad. I'm curious, in the world of the bandit singer, is sexy and good body value in a good body? The down-to-earth singer is sexy. If I look at it now, sorry, down-to-earth singer looks like that,

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sexy, has a ridging.

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Yes, there is. I used to wear that kind of clothes. My body was still small. Like this, not bulging like this.

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How heavy were you?

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52 kg.

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52 kg?

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I was beautiful.

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Then why is this?

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I'll give you a picture later. This is the one I became a widow. I really wanted to wear clothes like Bunda Inul. I put on my own clothes until dawn, tomorrow I sing on Monday. I put it on, my eyes are sleepy, I put on my own bracelet until dawn, I sang on Monday. I put it on, I was sleepy, I put on my bracelet. So my clothes would be attractive.

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I couldn't afford to buy designer clothes back then. I bought it at the Asemka market.

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You put on your own bracelet. I put on my own bracelet, so it would shine.

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So it would be attractive on stage.

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How old were you?

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I was 15 years old.

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How heavy were you?

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I was 5'2".

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5'2"? That's really good.

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Yes, I was really good. That's why I used to sing a lot.

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What happened?

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There were a lot of temptations. Some singers used to sing normally, some sang with a lowinger. Some people were normal, some were not.

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How was that?

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I had my own tricks.

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I know, you were wearing steel shoes.

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Yes, I was.

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That's why I was looking for the one with steel shoes. So, I was always looking for the one with steel shoes.

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But, the temptation was huge, right?

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Actually, I'm still single. But, the temptation is really big, right? Or not? Well, actually, my goal has been changed.

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Oh yeah, but your goal is not to find a man, not to make money. And your goal is really a hobby, you like to sing.

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Yes.

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Yes.

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I want to be an entertainer.

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Be an entertainer.

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Yes, different.

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Like that. And my mom has already fought, up her faith in becoming a singer? She became a weirdo. Yeah, that's how it is. I don't want to. I feel sorry for my parents.

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They've been modeling us to become singers. What if our talents are different?

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That's talent. It's hard.

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That's talent.

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Yeah, and singing is hard.

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That's why it's talent.

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Vocal practice, dancing, right? I dance, I'm brave on stage, I face a lot of people.

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So if you were 52 years old, why are you so big now?

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Covid, I got Covid. Now I got a sinetron. I wait for the call, then I wait for the take. I always eat.

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But now you're on stage with comedy, now you're famous. How is your body?

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Oh, like this.

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Like this? Really? Yeah, it's crowded like this.

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I mean, I'm not a body shaming. I mean, for comedy, you're perfect. You're really cool.

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That's why. But I was given a chance.

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But have you ever been skinny?

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I have, I'm reducing my diet, I'm getting healthy food.

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How much did you lose?

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Because I want to lose weight, I'm tired, easily tired, and then it's easy to get a streight mark. Straight marks are like lightning.

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Yes, because of the fat, the straight marks.

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Yes, yes, so the skin breaks.

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But you're a bule doyan, right? petir ya ya ya kena kena gemuk was it's much easier to be a bully do you know I'm I was with him when I got home from work. You lived with him? Yes, I lived with him. Oh, you were still with him.

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Yes, there was only one maid at my house. There were three, but the house was different. It was close. I took care of her. I was calmer when there was a maid. Because my mom was alone.

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She was sick once. So, she was like vertigo. She was sleeping, and her arm was spinning. She never told me if she was sick.

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Yeah, she's a parent.

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Yeah. Then my kids called me. They said, Grandma, Grandma is sick. She was taken to the hospital, she didn't want to go. So, I called her. I forced her to go to the hospital.

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I said, Mom, I feel sorry for you. She only has their mom. I told her to go to the hospital. But she insisted. I took her to the hospital. She never made it hard for me.

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She never talked to me if she was sad or sick.

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Sometimes it's not like that. Sometimes it's like going to the hospital. That's how it is.

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Sometimes I'm afraid it's expensive.

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I'm afraid children's money. Yes, sometimes they are afraid of expensive things. Afraid of expensive things, afraid of this.

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Afraid of this, why, afraid of being in the opname.

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Yes, yes.

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That's the way of thinking.

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That's the way of thinking.

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If we are, the important thing is that the parents are healthy.

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The important thing is to get well first.

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Get well first.

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Sometimes the parents are the opposite. You're old enough to go to the hospital, you're not going to be in a hurry. You'd better be happy if you're old enough. Just follow the routine. You can start giving sugar at that age. But if you're in your 60s, you can still live a long life. So, now you're living with your mom.

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With my mom.

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Crazy.

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I'm like, now you were gone, I used to go home. I didn't go home to play. Now, I go home to shoot, so I'd rather go home.

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Oh.

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Because I think, sometimes I go home, sometimes I don't. I go home. I go home.

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But what is this, talking about?

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Talking about it like this.

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We're just the are living together now. It's time for us to calm down. So, the two of us... What do you want, Ian? Buy it. What do you want, Ian? Buy it. And then, like...

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That's it. What do we want, the two of us? We are happy together. What's saddest is when my mom says this to me.

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Uh... She said, the saddest thing is when my mom said this. Ian, I hope you get a partner who loves you. If I think of you, if I'm not there, who are you? Then, who do you love? He thinks like that. That's why I'm not selective, like him.

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Like choosing a partner, no. Like choosing, how? Like more... Is it right to choose someone? Like that, with me or not.

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It's hard. It's really hard.

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The one I still her is like... ...our own parents.

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But honestly, it's hard.

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It's hard, yes.

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Because... I have to be honest with you. Because... Because you're not an ordinary person. Sometimes... You know what I mean.

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Sometimes people think, it's hard to be an artist.

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Or sometimes, the people who approach you will know what you're doing.

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Like a minor.

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Nowadays, it's not like that. Nowadays, it's not just girls who are weird.

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Yes. Yes. There are.

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There are also a lot of people who are cond There are also many people who want to condom. And those who want to condom, usually at the beginning, it's not really visible.

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Yes.

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Because, wow, it seems like they really love it. It's really difficult when you're famous, when you become someone to get, to be able to know that they really love us, not because of other factors. Because it's one package.

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But I believe in God.

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You can, but don't just love like a love affair, just like that. Because that's how it is. But you said earlier that you're just happy with your mom, right? What makes you happy with your mom?

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We just eat delicious food. We can buy whatever we want. Whatever we want to eat. We can just eat whatever we want. We can just eat whatever we want. We can just buy whatever we want.

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And she was so happy.

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Did she buy any luxury stuff? She didn't want to.

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She said, I bought this bag, it's branded.

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I know what happened.

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My mom is like that too.

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It's branded. She said, it's heavy. I asked him if it was real leather. He said it was. He even had two bags. I told him, you're wearing this. You're an artist. He said, no. I'm not wearing that kind of bag. I asked him, what kind of bag are you wearing?

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That's how people are.

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That's true.

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That's why I told. That's why... Just let it be.

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My mom was celebrating her birthday. But this happened 10 years ago. My mom was celebrating her birthday, and I bought her an expensive bag. An expensive bag. Why did this happen 10 years ago? Maybe even more than that.

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Because I wouldn't buy her an expensive bag again. Because when I bought her an expensive bag, she complained that the stitches were damaged in a month. That's really fast. And when he found out the price of the bags, his employee was angry.

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What?

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His employee was angry. He said it was a lie.

