DESTA AKHIRNYA MAMPIR KE KANTOR HABIB JAFAR LAGI

Meanwhile, I'm still... I'm still...

Yeah

Everything What did he give me? I will always try to help him find a solution

And the main tie-in is the kids, Trio Strong

But no, Bip I'm still with him... I don't know, I feel... If I'm married... My goal is... Crying

No

You... That's it He said I'm a. My goal is to cry. You... That's it.

Don't mention it.

Don't mention it.

I'm a good man. I never learn. I'll be picked up by someone. I'm a good man. You'll tell Habib! You're so dangerous!

You're playing Fadel, right? After teaching my kids...

Your kids?

Why is it wrong? Is it wrong in your eyes? Or is it wrong in people's eyes? Teaching kids is wrong. So, coaching is wrong. They think I... They think I'm wrong in people's eyes Teaching kids is wrong Coach Pedal is wrong

I thought the students were girls Your kids are girls No, I mean I taught a lot of people Opening a course for them People think

No, I'm not I helped my friend's academy I don't know who I met But people think Because there'm dating a girl. They post on their Instagram, so I feel like I only accept girls. But you don't post about guys?

I reject.

No, I don't.

I don't know, because there are guys out there. You don't want to be helped, do you? No, I'm not like that. People think I'm a pervert. People see me as a wild person. I'm a tough guy. You said you're a bocetuna. I'm a bocetuna.

There are many kinds of... Interpretations. Yes, different interpretations. Right? What do you think? I like men's hobbies.

I used to play skateboard. I played band. Men can be said as a man's habit It doesn't have to be everywhere Right? People like it, so it's like Damn, it's true

No, no, no No, no, no I've changed Honestly, I've changed Especially since I have a child I really appreciate women Especially since I have a kid I really appreciate women

Especially my kid is a girl This is really weird My kid is a girl and my mom is a girl Your mom and your mom are both girls You're saying my mom is a girl? What do you mean?

I really care about women because my kid is a girl So if I do something to a woman, my son will...

I'm very over-thinking.

But is it normal? I think many people, in general, become good or take care of themselves because of their family. Because they don't want to trouble their family. And especially if he has a daughter,

he becomes better to the girls out there because he wants to take care of his daughter. Can you continue, Bip? Can you stop holding your thumb?

I'm so annoyed.

People are talking.

I'm so annoyed.

I was told by my team that Desta only came to the podcast because he's just a friend. No. So, we just hang out.

Wrong.

I only came to his place in Kobo Zero because he wanted to die. Seriously. Because he wanted to die. So, he asked me to go to his place many times. Des, come to my place. I want to talk. No.

I rejected everything. Because I didn't feel like people can bully me. I don't feel like I'm happy with people. Why do they love my life? For me, but for

some people, they want to know. But I never want like Melanie Ricardo, who's the one who invited her, I never want that. Suddenly, she sent me a message. When he was infected by COVID-19, he was in the hospital.

He was infected by the vaccine. He sent me a message.

The vaccine? I'm just kidding.

I'm serious.

That must be a joke.

It's okay. He sent me a message. He asked me if I wanted to help. I was in a really bad condition. Oh, my God. It was really hard.

I just wanted to talk to people around me. I wanted to talk to you. I asked you if you wanted to. I thought, okay. But, remember, Tedet. I didn't want to be paid at all.

I was pressured from the start. How many sponsors do you want? As long as it's not the same as the sponsor that's sponsoring me. I... The important thing is not to have that. But I never want the rest.

Because I'm pure as your friend. I came to help.

Not to help. I mean, let's talk. This is the second time this is the second time, and the principle is still the same Bip, I want

you want to die?

no, I want to die

I was talking about that

I want to die because of Ramadan yesterday we want to kill the lust in us

wow, cool this is the real Habib

the new one, cool No, he also said

I want to be, you want to have a brand Whatever it is, it's okay As long as it's not a scam and don't have to pay me

Yes, indeed I am, if it's the same as my Rafi Rafi is also very kind to me He's kind to everyone So if for example He pays, for example I go to his event

I never want to accept his money. Because I think he's my friend, we help each other. I help you, you help me a lot too, from events and all kinds of things. I know his kindness, so I know. I'm pure, I want to be your friend. Unless if there's a sponsor, for example, he gets a sponsor, he's not from me, he's from a sponsor, then that's it.

That's a different thing. I'm like, oh, yeah, whatever. But if it's from her, I never want to accept it. I came here purely because... You've been my... a place to write a lot of letters.

That's right.

Back in the day, when I was about to get a divorce, I wrote a lot of letters to you. I took you to your old office, the parking lot, which was so difficult I just turned around many times I turned around, I went back again

I went back again Now, it's crazy

But I'm still like this The coffee is still like that The best ginger coffee I've ever had

Amazing

Do you ever think If you open a coffee shop, it's gonna be good. Why don't you think about it? Why don't you start a business? I don't know. I want to. Because in Islam...