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He said it was a lie. He said it was a lie.

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After I found out why the bag was broken, because he didn't want the bag to be fixed at the actual place, because if it was fixed at the actual place, it would be expensive. Branded bags are fixed at the actual place, it's expensive. So he wanted to fix it at places that were not... Well, the places, a place where...

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Repairing bags.

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I was so angry. I said, once you fix it in that place, it will be fake.

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Because the thread is different.

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It's different, right? Well, he didn't buy it, but whatever. After that, I knew why this bag was broken. It turns out that This bag is for putting 2 bottles of mineral water

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Oh, it's a pit, so you can see the pit How big is the bag? 20? Yes, it's a small bag So you put it in a big bottle?

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Yes, in a big bottle

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It's the same, you can see the bottle

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Drink bottle

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Sometimes you put clothes in it Yes, it's the same. I mean, it's a bottle of drink. Sometimes, you put your clothes in it. You can't even take it off. It's a hole.

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It's a hole.

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It's scratched. I got angry. I said, this is an expensive bag. It's a hole. Because my bag doesn't have a hole.

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I said, it's a bag. It's filled with cake.'s also filled with cake. It's filled with cake.

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It's better if it's filled with cake.

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Sometimes, it's wet wipes from the restaurant. I was like a Quachi, and I was like, I was like a Quachi, and I was like, I was like a Quachi, and I was like, I was like a Quachi, and I was like,

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I was like a Quachi, and I was like,

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I was like a Quachi, and I was like, I was like a Quachi, and I was like, I think more active a palimata to pull the to do pray boy. Yeah

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Connie just passing that villa get a Mac and but who just a war got to

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Abishara, but you thought you said my amatni Salah. I know yeah, I got any better

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1700

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Abyssinia, I'll be seen yeah, I'll be seen Russia. I'll be somebody put on the body begin some more money People boom when I go begin some more He said, finish it. And he brought the leftover and made a stew out of it. I said, I'll make a stew out of it. He said, he's just about to go to the bathroom. That's true.

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I have a story that's more confusing than that.

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What is it?

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It's the same. We ate at a restaurant. And then, it was never finished. When he knew the price, he was angry. Not angry, but he was like, this is crazy. Then he called the manager. I was like, what the hell, why did he call the manager?

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He said, don't worry, what are you doing? But the manager was close to him. But my mom was smart. She said, please, the rest of this.

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The rest is already broken.

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There's a bone.

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You know, if... I I was confused why it was wrapped in a plastic bag. My mom was smart. She was smart. I have six Herder dogs. Oh, you said it was for dogs. Herder dogs are big. I don't have a dog. I have six Herder dogs.

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I like them. I was sure that the meat would be boiled and turned into soup. Yes. It would be boiled and turned into soup.

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You said it was for dogs. I said it was for dogs. So, I'm going to be a shop. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

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Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. No, this is a bit of a bully. No, I also have a dog, a herder at home. If it was 6, I would add the rest in the kitchen.

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Oh, in the kitchen?

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You brought the dog in the kitchen, right? It's a real dog, right? What happened to your house?

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I think it was thrown away. Too many.

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Who owns it?

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The trash is in the back.

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If it's a herder, the bones are big, right? I'm But maybe in that era, because it was a difficult time, right?

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Even if it was hard. And not everything was instant. Well, now, let's not talk about people who are capable. Sometimes, just ordinary people, if the food is not finished, they are not taken home, right?

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No. No, now, no.

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No one is ashamed. Because in the old days, rich people were also taken home.

28:20

Taken home. But if we're in a place like that, it's better to bring our parents. Because if we're the ones who want to go to the toilet, we'll be embarrassed. Because our parents are also our parents.

28:31

Yes, that's right.

28:33

That's right. Our parents are like that. We're also like that. I'm like that at home. I wrap it up. Then, it's good.

28:44

Then, the vegetables are fried and made into a good, that's good. You can make a vegetable stir-fry.

28:46

That's right.

28:47

That's what it's called.

28:49

But it's okay. But now, basically, one of your life goals is to make your mother happy.

28:55

Yes. My mother wants me to get married. You have a girlfriend now, right? I have.

29:01

You have a girlfriend, right? When are you getting married?

29:03

Yes, soon.

29:04

When?

29:05

Soon. Soon, I hope.

29:07

Yes, I hope.

29:08

I hope.

29:09

I hope.

29:10

I hope.

29:21

I hope. What does pride look like? But he's like...

29:26

Or he's not the type of person who...

29:28

No, he's not like... He sometimes gathers with his friends, Mom, my son is an artist. No, it's all the same. You're also your son. My son is an artist, your son is also... Because they're all great people.

29:40

That's what my mom said. Even though my son is an artist, I'm not ashamed. I'm on ashamed to ride a bus. They pick me up, they're the ones who are artists. The artist is my son.

29:47

Not him, that's it. That attitude.

29:52

Yes. Then it's the same, it's called duty.

29:56

If the child is an artist or a famous child, the parents can be like that.

30:00

But sometimes if the parent is famous or an artist, the child is the one who sings. to I'm a Javanese. If you have a job, you should be polite. Oh, yes.

30:25

Especially if it's your son. Yes. A son of a government official, you should teach him how to speak.

30:31

Yes.

30:32

My son is Javanese, but maybe he's a government official.

30:35

But I was taught that if you become successful, my grandson and grandchildren should be taught that if you become successful, if you become a successful person, if you have a position or anything, don't come without a belt.

30:50

That's true.

30:51

Just stay quiet. You have to stay quiet, don't have to stay quiet.

30:54

Yes, that's how life should be. Just show your work. Okay, but back again. When did you start comedy?

31:03

Well, I first started on TV, I did comedy shows. Why didn't you sing? Facebooker.

31:11

How come?

31:12

Promoting songs. There must be a lot of singers in the world. If you promote a new song. How old are you? I'm 24.

31:20

And you're still single?

31:22

Still. I'm still a singer.

31:24

So, if you're still a singer... I'm more of a fighter, I'm a singer.

31:26

If you're a singer, your body is still flexible.

31:28

I'm a singer. I was asked to sing a song.

31:32

You were asked to sing? Yes, I was asked to do a gimmick.

31:36

What is it?

31:38

Facebooker.

31:40

Facebooker, okay. I was asked to sing a song.

31:44

I brought an audience. I wore a boyana shirt. What is this? Facebooker Facebooker, okay I was in the show, I was promoting a song I was wearing a Bojener's outfit I was singing, Bojen, Bojen, Bojen, Bojen The audience was shocked Who is this singer? I was so famous, I was the first promo

32:02

I gave them my shirt I rented a mini metro

32:07

Yeah, yeah, yeah People came to see you And you had a good marketing strategy

32:11

Yeah, yeah, yeah

32:12

I was right

32:14

I gave them money to buy nasi kotak I gave them money I gave them 30 thousand I was happy to see the artists They were happy I'm watching it. I'm watching it. I'm watching it. I'm watching it. I'm watching it. I'm watching it. I'm watching it. I'm watching it. I'm watching it. I'm watching it. I'm watching it. I'm watching it. I'm watching it. I'm watching it. I'm watching it. I'm watching it. I'm watching it. I'm watching it. I'm watching it. I'm watching it. I'm watching it. I'm watching it? Hehehe, yes. I said, yes, Mr. Jepeng. I said, I want to make it more crowded. So my song will be more popular.