Why don't you... That's what I'm talking about.

It's true.

This is what I know.

Yes.

Trading.

Trading. Sunnah.

Sunnah, trading, halal.

Especially if it's coffee because in the past, trading was a way for the scholars or traders to make da'wah you know that it's good if it's coffee, we can talk

you know that I know that, but I don't know sorry, sorry, I'm sorry but I'm happy I'm really happy to know you. You've opened up my mind a lot. Maybe it's because I'm an introvert.

I'm overthinking, I'm a psychic. I don't really trust Zodiac. But what they described as sensitive, moody, overthinking, it's all true in my Zodiac. I was born on March 15th, which means I'm a psychic.

I'm very overthinking. I even went to the psychiatrist. That's why. I can think of something that hasn't happened. For example, my kid is playing on the stairs. I can think of it. Two minutes later, he keeps playing,

and he falls, and he's bleeding. What should I do?

But that's not deja vu. It's more like you're just comfortable Something that you don't need to think about So I went to the psychiatrist and asked him why He said, you're thinking that something hasn't happened yet You don't need to be like that Live your life as well as you can

And you, here's a good message So listen to this, Bill So he said You can love your child, your wife, whoever you love, but don't overdo it. Because if you overdo it, we will definitely separate one day. We don't know when. If that day comes, what will you do if you lose someone?

Because without that feeling, a father who lost his child must be very heavy. Heavier than a child who lost his father. I have never met a father who is still alive after leaving his child. Even if he is still alive, his soul is gone. Sad.

Don't cry, don't cry. But that's true, now I feel like whatever it is I don't even think about myself I think of everything for my children

everything, whatever it is when I'm on my way out, I think of not for me, but for my children fortunately, my children are very close to me, I still support them at night still everything they tell Fortunately, my kids are really close to me. I still talk to them at night. They tell me everything.

So I tell them, just think of me as your friend. Just tell me. Not as a scary dad. I always joke with them. Because I'm used to being joked.

I dance a lot. Maybe you don't relate. They're like... You were too old.

Like my father. My uncle was like that. I was so old. I was with my brother in the bed. My uncle came. He had a funny story.

There was an Indonesian guy. He went to America. He bought a drink I want a Coca-Cola He didn't understand What is that? Coca-Cola? Coca-Cola He laughed

And I was like, where is the funny part?

Right?

Maybe for him it's funny

That's because you're a comic book fan It's not funny for you, right?

I asked if it's funny Coca-Cola or Coca-Cola Right? Just as my dad.

But Madura's humor is like that. Coca-Cola, Coca-Cola.

Oh, yes. But... My family is Chinese.

It's different.

Maybe it's funny in China. My dad was like that too. Daddy. You call me daddy, right? My dad, my brother, my sister My father bought all the band equipment The band shape was like Little Bondi

What is Bondi?

Short

Oh Gatel, Keleponan Wutji Gatel's soles are sand, can you imagine? My brother and I were like, where is the key? Mitsubishi's car was replaced by Ibu City M

Oh, with him?

Yes, so he had a Mitsubishi car replaced by Ibu CTM Oh, with him? Yes, so he has a Mitsubishi car The logo was replaced by Ibu CTM And Daihatsu, he's a driver Mercedes Benz became Mercedes Benz And my brother said, my dad is such a son

But maybe that's what my son is feeling now

Right

And maybe that's his creative side Yes As a comedian, his creativity finally came side yes yes yes as a comedian, his creativity my father is not a comedian my father is an artist what else?

he's a descendant of art from there buy this tumblr I'll help you no one accepts money I'll help you it's between helping or being chased by a mouse

It's too hard selling

Relax, you're a client

But, if you're smart, do you bring tumbler? I do

I recommend you to buy it tomorrow

I'll buy it tomorrow

No, really

Wait, I need it Because I don't drink white water I almost never drink white water Drink it first, don't be surprised Drink it first, relax Drink it, babe

Drink it, nice Heard you're a hard selling You're a hard selling I'm coughing again I rarely drink white water

Because I don't like the taste But there's no taste in white water I don't like the taste of white water, I don't like the taste of water I like the taste of the flavor The important thing is the taste So what do you taste in the water?

I always drink sweet water What do you drink? Syrup? Sugar, I always drink sweet water But that's it

But your body is strong I always drink sweet drinks But that's it But you're a bit fast That's why, I went to the doctor I checked all the medical checkups, my sugar levels were good But I can't tell the name of the medicine Because white water is good But it turns out that my sugar levels are good

My cholesterol, among the DUDAS minus one That I was with, Raffi, Gading, and Aril We checked the medical We checked a blood test and everything. I was the best. I didn't have cholesterol. I didn't have asamulat. I didn't have sugar. They had everything.

So, I was like, what's with my life?

I was not healthy. I was still smoking. But you were a strong athlete. That was my run, Bib.

Did I leave anything?

It's not a run. It's more about healing. Back then, I wasn't like this. Running, I mean... Back then, you were a musician. Now, you're a sportsman. Back then, I was a musician.

But I can't say that it's running. Now, when I'm at home, I'm not tired. I can't sleep. I get stressed. I think about my kids, how come their parents are not complete, all kinds of things.

Everything I thought about, it made me stressed. So I had to look for activities. That's why I exercise every day. Even when I'm shooting, I still have time to play sports when I get home. So that when I get home, I can sleep right away.

I'm tired, that's how I feel now. But it becomes a refuge if you've never been to a psychologist or a psychiatrist. But if you've been to a psychologist or a psychiatrist, it becomes healing. It's the same as religion. If you suddenly enter religion

without the right teacher as a refuge, and without the guidance from a psychologist or a psychiatrist who consider it important, not just as a as faith but also healing it can actually be dangerous

Okay, but now I want to ask how to choose the right teacher for us? This is different, right? Many people have different ideas We will discuss this later while we are there

How to choose the right teacher? Because teachers are all different, right? The teaching is like this, like this, like this Where should I go? That's what sometimes makes me confused. Back then, for me,

Islam is my religion. My religion is Islam. I was born from a family with different religions. My mom is Christian, my dad is Muslim.

And I met my mom for the first time yesterday. And my mom, even though she's non-Muslim, she's a fan of Habib Jafar amazing

applause bro

when I came, she was like I love watching this and that when I talked to Adessa, she was like, watch it even though the podcast is over, she still watched it

and when you came back, she was like what did she say? What was he talking about? That's what makes me feel connected to you. I was born in a very universal family. Because our religions are different. My brother was a Christian. My sister was a Christian.

My mother was a Christian. So, at home, we celebrate Christmas. We celebrate Christmas tree at home. On Eid, my mother cooks ketupat. After the prayer, they're all dressed up. So, it's really beautiful, the tolerance.

But now I feel like, I have to go to a teacher. I think a lot of people think, why is Islam like this? There's a reason. I'm just being honest. I'm just being honest.

I feel like, where do I go not lying, I'm just being honest, I feel like, where do I go?

So I'm kind of lost. For me, both in theory and in my experience, one of the things that you need to invest in your life is to find a teacher, because it's not easy to find a teacher, especially a teacher who really really your heart's teacher. In Islam, it's called Syekh ul Ghulub, your heart's teacher.

It's really not easy. I finally met Habib Jinn, and it was when I was in Jakarta, I was met by him, and he didn't immediately consider himself a teacher, and I didn't immediately consider him my teacher.

I once told him that my process from greeting him to kissing him, it took me 3-5 years. Even though he was already praying, I saw that I won't be impressed by people just because of their appearance. But because of their content, their attitude, and what they say. So, until a few years later, I kept on getting more and more humble.

Now, I've kissed their hands back and forth, three times, many times. But can I ask? Even though the teachers are religious,

they are still human.

Still. I mean, there are mistakes. There are... Humans never forget their mistakes. So, I feel sometimes, if I consider him as a teacher,

we are still human. You know? You are my friend, you don't teach me, I'm happy to talk to you, I can write to you, it's good.

But if someone feels like, you're like this, like this, I feel like, why is it like this? That's why, don't just think of the Prophet Muhammad as a teacher, it has been repeatedly affirmed by Allah in the Qur'an that he is a normal human being. It is important for us to position him not only as a prophet and messenger, but as a human being so that he can be recognized. We don't say, he's a prophet and messenger, I'm not anyone, because his main function is as a recognition. So it is affirmed that he is a human being. And in some hadiths it is confirmed that in worldly matters,

he sometimes teaches others. Sometimes even in matters of spirituality, religion, he also takes lessons from other religions. So he once met a farmer, then he suggested, why not just make was not like this. The farmer said, no, it's not like that.

If so, it will be bad. Then Prophet Muhammad said, Antumma'lamu bi'umuridu an yakum. Farming means you are better than me. You know more than me.

He was still like that?

He was still humble.

He still accepted that he was not his master, he could learn from that person.

Correct. that he is not his own, he can learn from that person. So in terms of humanity, he actually learned from many people. Then even in religious matters, because Islam is a closed religion, which previously had previous religions that came, right? He once met a Jew who fasted, his name was Asura fasting, in the month of Muharram, on the 10th of Muharram, they fasted. Then the Prophet said, we have more right to this goodness, so we must also fast.

Because let's compete for goodness. Fasting is a big error, according to the Qur'an. So he was open, even he said, you learn from anywhere, even from people of different religions, even from people who are not religious, even though from your enemy, if there is a lesson, take it because wisdom is our treasure, Muslim people. At least you learn from your enemy so you don't become like that. So that's why the pharaoh was immortalized by Allah to be a lesson for us.