32:50

Boin, there's a sound like that. Boin, boin, boin. And then? And then I was invited. Because it's funny? I was so nervous.

33:02

I was asked to do a talk show with Mr. Opi Kumis.

33:04

That's hard.

33:05

Opi Kumis.

33:06

He said, help me, please. You do this, your nose is funny, he said. Your nose is like a frog.

33:15

It's a nose. I was a bit confused. Well, this is a model nose.

33:24

I'll play with it. And then this is how a model's nose is. So, I played with it.

33:26

And then you answered?

33:27

Yes, I replied to TikTok. You got it? I answered. Thank God. It turned out that I was not that good.

33:33

That was the opening?

33:35

Yes.

33:36

Wow.

33:37

That's it.

33:38

Since then?

33:40

Since then, I played with it again. Did you sing? I'm Okay, I have two questions. First, why do you want to be invited again as a singer? That's Andila's first event.

34:07

The important thing is to be famous first.

34:09

Yes, so I'm singing while talking about my previous song.

34:14

Oh, so it's a promotion.

34:17

Yes, that's it.

34:19

Yes, yes, yes.

34:20

But have you ever sang again after that?

34:22

Well, I forgot to sing again. I forgot to sing again. yeah yeah yeah batang hidungmu tidak terlihat. Itu udah lama banget ya? Iya, kalau ada penyanyi, artis yang keluar lagu itu keluar gitu. Ketemu berapa itu ya? 2012.

34:49

Wah, udah lama banget ya?

34:50

2012.

34:52

Waktu itu.

34:53

Waktu itu akhirnya om daddy saya merembet ke TV lain, saya dapat acara, awak juga komedi. Tapi saya bagian keset-keset gitu.

35:02

Oke. But I'm the cassette part. Okay. I ask the second one. You're a cassette, it's okay?

35:06

It's okay. First, Awal was surprised. Like, why did he say that to me? But like this, oh, well, his name is also Lawak. Okay, if people want to be successful, they cook baper, right?

35:18

People want to be successful, they cook baper?

35:20

Yes. That's really cool. Just accept it. Well, this is how life is. That's so cool.

35:25

If people want to be successful, they have to be buffer.

35:28

Yeah. That's so cool. That's so cool. People want to be successful, they have to be buffer. But at least, they don't judge us in a personal context. Yeah.

35:40

Family, family-oriented.

35:41

Yeah, yeah. We're like a family. Like we're comedians, we know the limits.

35:49

And if there's someone who's like us, there's a difference between being angry and being angry.

35:55

But have you ever got someone who's angry but you're not comfortable?

36:02

There is. It's better to avoid it. Don't be avoided.

36:05

Don't be thrown around.

36:06

Oh, you turn it off?

36:07

I don't turn it off, but I do it slowly. Like, tap, tap, tap, tap, tap.

36:12

You finish it quickly?

36:14

Yes, I finish it quickly.

36:16

Oh, you don't extend it there.

36:18

Yes, if we get caught, it will be seen on camera that our faces are ugly. I'm a sms some of the other ones and I'm gonna take on something but you can't I got a I'm a yeah yeah I don't know

36:56

I'm gonna get a

37:02

I'm

37:04

gonna get I'm not going to be able to do that. I'm going to be able to do that. I'm going to be able to do that. I'm going to be able to do that. I'm going to be able to do that. I'm going to be able to do that. I'm going to be able to do that. I'm going to be able to do that. I'm going to be able to us. But mostly, that's how I am. Actually, if people are mean to us and we are quiet and be kind,

37:25

eventually, they will be good to us.

37:27

Yes, it's been a long time. But I'm lucky, Uncle Dedy. People are easy to get close to. So, when I get to know them, I'm like, Oh, this person, I think, this is it. Not enough, right? And, like, But eventually, I became a nuisance. Yes, because you are like that. Yes, because there are people who are silent.

37:47

If there are people who are silent, I can ask, Hey, what's wrong? I just stay silent. Are you sick?

37:52

Yes, yes. So people are hard to hate you actually.

37:55

Yes, I try not to be a annoying person, I want to try to be a pleasant person. I'm going to help you with the narration. How are we going to do the text?

38:25

So, before you started, you were the one who hired this person?

38:28

Yes. We looked at the person and said, Sir, can you help us with the narration?

38:33

But with these two trophies, this means an achievement, an incredible appreciation.

38:42

Yes.

38:43

What I don't understand is this. I'm going to get to you. You bludger comedy. I'm a comedian.

38:57

Yeah. My family is not serious. My mother has 8 siblings. They all gather in the room and clack.

39:12

But there's a theory. When you're in a comedy, you answer quickly. That's impossible for a family.

39:19

I learned from my friends and artists. I saw it and I was like, okay. During my 12 years as an artist, I learned that he's smart. There's a note.

39:35

What do you mean by a note?

39:36

There's a comedy note that he has.

39:38

Oh, that person?

39:39

Yes. He has a comedy note. There are some ingredients. I once called a comedy teacher. Oh, deep, Nata Punya in any Punya Punya chatatan comedy Trinata a debon bonnet to Otis separate a mango guru comedy Blah blah just a pangil private Jessica to guru Jagini Lalu model. Oh, God

39:57

Set a Tony

40:00

Anakana Gini Waloponda lucu to become theory theory Naya and I had a theory theory Nene Because sometimes, even though it's funny, but there are theories.

40:05

Yes, the theory is like the timing is right. And if people talk, it can't be over-exaggerated. I'm afraid the audience won't hear the voice. And then, for example, in our brain, what material is there? Ah, glass cover. Ah, what is it? So what's in the brain is taken out.

40:25

I don't understand what you're saying.

40:27

Like something funny.

40:29

Give me an example.

40:30

Like this. Ah, put the glass down. Oh, okay.

40:33

We're joking.

40:34

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

40:36

But don't be the one who's offensive.

40:39

Don't be the one who's offensive. But isn't comedy going to offend people? I mean, if I say something stupid, it's already offensive.

40:46

Body shaming? Yes. Well, it depends on the person. But if you say something stupid, it's really stupid. Unless I'm arrogant, I'm stupid. That's a lie, right?

40:57

It's true, it's real.

40:58

And it depends on the person, right?

40:59

Yes.

41:00

That's why if we have a weakness, don't feel inferior. I mean, be an advantage.

41:05

Because it can be...

41:06

Become an icon.

41:08

Yes. But that means you've never been offended.

41:11

I've been offended when I was playing. But, oh, well, it's okay.

41:18

Okay, if I go back, has anyone ever been offended by you?

41:22

Has anyone ever been offended? I don't think so. No? Alhamdulillah, no. I'm not a single summer Luna. I think I'm fantastic. Okay. Okay. I'm gonna get it

41:25

I love you. There's a human up here. He's a little bit of a single somebody. Yeah, I'm not a piano. Yeah, I just said

41:30

Oh, yeah, yes, it's a book. Have you ever done a stand-up comedy? No. I was asked to do a stand-up comedy. I was asked to do a stand-up comedy. I was confused. If there's a stand-up comedy, there's a material. I immediately responded to it. It's my life story.

41:53

I told it.

41:54

But you've done it?

41:55

I've done it. I told my life story. Without writing? No. I'm serious. Where? Once, when I was at an event, I was busy with a stand-up comedian, and I was told to stand-up. I told my life story, just like a joke. Just like a life journey.