Even if the teacher, that's why I said, you just invest to find a teacher. How do I think the best investment for our children is to provide education to them, access to teachers to them. I often say that the Prophet said when he ordered Sina Mu'ad bin Jabal to be a teacher in Yemen, the Prophet said, be a teacher who holds three principles. First, make it easy, don't make it difficult. So, if people want to repent, if people want to emigrate,

if people want to be good, make it easy, don't make it difficult. Don't make it difficult. How to make it difficult, Bip? Maybe in the end, he just came and wants to emigrate, you wear a hijab, the hijab should be like this. Just go through it as a spiritual journey

Let it flow as a spiritual journey And he finds what is comfortable in him, in his heart Yes, we invite him to witness that God exists and the Prophet Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah It means he is the one who witnesses, so our job is only to guide him to witness for himself Then the second one, make others happy, not to scare them. Like you said, it's hell.

It's not okay to judge. So the Prophet said, spread Islam with joy, not with fear. And the third, unite with the way of Abraham. If you can't unite on the basis of religion, unite them for the sake of humanity that's it sometimes people who are

deeply involved in religion it's like I feel the relationship between humans is like a shrimp not like this anymore

when you get to know religion you become more warm you're being cocky It's not as warm as before When you get to know the religion better, it's not warm anymore You're being cocky No, I'm just setting the place first You're sitting like this

No, I'm not Like someone who can't stand it What kind of chair is this? The chair can move like this

I'm surprised

What are you doing?

No, I'm just being lazy You're so easy to distract distracted. Yes, I do.

I give him oil.

He's a beggar, he's like that.

So, I like the way he treats me. Right. Not the way he burns me. Maybe the point is the same. Because Allah said in the Quran, "...Ut'u ila sabili rabbika bil hikmah." Allah said in the Quran, Teach people in a creative way, wise.

So sometimes the point is the same, but the way of teaching is different. That's why I was taught by Abid Jindan, Learn from people who before you hear the words, you have felt calm and inspired by their attitude. So from the smile and so on, people just calm down. Like before, from his attitude, from his smile, etc. He's just a person who's just pretending.

Like before, even the Prophet's uncle, Sina Abu Talib, we don't know what his death was like. How you and your mother, you don't know what happened to his heart, what's in his mind, what will happen when he dies. it's a private matter, even the most private matter with God. Therefore, the prerogative to put anyone into heaven and hell,

in Islam, is God's prerogative. You can't judge people like this and that. You only know the theory, but what will the reality be like? It's God God knows. That's why the problem with Indonesians is that they often bring God to a matter that is actually completed at the level of RT

and often take matters that are actually God's business. So it's back and forth. Those who shouldn't have to bring God to a level of RT, bring God, wow that God can solve it. In the level of RT, you should think that God is so powerful. You should not think that God is the one who solve it. But, you should think that God is the one who solve it. He is the one who cosplay as God.

And that is the most dangerous. Fear of God is the one who drowns in the infidelity and the polytheism because he feels like God. If you are the kids now, you're also investing in them. That's why you invited me to...

Yes, so they can also... get new insights from Habib, who is my friend, who I know how he is, and all that. My kids have very religious. And smart.

They fast, even a kid like that, they fast, they never miss their prayer, they never miss their tarawih. For example, with me, sometimes I feel sorry for them.

In the morning, they wake up early in the morning, and sometimes I can't see their faces. That's how it is with my kids. Sometimes, I wake him up a little bit. I didn't want to.

He said, it's okay, he's still a student. I said, it's okay. I don't need to pray. I mean, I don't need to pray. I just let him sleep.

He's still sleepy. In the morning, they were angry. Why didn't I awaken? Why didn't you awaken me?

You should have done that.

You should have given me water. It's okay. You should have prayed.

You should have given me water. That's what the Prophet said. Oh, really? Yes, because you were so pitiful to him.

To ourselves?

To me?

To the children? To the children. I mean, with our own love language. If the Prophet taught us that, by giving us water, it's really like that. And they, wherever I was, when I was performing at the Pesta Pora,

I was synchronized at that time, I brought them there. Even at Maghrib,

they prayed in tents.

Even though they didn't pray. No, they didn't. They just brought their prayer mat. They wanted to pray, all kinds of things. But they don't pray. They just bring their prayer mat. They just pray. Even if they are abroad, even if they are in Japan, Korea,

or even if it's cold, they still need to pray. Their mother's education is good. I really appreciate it. Their religious education is good. It's useful for them.

I really agree with that. But, I also have to... have my own opinion about... how I should be as a father. Sometimes, I also... feel like...

I'm too strict. Something like that, right? So, I have to neutralize it. I talk to them. I never scold them. I scold them if they lie. That's scolded them. I scolded them if they lied.