42:14

It was a joke?

42:15

Yes, people laughed. It was real, it was a joke. So, I said, Ma, we sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

42:39

I'm I was honking my car, honking people all the time, I want to sing to ATF, right? Undertone and Friends, to Bogor. Then, ta-ta-ta, I said, why do people always honk? I'm angry.

43:13

How do you honk?

43:14

No, not like that.

43:16

It's not like that. This is a normal honk. Like that. What are people honking about? From Jakarta to Arabogor. I was like, what is this? And then he said, what are you doing here? And then he said, what are you doing here? And then he said, what are you doing here?

43:28

And then he said, what are you doing here?

43:30

And then he said, what are you doing here? And then he said, what are you doing here? hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah No, when I got off the bus It's not in the back, it's at the door At the door, outside, I swear I didn't see it You're crazy Luckily I didn't get in the wheel That's dangerous

44:14

That's why when I got off, I was like, Why is my shirt wet? I didn't know at first The guy from Eno, Eno Neutral Boy, what's wrong with your shirt? Your pants are so wet, it's dirty see boy what

44:26

yeah

44:28

what what

44:32

what

44:44

what what I'm a driver. I'm a driver. I'm a driver. I'm a driver. I'm a driver. I'm a driver. I'm a driver.

44:47

I'm a driver. I'm afraid of being edited out. Why? What's wrong? He should've just cut it out. He should've just cut it out.

45:07

He should've told us.

45:08

Why didn't he say anything?

45:10

Yeah. Or maybe he's not cutting it out. He's chasing the rope.

45:14

So it breaks.

45:16

It's so annoying.

45:17

So it's visible.

45:18

So it's attractive.

45:20

It's like that. Every time I want to do an event, there's always a moment I was once in a wedding event To a big artist And you know what? My hairband The hairband was taken off

45:33

Oh

45:34

I immediately took a shoe lace

45:37

Oh you tied it with a shoe lace?

45:39

Yes, I tied it with a shoe lace And then I was like this And then not long after Boy, what is this? Shoe lace I was like, what is this? Shoes? I was like, what is this? Shoes? I was like, what is this? Shoes?

45:47

Shoes like you?

45:48

Yeah, I was wearing a pair of shoes

45:51

But it's okay, you're wearing a corset

45:53

It's okay, I'm a comedian

45:55

It's okay

45:56

I'm just a joke

45:57

What about your shoes?

45:58

These are shoes I was wearing a pair of shoes

46:01

I was wearing a silk rope. I mean, your shoes are not tied.

46:05

No, I'm not.

46:06

It's okay if your shoes are not tied.

46:08

It's okay. I'm not tied. The important thing is that I'm wearing a silk rope.

46:12

That's right. But have you ever been sad and had to cry?

46:16

I have. My brother passed away. I had to shoot. I had to cry. That's where role, right?

46:25

Your brother died.

46:26

He was buried.

46:28

I had to leave for the shooting. I was shooting in the cemetery. I was doing this. My eyes were still swollen. I had to act funny in front of people. That's it.

46:41

I was a great clown. We...

46:44

Because the audience didn't want to know Why don't you want to know?

46:46

I don't want to know.

46:47

You lived together, exactly together.

46:49

Together. So, there, my heart was still broken, sad. My brother died. Then after the funeral...

46:58

Which one died?

46:59

The second one.

47:00

The heart?

47:01

The heart. Then, I had no one else at home, there were a lot of guests, my mom was there, my siblings were there.

47:09

Why didn't you cancel the event?

47:11

I couldn't. They said I had to stay because I had my scene. I couldn't miss it. Because I had to do a streaming.

47:17

Oh, this, this, this, what is it called? Like a script or something?

47:21

Yes. like a sinetron or something like that yes, I learned how to do a stripping show, so I can't so I have to do a show tomorrow, so I have to take the evening off

47:26

and do the people there know about this?

47:28

yes, they do. they say sorry I said it's okay but we are working as professional producers so the audience they don't know we are sad

47:40

so what? what else? I'm about to cry but I have to try to be funny. I said, I'll erase it first. I said, don't be sad, I'll erase it first. I just had to do it.

47:53

Then, I started to write on the camera. I became myself in that role.

47:58

After that, you cried again?

48:00

After that, I cried again in the office. I was like, oh my God. I was thinking that there were a lot of people at home, and there was a lot of people in the street. I was alone. I was like, don't do it.

48:16

I hope there is a bitter-sweet life.

48:23

But sometimes people see successful see a successful person, you just want to be with them. You don't know what they're going through. It's really hard.

48:33

There are so many. It was in 2021, when I was at my lowest point.

48:37

It was in 2021?

48:39

I got COVID-19. At that time. I got COVID-19 and I was with my brother, his wife had cancer.

48:48

Did she die?

48:48

No, thank God, now she's recovered.

48:50

Okay.

48:51

But that's all together, right?

48:53

Yes.

48:54

But your brother,

48:56

from that time, a month?

48:57

Yes, so on the first 3rd, the 25th, on the 28th, my brotherth was my second brother's birthday. 25 days.

49:06

He cried before he died?

49:07

Yes.

49:09

That's...

49:10

That was just mentioned, the second one. Well, you're the oldest now. You're the oldest child. Take care of your brother. He left too.

49:22

How was your mom?

49:23

At first, my mom was... be pretty good. What was it like for you? Well, at first, I was like, I didn't believe it. When I got home, I was like, oh my God, my body, my bones were all broken. The child was dead, like, the bones were crumpled.

49:39

Which one? The first one?

49:42

The first one, the second one. The most hysterical was the second one. Because... I'm Doing young police is there is to young up young Kodawa meaning Galita. Yeah, I know Yeah, yeah, I'm not good. You got a piece of my hair. Yeah, I think to long for the remote and I'm in Gal to long carry remote Samoa Okay, hysteria. See to it. I'll go see pass Aku

50:00

Aku itu in can come on mama. No, yes, you're gonna go Ma, I guess yeah, yeah I was in my room and my mom was crying. Mom, be sincere. We are both left here. Take care of your health. You only have Ian. I was so sad.

50:17

I don't have any children. My bones are like crushed. Like broken. And then she said, I'm more concerned about my mind.

50:47

I mean, do you check? Because sometimes you have to check for 6 months.

50:53

Yes, medical check-up.

50:54

Do you check for medical check-up?

50:55

No.

50:56

Why not? I mean, with events like that, like your father has a heart attack, and you live with alone with my mom. Why didn't you do it?

51:07

Well, my mom and I went to the medical checkup. I was sick, but I was like, that's just a stomach ache.

51:17

That's a bit late to eat.

51:19

That's our illness. The illness is stomach ache.

51:23

But I mean, everything is normal? Heart, etc? Sugar, etc?

51:27

Well, this is reducing the body weight, Uncle Dedy. Because, they say, the fat is not only in the body, but also in the body organs.

51:36

Oh, yeah. It's internal.

51:38

So, it has to be reduced a little bit. That's why this is like a healthy food. Yeah, I'm eating healthy food.

51:46

Because you live with two kids.

51:49

Yes, I live with two kids. I always drink white water. I don't drink vitamin. I drink white water. I drink a liter of white water. I drink two bottles a day.

52:01

You don't drink vitamin, but you drink white water?

52:03

Yes.

52:04

Okay. I's it. At least if it's turmeric and acid.

52:07

But the point is, the good one. Yes, that's it. So, how about the children of the brothers who died?

52:16

The children, yes, I already.

52:18

You paid for everything?

52:19

Yes, thank God.

52:20

But you were given fortune, the goal is for that, right?

52:23

Yes, that's why when the passed away, I was given a fortune, and a lot of programs, and then it went up, like yesterday. It was like, it was already set up. Oh, it turns out that people are not given a sad story, but they are given a happy story. That's why yesterday I got the Tonight Show program,

52:47

and other programs, I realized that I have to live my life.

52:56

So, you're still grateful, right? With all the things that happened, but you can still take a positive side that you can still live for this. You see that, right?

53:07

Yes, because what if we're not grateful, we'll be short of breath. If you're grateful, you add it to God. If something happens, for example, if we, for example, our parents are taken by God, we get angry. We have to be tough. It was already happening. And at some point, we would be like that.

53:27

But you never got angry with God when that happened? At that moment, of course.

53:32

It was just like this. What is this? Why is everyone leaving me? That's why I only pray now. My mom is old. She can see that I have a child.

53:44

I'm not gonna say You're in my

53:47

Lucious

53:50

Yeah

53:52

No

54:01

Come on Hahaha Do you know your husband's marriage? I know Agree? Agree When we were talking yesterday If you're married, I'll stay at my mom's house

54:10

He said that?

54:12

Yes Then I said, no mom, just stay here I don't want to bother my child How? I don't want to bother my child

54:20

So your mom doesn't want to...

54:21

Stay with my mom

54:22

So this is not your mom's house, you have another house

54:24

Yes My little mama So, you got a house contract Yes, so it's at my house And when you want to get married? He said, if I get married, I'll just go to my house

54:49

Back to the contract? Yes, back to the house contract

54:53

I said, no, I'll stay here I said, no, I don't want to I'll take care of the kids and go to my house I said, I'll stay here The guy said, it's okay if you have a mom, if you can live here, don't go outside. Follow us.

55:06

Oh, the guy said that.

55:08

That's why if I want to find a partner, I'll talk to my mom first.

55:12

Do you talk to her?

55:13

I talk to her. I talk to my mom, yes. Anyway, wherever there is a mother. But not everything in the house of the house is known, right? Only, yes, just stay with mom Because... Who else?

55:27

If there's anything sick, who?

55:31

But like my mom, I told her to move in with me

55:33

With who there?

55:35

With...

55:36

So there's like... She's almost 90 years old, but...

55:40

With who?

55:41

There's this, there's... What's the name? Sister who... Oh, sister? I'm a Japanese and I'm a Mr. Ling Yeah, just a smock. I can't go in. Yeah, boy good. I can't even in God Oh, yeah Go on see we have a cow or a pig. Yeah, I'm a Joe. Oh, yeah, yeah You got to my got a rickle my way

55:58

Mama, oh yeah, no, you don't eat a boogie in the gun My boy, you guys which you're bouncing I'm I went to his house, and my wife and I were being picked up. My mom was like, don't, don't be picked up. I said, this is the water I spilled. She said, if you spilled it, you'll have to wash the dishes. I said, why don't you just take it all out?

56:34

She said, if you spill it, you won't be able to count it. Because the water meter doesn't work.

56:39

Yeah, the water meter doesn't work. I'm thinking I'm

56:46

gonna

56:48

be a

56:52

little

56:54

bit

56:56

and

56:58

I'm

57:00

gonna be a little I know my mom doesn't want to. So, my wife tried to persuade her.

57:06

Oh, I saw that. You don't want to, right?

57:09

My wife said, Come on, just live with us. I said, I'll make it difficult. Because it's hard to talk. I'll make it difficult. There's no room for me.

57:19

Or we have a small house nearby. It's close. I'll make it difficult. We have a small house nearby. And she said, ìYouíre so annoying.î I said, ìNo, Iím not annoying.î She was so angry. I told my wife, ìHey, listen.

57:35

Ask my mom, who is annoying?î Ask her first. She was confused. I asked her, ìWho is annoying?î ìI amî He was confused. He asked me, Who are you bothering? I said, I'm bothering myself.

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Hahaha.

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It's been a long time. If you don't want to, it's hard.

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He's not bothering us, he's bothering him. But I understand why he didn't want to move. Because his friends are still alive. There are still many people in that area.

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But now he's gone.

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His friends are gone?

58:03

Yes, but he's still there. I'm a I'm a I'm a

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I'm a I'm a

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I'm a I'm a I'm a I don't want to be sad for you. Right? I don't want to. Oh, I don't want to be sad for you.

58:27

Me too.

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I don't want to.

58:28

I don't want to.

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I don't want to be sad for the babysitter. I want to because I fell down twice and my head was broken.

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I want to.

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I want to. I want to. I used to be alone. I don't want to be with anyone. the I'm honking got my own Masa, you take in little

59:09

Yeah, I'm a good guy Ribut getting a Jerry Nigerian beginnings in a llama someone yeah, yeah, I'm beginia di lama semuanya ya berarti sama om didi makanya kaya itu juga waktu kemarin sakit ga ngomong akhirnya dia ngomong, ma kalo ada apa-apa ngomong ma mama ga kasihan apa sama iyan ma kan iyan tinggal sendirian dan apa-apa rumah sakit akhirnya saya hanterin saya dok nih, kaya gini

59:36

ibu gini, tuh ma ah gua ma sakit malah di om melin I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like, what? I'm like going to tell him. I'm going to make it. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know.

1:00:05

I don't know. I don't know. I don't know.

1:00:16

I don't know. I want to ask you back, after you've experienced all of this, we can say that you're very successful. If we think about it, what is the key to your success? If you think about it.

1:00:31

Praying to my mom. Every day, I pray. My mom prays every day.

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And you believe that?

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I believe. When I leave for work, I say, Mom, I'm leaving. I say, Bismillah. I say, Bismillah. Bismillah, ya. It's really safe. Every morning, when I leave, I'm like, did you leave?

1:00:52

I take him to the front, bring my bag, and then, Bismillah, ya.

1:00:57

So, after this, if you don't have work, you?

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I go home. Home?

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Home.

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With him, and the three cats. With the three cats?

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With my niece. She's in the hospital right now. So, she likes to go upstairs to my room.

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Your niece?

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Yes, my late niece.

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Is everyone there?

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Yes, if they're on vacation, I gather them. I always gather them on the weekends. I eat out with everyone. If not, for example...

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If you don't gather, you won't gather.

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I won't gather. Especially if I have my own kids.

1:01:31

I have to gather with my family every week.

1:01:33

Me too.

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My mom often invites me to eat and watch. Even though she's sleeping in the cinema, it's okay. It's important to gather. Gather.

1:01:41

Because if not, you won't get together. Yes, if you don't get together, you won't get together. But there are some who say, if I'm free, I'll go out to eat. If I don't go out, I'm lazy. At home, I order a lot of food, eat a lot, and then eat a lot of messy food.

1:01:55

I used to think, if I'm not there, I'm going to be like this.

1:01:58

Who gathers you up? Who gathers me up? There's a single money. Call me Salia. Mama long time. Yeah, I'm pulling soda or sudaranya. Did you add a mama? Kaka mama Yeah, I'm a sip. I'm a CIA. There's a more duty beer party. Oh, yeah

1:02:12

I'm gonna go to a movie In the world I don't know I'm the one who should gather them. So that they won't die of over-exaggeration. If not, they won't meet again.