That's what I did. I scolded them if they lied, if they were not honest with me, I could get really mad. And that's the principle of religion, right? Yes.

Even all religions. So I felt like that. But I have a friend, babe. I also asked him a question. Where is more sinful, a person who has finally come out of Islam,

or a person who has come out of Islam because of a group of people who made him come out of Islam? Which is more sinful? If a person has come out of Islam, it is clear, even accepted as a mortal person,

it is a great sin, that is, being disliked and disbelieved. But what people often don't realize is that the task of all people as Muslims, the Prophet said, conveying even one verse to others, means he has a task and responsibility, even a burden, to preach,

to invite people to Islam. Just like the Prophet's duty, to make Islam, people who didn't know Islam before. As good as he could. So, if you are the reason people don't like Islam,

even disappointed with Islam and eventually leave Islam without comparing their sins, it's very serious. Don't make people leave Islam. Although in the end, it's not the burden that is in us, because everyone has the right to choose their own religion.

Don't be distracted by others. But if we are the reason for people to decide to leave Islam, imagine, said Prophet Muhammad, you accuse people of being non-believers, and in fact they are not, you are the non-believer. The non-belief will return to you.

Imagine, this makes people become infidel. How serious it is. Because of that, there is a story from Jaladin Rumi. No, no, this is...

Don't be like that, I'm distracted.

So...

What's wrong?

So, Jaladin Rumi, in his masnawi, tells about... So there is a story about a man who was a Muslim. His voice was bad, but he forced him to do the azan. And finally, there was a couple who were of different religions. They were not married yet, but they were engaged. The father was a non-Muslim, and he was a bit upset.

His son wanted to marry a Muslim, but Muslim, afraid that he would become a Muslim. And one day, his son came home, he said, I'm not getting married, and I hate Islam. Why? Because I heard a call to prayer that bothered me,

in my ear, from an unnaturally loud voice. And finally, he came to the call to prayer shop, and said, thank you, my son doesn't want to go to Islam, he even to Islam, she hates Islam and broke up with her fiance, who is a Muslim, because of you.

That's a criticism of Jaliludin Rumi, how serious he is, a person who becomes a reason for others to get guidance. Actually, now there are so many people, we are called Shia, We are sharing, not inviting, I mean explaining Islam like this, so that they can log in or... At least they can respect Islam,

so there is no conflict between religions. Now, there are many images that make all kinds of things, where, outside the war, all kinds of things, considered hard, even many countries have considered Islam as a tough religion.

So, how can people enter Islam if the image is like that? That's what's difficult, right? That's why we are responsible, especially as part of the Muslims, to make ourselves as the pillars or a messenger of Islam itself.

Silon Seven?

No, not that messenger.

Sorry, sorry.

No, I mean the person who represents Islam itself. Don't let it be that because they see us, they become anti-pati to Islam. It should be because they see us, they become interested in Islam. So, actually, each of us is an Islamic ambassador. And what is more effective and better to make people be kind to Islam,

whether it is good or bad, is not a message, but mainly impression. Because the message is not necessarily impressive, but the impression is definitely valuable. That's why the Prophet invites us to be a good example of good character, not just to be a good example or message.

Well, often Muslims say they teach Islam, but their morals, their behavior, do not represent the value of Islam itself. Who? Say the name? Yes, don't say the name, Gid No need to say the name

You don't have to change it

I mean, just to be clear

But I'm happy to come to Desta on Ramadan and I don't feel like the fasting month is almost halfway So if the fasting that feels the most is usually thirsty when the Maghrib prayer is called, the most sought after first is definitely water

Wait, I haven't finished yet The first thing we look for in Maghrib prayer ritual is water. Hahaha. Oh, not yet.

And there are still many of us who don't drink enough. While maintaining the body is also part of maintaining safety. And drinking water is one of the Sunnah of the Prophet when breaking the fast. That's why I'm going to bring my own tumbler from Taiso

It's made of stainless steel

SUS304, the outer and inner part So, cold drinks can last up to 24 hours I can last up to 5 days with a stone, babe For hot drinks, it can last up to 5 days, babe. See? For a hot drink, it can last up to 12 hours. Imagine that. It's easy to bring because there's a silicone handle.

And it's safe to bring because it's leak proof. So, you don't have to worry about it leaking in your bag. Sometimes, worship is started from simple things. Including not letting yourself be dehydrated. But, you still bring a tumbler, right? Even though you always... always exercise, and my tumbler is all Taiso

wow Taiso, yes, yes, yes

no Taiso tagline like that

drink first from the Taiso read it, Bid hehehe oh, you're a person oh, great great, thank you

well I'm surprised, I just knew Oh, great. Thank you.

What surprised me is... I just found out that you're a padel trainer.

Yes. I have a certificate.

A certificate.

L1 certificate from M3 Spain. I got it in Bali.