1:02:26

Yes. Now, my mom and I are the ones who gather my relatives. That's why they know more and more.

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I don't think there's any importance. Meeting is not important.

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Just meeting is enough.

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But, it has to be there. I want to explain yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Moment. It has to be there. Yeah. It has to be there. I want to explain to my kids, like Aska and so on, sometimes they ask, what are you doing every week? I say, yeah, it has to be there.

1:02:53

It has to be there. And I don't accept you not joining. Because if you're already 20, what are you want to do. But on Sunday, Gather with your family. Gather. I only need 3-4 hours. And if I'm not there, there's no more of this.

1:03:12

No matter what, it's your family. And I don't ask you to meet every day, talk, and so on. You only have 4 hours, you don't have to talk a lot, you eat too, that's it. But there must be something. Must, must.

1:03:25

It's the same, Daddy. But it's true, Daddy, it has to be like that. Because if it's not like that, we and our relatives won't know each other. For example, the kids of KBG now,

1:03:35

who knows? But they're relatives.

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Yes, yes.

1:03:38

Because it's said, so that the obor won't die of obesity. That's why he's in the Estafet. Yes, I know him. He's the son of this, this, this, this. From this, this, this, this.

1:03:48

If your father is no longer around, he's already in you. The Estafet is in you.

1:03:52

Yes, that's why he said, if I don't get hit, I won't be able to gather. I don't know my relatives.

1:03:58

That's right. If we become a donator, we become a donator But donator is... We become a donator because we are able to

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Yes

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If not

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If not, we won't gather

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Why?

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Because God gave us a blessing

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So we use it for that

1:04:19

Yes

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So it's the same

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Because if not, you look for happiness

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What else do you want to find? Yes, it's true The older you are, the more like this yeah I'm like, that's it. That's it. You're lazy. Yes, I'm like that now. Well, enjoy it. So, in the future, just do it. If it's used, it's okay.

1:04:56

That's it.

1:04:58

Sometimes, if you buy expensive stuff, it's not because it's expensive, but because we like it.

1:05:04

Because it's for self-reward. Okay, I like expensive things because I like it. Because it's a self-reward.

1:05:05

I like it because it's good. It's not because it's expensive that I have to buy it.

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It's a self-reward.

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I've already...

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You've already become a... A self-appreciator. Yes, a self-appreciator. I've already explained it. My mom also told me not to think about other people. I'm gonna get it in a moment. You know, I'm a joke. I'm getting a rap in Udah, Scar and young and again on a cruise. Thank you in yen Moapa

1:05:30

Moapa Moapa Or I'm doing yeah, yeah Get a ticket I'll be somebody you got to smoke. I'll be too low. Yeah, yeah I said, that's it? That's it? That's it?

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That's it?

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That's it?

1:05:50

That's it? That's it? That's it? Jaga omongan ke orang Makanya kalau selalu nih kalau misal membangun kerjaan yang jadi hati-hati yang ngomong jangan yang ingin orang yang apa

1:06:12

Mungkin dua ibu itu Asian ya

1:06:16

Tiap malam kan aku pernah mau di doain terus mama kasih doa gitu kan buat nanti minum ah buat aku gitu Minumnya dikasih kalau minum kucing I get kind of what not to be no more but I'm going to be a medicus come in on coaching pernah jadi masih becikukan you beer I mean I'm what I could do you can come soon yeah just to do or I got to do pin you know coaching just like any other I don't know how long a crack with a record I'm in a

1:06:41

monster in a movie

1:06:42

the cookies and eat the cookie on drank it. You mean you drank it like... My cat was like that.

1:06:45

You mean you thought you were the one who drank it?

1:06:47

Yeah, I thought I was the one who drank it. Then, I was like, I thought it was the cat who drank it.

1:06:53

The cat got blessed.

1:06:55

My cat went out looking for a boyfriend. Looking for a partner.

1:07:00

It's gone.

1:07:01

It's gone. It went out. Ilang? Ilang, keluar. Seminggu ga balik. Balik-balik, nekil.

1:07:05

Tapi kucing tuh kalo ilang, balik ya?

1:07:06

Balik, balik. Dia, balik.

1:07:08

Kalo kucing tuh ilang, balik.

1:07:09

Nah, kalo laki ilang, balik.

1:07:11

Aduh, nyari kucing.

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Kayak gitu. Makanya, kehidupan kayak gini ya, udah dia. I'm thankful for the experience. I'm happy with my life.

1:07:31

You're getting better.

1:07:33

Yes. I'm sincere now. I'm sincere with what's happening.

1:07:39

The important thing is that we can make people happy.

1:07:42

Making people laugh. We're happy. Seeing people happy, make people laugh. Make them happy.

1:07:45

We are also happy. Because seeing people happy makes us happy too.

1:07:49

And now, we are lazy. We are lazy to make people laugh. We are lazy. We are so lazy. We are always like that.

1:07:57

We are always lazy.

1:07:59

We are always lazy.

1:08:01

That's the process of maturing.

1:08:04

But it's good. I'm sorry. Yeah, the process from the wassaila. Yeah, yeah

1:08:07

Yeah, yeah Yeah, I don't think I took a joke. Oh my god. I didn't have a blue was a busybody. I'm gonna join it to the point Yeah, but I'm a little I can't hear a bit for the small. Yeah

1:08:18

You think it

1:08:21

Gino, yeah I was like, oh my god, so this is how it is when you're an adult. What was the last thing you didn't achieve?

1:08:28

Getting married.

1:08:29

Getting married?

1:08:30

I want to have kids. I want to have more kids so it's more crowded.

1:08:36

More crowded?

1:08:37

My kids are all grown up. My dad is working. He's got two kids and they're still in school. They must have their own world.

1:08:46

The house was filled again.

1:08:48

Yes, it was quiet. Fortunately, there was a cat. I hope it feels like it used to be, it's crowded again. Even though I watched TV, bought Martabak, ate a lot.

1:09:03

But it was delicious.

1:09:04

It was really delicious. It was delicious. It's really delicious.

1:09:05

That's delicious. That's an amazing pleasure.

1:09:08

Yes, putting on a mosquito repellent.

1:09:10

Happiness doesn't have to be luxurious.

1:09:12

Yes, just like that, happy.

1:09:14

Just like that, happy. Happiness is sometimes from our own selves. What we see. That's why, in the old days, if we cemara gitu ya contohnya ya.

1:09:26

Iya, iya. Itu bener-bener ya. Biar kata hidupnya sederhana pas-pasan. Tapi yaudah ngumpulnya itu ya. Momen mahal itu kan momen ngumpulnya.

1:09:34

Orang-orang yang sibuk dan sebagainya gak pernah ngumpul dan sebagainya. Rich, super rich, and so on. Every time they ask me, every time they meet me, their questions are 90% the same. Do you know what the question is?

1:09:51

The question is, are you with your family?

1:09:53

No.

1:09:54

How can you be close to your child?

1:09:57

Oh, I see. Is it usually close to the child?

1:10:01

Because usually when they have a big goal and so on, I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know.

1:10:17

I don't know. I'm Our father, Ian, he'll give us 1k if we step on it. He's taking off his shoes. He's feeling that moment, Om Deddy. That's why our moments are expensive.

1:10:51

Expensive.