I got it in Bali. For three days. What was it? You got tested? Tested. You got a sabu if you're in a condo? Sabu?

Sabu? Sabu? No, no, no. It's more like a certificate that you can be a coach in Indonesia. In Spain,

there's still a level of L1, L2. L2 is already a coach L4, L5, L6, L7, L8, L9, L10, L11, L12, L13, L14, L15, L16, L17, L18, L19, L20, L21, L22, L23, L24, L23, L24, L23, L24, L23, L23, L23, L23, L23, L23, L23, L23, L23, L23, L23, L I'm an introvert, but I like to share what I can do. I used to learn drum, so I taught them. I also hosted seminars and campus. I'm happy to share my experience.

Do you want to be like Ata? Ata was in Futsal, but you were serious about it. You brought the were so serious in Futsal. You took the team to the national team.

I remember. I'm in the 60th national team.

60th national team? Yes. You have the potential to be popular.

Potential?

You have the competition.

Sorry. I heard it wrong. Oh, my God. I think I need to drink from Taiso.

No, I mean...

I'm so angry. This is crazy.

Do you have any desire to... No, I'm already 49 years old, Bip. It's impossible to be an athlete. Not an athlete. No, I will help... What? Team Padel Indonesia?

I will help Padel Indonesia to keep growing. I'm a passionate person. When I'm in something, I'm serious. Whatever it is.

I'm shooting... I've finished shooting World Cup. Dono. I was serious about everything. I was shooting... I was done with the Warcop. You were surprised. You look like Dono.

But I... It wasn't my job. When I was shooting, I was with the on-location editor. I was always helping him.

I told him to move the comedy who was on location, to tell them to move the comedy to this location. Until finally, when the editing process was done, I joined with the director, Mas Darwin, to help with the input,

the supervision for the comedy,

I was directly involved in all of it. You're the same in Vindes, you're the perfectionist. I was the one who was directly involved in all of it. You were also like that in Fiend Days. That's why, something that I thought was lacking, instead of giving it to others, I was the one who was directly involved in the discussion. I even joined the grading.

I went to Bangkok to colorize the film. I made the theme song. I made the new theme song for the movie I made the theme song for the movie It's an old song, but the lyrics were changed

I made the lyrics

Where?

In Login

It's different, first you log in

I don't know what kind of event this is

No, you just know the event

I just know, but I keep watching The story on Ria Ricis channel right?

Yes Yes, I log in there on Deddy Composer I said Ria Ricis Oh, Ria Ricis

You're not looking for squishy review right?

No, I'm looking for the old-fashioned reviews.

Sorry, I'm sorry.

Well, for me, I joined all of them because I can't... Something that I... that doesn't fit me, I think I have to fix it.

I tried to fix it, but it's not working. I made a new theme song. There's a new song in Warcop that I tried to... I made a new theme song There's a new song in Warkop that tries to be like like Ngobrol di Warung Kopi but this is the new version

Ngobrol di Warung Kopi, the lyrics are from the old days I changed it to a more modern lyric Ngobrol di what? The cafe?

Warung Kopi is still the same Ngobrol di Warung Kopi, coffee, get there and here Ngobrol di Warung Kopi I can't talk in the cafe You can't talk in the cafe You can't talk in the cafe You can't talk in the cafe

You can't talk in the cafe

You can't talk in the cafe

You can't talk in the cafe You can't play the guitar. I want to play the guitar. Yes. It used to be a cool symbol. Bro. It's good to play the guitar alone. He doesn't know. Music is forbidden, bro.

Answer, babe. What's forbidden is the sound of spoon and fork when we eat,

while our neighbors are hungry.

That's great, Waseem! Answer, babe. The forbidden sound is spoon and fork when we eat, while our neighbor is hungry.

That's great, Wase!

Yes, that's right.

Or if it's false, bro.

It's annoying. Yes, it's annoying. So, you don't want to listen to it.

That's right.

But,

what is it? Padel means you only came here? Yes, I was interested in it.

I talked a lot with the federation about how to build this.

Are you optimistic that this will not be a trend? No, no. Padel is a popular place now. Almost all people's stories are about Padel. But, some people say that the field is getting quiet. Actually, it's not because there's so crowded. Almost all the stories are about playing padel. True. But, some people say that the field is getting quiet. Actually, it's not because there's no interest.

But, everywhere is a padel field. Back then, I used to play padel in Puri. I played, I visited Puri. Because it's crowded in the south.

If we don't want to play there, there's an empty field. We visited there. Now, you just go out to the complex, the field is full. So people just look for the ones that are close. Condet has three, bro.

Oh yeah? How many?

No, no.

Codet, that's Codet.

Condet alone has three, imagine. That's why Cipete, oh God, there are so many. Yes, that's not that the interest is decreasing, but the field is really big. But it's still crowded, in my opinion. It's still crowded. The proof is that there are still many who are building padel fields.