1:10:52

Not just for fun.

1:10:53

That's right. We're looking for money, we have to look for money. But the momentum has to be forced.

1:10:58

Yes.

1:10:59

Om Deddy feels it.

1:11:00

It has to be forced.

1:11:02

How about you, Om Deddy? I have to force her to do it. Have you ever been kicked by Aska?

1:11:05

Often. Since long ago.

1:11:07

If I'm fat, yes.

1:11:08

If I'm not now, yes. If she kicks me now, yes. Thank you.

1:11:15

You're still a celebrity.

1:11:16

No. But that's it. Sometimes, it's not just money. I give her money, and she goes to school, and she's good. I bought her a new phone, and so on. It's not like that.

1:11:28

That's why rich kids like to gather around our family. They say, the kids are so crowded.

1:11:34

I teach my kids, but it's not like that. Maybe their phone is from the old days. They don't change it. But, it's okay. They never ask for anything. But I have my own rules. For example, in the past, TV was not allowed in the room.

1:11:49

It's not allowed?

1:11:50

No. Until now, TV is not allowed in the room. There's no TV in the room. My room doesn't have a TV. Aska's room doesn't have a TV. If Nada is sleeping, Nada's room doesn't have a TV.

1:12:01

We watch TV in the living room. Oh, there, crowded, gathering, let people gather. If not, Art itself.

1:12:06

Aska just had a computer after he graduated.

1:12:09

Oh, just, just,

1:12:10

Yes.

1:12:11

Because the computer, I put it in the living room.

1:12:14

Oh, so if you play computer,

1:12:15

In the living room, you know.

1:12:16

But it's okay to play. Yes. But we're there, right? So, we're there too. Some are watching TV, some are playing computer.

1:12:26

But still, it's different.

1:12:28

The piano is there too.

1:12:30

The nuances are different. If you put it in the room, it won't come out of the room. It won't come out of the room.

1:12:36

That's why in my childhood, there's one thing. If we're gathering, I play, come out, gather, gather. While everyone is gathering, don't just play with your phone in your room. Yes, use your phone. He's going to teach you.

1:12:50

If you don't do that, you'll be alone.

1:12:52

It's the modern era, you can use your phone. Yes, play games, watch, TikTok, scrolling.

1:12:58

It's okay to play TikTok, but gather

1:13:00

there, in your room.

1:13:02

In the kitchen, or something like that, right? It's so nice! It's delicious!

1:13:05

You can buy a plate of food there, right?

1:13:06

Yes, I can buy a plate of food there.

1:13:07

I'll go with you, that means!

1:13:08

I'm like that, that's why every Sunday... If you prepare a holiday, I ask everyone... What day is your holiday? Sometimes I like to... I eat, I feel it so that I feel like eating good food, luxurious food.

1:13:25

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

1:13:26

It's like this, if the food is good, but you work first, the right one. Find a good job.

1:13:31

So teach them too.

1:13:32

Yes, spirit.

1:13:33

Yes, teach them together.

1:13:35

Teach them, then if I go home to work at night, right? Bring something. Bring a bottle, like a bottle. Oh, that's happy, right? And then, she said, Take your auntie's bag. She said, look at your auntie, she works until late at night. She carries a bag, she carries something. She's tired.

1:13:50

She said, sometimes I see her, I feel sorry for her. She said, I'm going to work after school. I feel sorry for her. I'm embarrassed to be paid by my mom.

1:14:00

But that's good.

1:14:02

But I was sad like yesterday. My daughter, a girl, said, Auntie, please forgive me for causing you so much trouble. Then she said, please forgive me, Auntie, if I give you money to pay for your school. She cried.

1:14:17

Auntie, please forgive me. She kissed my hand. Auntie hugged me. Please forgive me. I don't want to see you always tired.

1:14:24

But it's because of her father.

1:14:25

And I said, just pray for her aunt. She's still around. If she's not around, she can't give her money. But she's still around. That's why you should go to a smart school.

1:14:36

Learn to be independent. Then you can earn money.

1:14:40

But this happened after her father passed away.

1:14:42

Yes.

1:14:43

When she was already an adult. Because they left me when I was in school. Some were in high school, some were in high school. When I was in high school.

1:14:53

Which one?

1:14:54

There were four of them. Two were already... One was already working.

1:14:59

The one who left the train?

1:15:00

The one who left the train, two.

1:15:01

Those two too?

1:15:02

Two. I have two children. You have two children? I have three children, but I don't have a child yet.

1:15:05

Okay.

1:15:07

But, thank God, I have a child who understands me. Now, I'm like a child. I'm like, I'm sorry for all the trouble I caused you.

1:15:18

But, actually...

1:15:19

I'm embarrassed. Now, I see... You're a salesman, right? You're a salesman at MSAM. I'm embarrassed. And now I see, you're selling dim sum? You're starting to sell dim sum? Yes, auntie. I was given,

1:15:32

I bought a ring from my dad. He bought a ring from auntie. I put it together first. Then I bought the ingredients to make dim sum. Then I got lucky, the ring broke again.

1:15:44

I didn't know if he was like that. He told me a story, he cried. So I don't want to make it difficult for my aunt.

1:15:50

But that means you're the one who taught him.

1:15:52

Yes, because they see me every day. Every day I work, I feel like I'm going home at night. Then they watch TV, I like to be teased.

1:16:01

Oh. Then he...

1:16:04

Hahaha. I'm looking for my own income. Like, I'm selling dim sum, I already have money.

1:16:25

But you're on TV, people are saying you're heartbroken. Yes. I agree. I don't think they can be heartbroken. My aunt is so pitiful.

1:16:34

I'm just acting, watching TV, gimmicks.

1:16:38

But it's still...

1:16:39

Yes, it's pitiful.

1:16:41

I'm asking for money, but I feel pity. I don't know'm still learning. I'm still continuing to teach my students. I mean, I'm still succeeding. Yes, yes. With the way you told us, you're still succeeding.

1:16:59

Because you gave us an example. You gave us an example. You gave us an example. I continued to teach my grandchildren. I mean, it was successful.

1:17:05

Yes, yes. You told me that it was successful. Because you gave an example.

1:17:10

Yes, because I was like that too. I didn't want to be a good son. If you want something, you have to work first. It's not easy to make money.

1:17:19

That's an example.

1:17:20

Yes, because if I'm a good son, later, my great-grandchildren will be lazy.

1:17:23

Oh yes. Yeah, because if I make it good, it will be lazy, right? Oh yeah, because if you keep trying, it will be like this forever

1:17:28

Yeah, that's why PKL cried when he came home I said, this is not enough, the real life is when you work

1:17:35

Oh yeah

1:17:37

So I like to tell you, this is how I work Like this, but why is my aunt not great? Well, just be stupid, just ignore it I'm gonna get me a kidney me see a pic of an entire body. Yeah, we did

1:17:49

Enda black in a jaw day for the Amat in a jaw. I look a little color

1:17:53

Come on, complain. I like her Jana. Just look good. Yeah, yeah, yeah Yes, I was gonna get a carrier. Yes. Yes. Yeah, I can only think I did in a committee He's a Korean And speaking around happy it on your body. No, I'm happy Positive Okay, I'm gonna be somewhere yeah, yeah

1:18:13

Little to you Lyaklah Ismato layak bonga

1:18:19

Nidia Aku dapat dia lagi nitya Yeah I'm gonna honey, I could open it. Yeah, yeah Sunnoh, Toby, yeah, I just did you got it. I'm gonna see you got a orang-orang young

1:18:32

Okay, sayang, but become like a Yeah, I think I'm a guy Micah Towie

1:18:40

Pussy boppa, okay Aku as a young lad Brazil. I'm a subtle how I don brother would see it and be happy.

1:18:45

But there's one thing.

1:18:46

There was a moment when I got a DM. My brother's friend said, Ian, do you know your brother said, while we were walking, I'm proud of my brother. But he never talked to me.

1:19:02

It's normal.

1:19:03

I said, Ian, do you know your brother said, I'm proud of my brother. But he never talked to me. Yeah, it's normal. He talked to someone. He said, you know, your brother told me that he was proud of me. He told my brother. Who did he talk to? He talked to his friend. His friend DMed me on Instagram. He said, yes, thank you.

1:19:16

When he passed away? Yes. He told me. He said, I was proud of my brother. Maybe if he talked to him, he'll be like,

1:19:26

Gang, see ya.

1:19:28

But here's the thing, Yan. Maybe I'll end it here. You said earlier that you're sad, right? Because in the end, or in the middle of your achievement, let's just say you've won twice Pencapaian lu ini, ya kita anggap aja ini lu udah dua kali menang sebagai komedian terbaik lah. Di tengah-tengah pencapaian ini, mereka udah gak ada gitu kan ya?

1:19:56

Iya.

1:19:56

Mereka udah gak ada. Jadi lu sendiri sama ibu lu. Pasti sedih lah. Pasti sedih. Bangga tapi sedih. Tapi ada yang lebih menyedihkan dari itu. Apa? I'm sure you're sad. You're proud, but you're sad. But there's something more sad than that. What? When they're all gone, and you never succeed.

1:20:16

Yes, that's sadder.

1:20:18

That's sadder.

1:20:19

So, if I look at it, your success is actually a sign, maybe because they're gone, your life, your father, your brother, your relatives there, who you gather every week, and so on, it's maybe a fuel. It's a fuel for you to go further, further, further, and further.

1:20:40

Yes, it's a motivation.

1:20:41

It's a motivation. Because if I think about it, now that your brother is gone, you have a bigger responsibility, with your children. If it was your brother, maybe you couldn't teach him. If it was your brother, maybe you couldn't make him look like an example.

1:20:55

But without them, you have people who can see you as an example. Your job is even harder.

1:21:02

Yes, as an example.

1:21:03

Even though your brother is gone, your father is gone, I think it's a good thing. I think it's a good thing. I think it's a good thing. I think it's a good thing. I think it's a good thing. I think it's a good thing. I think it's a good thing. I think it's a good thing. I think it's a good thing. Not only to be proud, but also to be a lesson for her to live in the future.

1:21:29

So this is more than that. I'm happy.

1:21:37

I'm also happy. This is also an example for people. For those who want to be successful, when they give up, and all that. I think, don't do it. Just keep going. It turns out, our struggle will definitely have results.

1:21:54

But we just have to wait for the right moment.

1:21:56

Yes, that's right. That's smart. And when you succeed, remember where you come from.

1:22:02

Yes.

1:22:03

That's it.

1:22:04

Keep being yourself. That's it. You still be yourself. You listen to others.

1:22:08

Sometimes when you succeed, the destruction is when they don't realize where they come from. That's the key to the destruction. Sometimes.

1:22:16

Yes, forget.

1:22:18

Forget.

1:22:20

That's why we help people because we remember where we come from.

1:22:24

Yes, that's why if there's a new person, like a new person who passed away, I I used to be like you, you know me, I was confused who I was talking to, like a fool.

1:22:48

I'm proud of you, I really love you, you're cool.

1:22:51

Thank you, Om Daddy.

1:22:52

Keep it up, I mean, this positive vibe, you have to keep it up. Don't stop giving positive vibes to your friends, to the community.

1:23:01

I have to, I have to. You're cool. I also want to thank the audience who have been supporting me. I'm happy. Who was it before? Now people know me.

1:23:16

I watch the podcast. Thank you for supporting PASKY, the United Nations of Women in Indonesia. Have you ever dreamed of getting an award? No, it's just like this.

1:23:30

Is this your dream? To get an award for singing?

1:23:33

Well, I used to get an award for singing Dangdut. But I got comedy. Sometimes it's beyond my expectations. But in the end, I'm still happy.

1:23:47

The ending is an achievement.

1:23:49

Achievement, thank God. That's why for my friends who are struggling, don't be discouraged. Just go for it. Just break through. As long as it's still right, just break through.

1:24:03

Do you still sing?

1:24:04

Still. Do you still make an album? Do you still make a single? Not yet. I'm a boss. I'm a boss. I'm a boss. I'm a boss. I'm a boss.

1:24:05

I'm a boss. I'm a boss.

1:24:07

I'm a boss.

1:24:17

I'm a singer. That's why. That's why. No, I'm a singer.

1:24:26

Because honestly, when I know, when I made a single, I said it on the podcast. I once thought, why did you make a single? Yeah, right?

1:24:34

People said, what's wrong with him? His face is a comedy. That's what they said. That's what they said. Well, yes. I made a song a few years ago. I said, Boyan, you have a nice voice. He said, I'm a singer. It's better if you see Boyan singing,

1:24:51

don't see his face.

1:24:53

You're an MVP on TikTok.

1:24:55

Yes, thank God. I was an MVP yesterday.

1:24:57

Yes.

1:24:58

MVP on TikTok.

1:25:00

I was an MVP. I had an operation, Daddy. It's being recorded on TikTok. I had an operation. Yeah

1:25:30

See I'm Positive I jealous. Oh yeah, there's five yeah positive guitar. Yeah

1:25:34

Mama Come on yeah Many people came to my house Really? Yes Did you tell them? No, I just laughed I borrowed money, I was confused

1:25:48

Hahaha

1:25:49

No, I mean, you came to my house, how did you know where my house was?

1:25:52

Huh?

1:25:53

Yes, I was confused too, people knew I was surprised, I was at my own house Who was it that came back and stole my stuff?

1:26:00

Oh, maybe there was a trip to Sonoh, you went in Hahaha I'm afraid of being in trouble. I'm afraid of going home.

1:26:06

I'm the one who promised. Who else would I be confused with? I'm afraid of being in trouble.

1:26:12

Buen.

1:26:14

Thank you.

1:26:16

I'm so proud of you. I wish you success, keep working, keep entertaining people. Because your entertainment, especially in the world, I'm Sometimes, a smile and a laugh can be the most effective medicine.

1:26:45

That's right.

1:26:46

And you're the doctor, right?

1:26:47

Alhamdulillah, Om Daddy.

1:26:49

Thank you.

1:26:50

Alhamdulillah. A lot of people DM me. They said, I'm waiting for my turn at the hospital. I'm watching BoYan. I'm having fun. Thank you, brother.

1:26:58

Everyone DM me. That's how it is. I'm like, ya entertain people when they're down. Because you can change people's lives without realizing it. Yes. If I change, what will happen?

1:27:10

What?

1:27:11

I change.

1:27:12

No, other people. Oh, I change. You can change people's lives without realizing it.

1:27:20

Yes, but I don't realize that I can change know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know.

1:27:26

I don't know. I don't know.

1:27:27

I don't know.

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