The PBI, the Federation, is trying to make a lot of achievements for young people. Even from a very young age. In Spain, they've been playing padel for four years.

Four years playing padel?

Yes. They've learned it. They've been taught how to do it. Because they left their homes, and the padel court is everywhere in Spain. I've talked to my coach, when I got my certificate,

he said, you, Indonesia, can Indonesia reach the top 100? It's hard. It's almost impossible. Because we've been playing for 4 years. How long have you been playing? 3 years?

3 years ago, most of them were tennis players. Nowadays, in Indonesia, only a few people are in the top 1, who are not from tennis. There are people from basketball, padel, but not as many as tennis. Everyone is from tennis. I'm also from tennis.

Just a little bit of racket. Yes, racket, ping pong, but they've been playing padel since they were kids. They've been playing volleyball. Is there a world championship, Des? Where? Padel.

Do you have a world championship, Des? Where? Padel. Is there a world championship in Padel?

Of course there is.

There's Tapia, Galan, Lebron. There's a lot. Is there a Padel Olympics? I don't know about the Olympics. I think SEA Games or Asian Games, there's still an exhibition.

But it's already started. It's already started. I don't want to be's Indonesia or what, but... It's already started to be criticized there.

Once again, I don't want to be an athlete, but I'm more concerned about how to, together, we, the federation, to make various things that can make Padel more advanced and more...

to improve the class. That's all. As for me. So far, my students like me, because padel is a sport of patience.

It's not about kicking. Kicking is killing. Killing. Padel is about patience. It's hard to turn it off Because if you get hit by a wall, you can still hit it

Because you...

Like that

Don't mention it! Don't mention it! I'm not a padel player I never learn I'm going to be picked up by someone I'm not a pad'm gonna get picked up by someone I'm just teaching him

You're gonna get Habib in trouble

I'm not teaching him I mean, if you teach them they'll be happy because they've learned the basics and if they win a tournament and they can win, they'll report it to me

Coach, I won here yesterday It's like a satisfaction They're happy to share and they'll get the result Coach, I won the championship yesterday. It's like a satisfaction. I'm happy to share it.

And they got the result. Do you know what I'm talking about?

Not yet.

Not yet, right? The sarong I'm wearing.

You're wearing it again? You're wearing a lot.

Just keep it.

The most popular sarong in the world. Great.

Good.

It's so cool.

Because he never... During Ramadhan, from Vindeh to Raffi's event, he always borrows sarong. Right? You borrowed sarong from Raffi's show He always borrowed his sarong Right? Yesterday at Raffi's show you borrowed your sarong

Because I didn't know I didn't know I had to bring my sarong

I wore shorts When there's Habib, there has to be sarong

Where's the smell of sarong?

Not my sarong

Deniz's sarong

Oh, Deniz's sarong The smell of sarong I'm Dennis' nephew Oh, you're Dennis' nephew That's great So now, your life is more about your kids? You could say that But I'm still with Caca We're still good friends

I still... Let me put it this way If Caca is in trouble I'm still the first person to defend her If she's in trouble I'll be the first person to defend him. If he had any difficulties, I would be the first to help him.

If he got married again, we don't know what the future holds. If he got married again, I would be the one to help him. But now, he is... Maybe he is my ex-wife, but he has never been my ex-wife's mother.

Never. He is my ex-wife's mother, and I still have to take care of him. I'm still very good to him.

Even if he ruins his house, I'll still...

As simple as that? You still take care of him?

I'm not talking about the material, it's a must because I'm still taking care of the kids

and helping them. How long did it take you to learn how to change the ball?

What?

It's so easy. It's so easy, just spin it. Spin it, and it'll bounce down.

You're a bad person.

But one of the real...

Good one

No, this is one of the real quotes that says divorce is not a stop of love but a stop of illness I think it's Desta and Caca Love never goes away Because I said earlier

If she says she loves me, I would always love him. Because he's the mother of my children. No matter what. No matter what he does... We never know what the future holds. But until now, I'm still...

I'm still with him. Everything. What he told me, I will still... I'm still... I'm still... I'm still... I'm still... I'm still... I'm still...

I'm still... I'm still...

I'm married, my goal is to cry.

No.

You are...

Because there's Jesus.

Why are you there?

No, no, no.

I'm going to take your sarong.

No, no. No, I mean, actually, I'm answered it. I said that even though we're divorced, it's not because of... something like... for example,

cheating, or something like that. It's not at all. But it's more like... something that is different. The vision is different. The vision and everything.

It's better than fighting at home. In the end, it's like everything. It's better than fighting at home. In the end, it's like that. It's better than being uncomfortable. I don't need to tell you the details of the vision. But the difference in vision is crucial in a marriage. But until forever,

I will never fall in love with him.

No matter what he does, I will still love him. Because marriage is about living together, not just living together. Many people choose to live together, even though they don't live together anymore. I think that's a negative thing.

Because Islam is a humanistic religion that gives you space not only to get married, but also to get divorced when it's the best for you.

But now I'm still thinking, in my current mindset,

I won't give my kids a new mom. As far as now, you won't give them a new mom? Yes, because, like I said before, I don't know, it feels weird, having a new mom. I don't know. You can't imagine?

I can't imagine because I'm thinking about my son's feelings. Is that just your anxiety? Or did you ever feel sorry for your son?

No.

No? That's your feelings? My anxiety is just my sadness. I'm not willing to do that. I didn't want to be a stranger. Even though I... I love him so much. But I still...

I couldn't do it. But what if your son loves him too? He's the one who loves me. He loves you. He's also welcoming. He's happy. He can also take care of your son. I mean, you love him. You're still in love with him. And he's also a nice guy.

He can also take care of your son. I can't. At this moment, I can't. I can't go there. I don't know. I can't predict my future.

But at this moment, my children are my first priority. I still cry about my kids. I still cry when I think about it. I still have pictures of Caca at my house. I still have Instagram posts.

It's a part of my life. Yes, it's a part of your life. I don't want to change the condition of my house so that my kids can be comfortable with it.

That I'm their father.

Oh, usually during Ramadan...

Get in.

Many people are confused about what hamper to send. But I'm not confused anymore. Because this Tyson can be a personal hamper. What's cool is that you can engrave the name or picture on the tumbler. And in Islam, giving is not about the price, but about the intention and attention. It's not just something that's gone in a few days,

but it can be used every day, useful, and God willing, it can be a reminder to take care of yourself so that our body is always healthy because the body is safe. And this is also not a seasonal gift, but it can be a loyal companion in every activity with a good model design,

many color choices so it's suitable to be given to family, friends, even colleagues

so, stay hydrated, stay blessed

that really helps, I find it hard to read the tongue bro

okay, and the last one

sorry, once again I want to emphasize that Caca is a very good person in every way. Once again, beyond the vision, I can't say what vision, but more than that, she is a very fun person. She's a perfect match. I remember my mom. I remember when I was about to marry her.

We were about to get married. Suddenly, something happened. We were about to break up. We suddenly something happened and we were like, we can't do it anymore. My mom said, if you want to let him go,

you will have to make a vow. Maybe you can't meet him again. I was so confused. I went back to my house and we got married. It was true, he was brilliant

He was brilliant for me So once again I will be with him forever Even if he wants to get married again If I meet him later He gets married again, I don't know what will happen

Until his guys are evil Or his guys are being mean to him I will f**k those guys

You mean you will save his marriage? Yes So my podcast will be safe

Okay

That's rough

I will face it and I will defend Caca Fight for that I always amazed by Destat because when he tells stories about other people, he tells the good side of other people and as if he's blind, he's the same as when he criticizes other people or the same as the shortcomings and mistakes of other people. But when he tells stories about himself, as if there's no goodness in this person. He's a bad person, he's just like that.

But that's what makes me amazed with you. So there is a group of God's love that is called Malamatiya in Islam. That is, people who maintain their relationship with God by never showing their goodness to others because they are afraid that their heart cannot be sincere to God.

And it just looks like God is ordinary. to be kind to others, because he is afraid that his heart cannot be sincere to God.

And he acts as if he is normal, even pretending that he is not God's lover. So that he can keep his privacy with God as a noble relationship. That's what makes me... Don't be like that. This is the last one. I'm curious. I don't expect that we can hang out. Don't be like that This is the last one I'm curious

I don't think we can hang out

What do you mean?

I mean, I used to watch you on TV I also watched you on TV No, I mean, I used to Oh, you mean back then I used to watch you on TV I was like, this guy is so strict

People are afraid of me I didn't expect that we can be connected we can be connected, we can hang out not only on media even the comedians always say that Desta is a scary person even Handika Pratama is really scared of me

why are you afraid? no, not that

yes

that's why

if they don't know me yet, my character is like... judging people. Even though, it's true. Many people who watch comics

know that Desta is... that kind of person. But, if I don't like someone, I will look like that person. I can't lie. I've been like someone, I'll be seen. I can't lie. I've been like that since I was a kid.

Vincent knows my personality. If I don't like someone, he'll know. You don't like this, right? Yes, I don't like it. And I can't pretend in front of people. That's the bad part.

I don't know if it's good or bad. But for me, I'm like that. If I don't like it, I'll show it.

Not that, but my expression will be very visible. Very visible. Even though you don't show it, but it's already very visible. Very visible. You can't cover it up.

Eh, one last question, Bip. Is it enough to be good?

Is it enough to be good? In the sense of this, Maybe a lot. Like I said, being good to other people. I never claimed to be good. But what I do now is I never lie to people. I'm not even lying to people. I'm being honest.

When people ask me to do something, I try to be like that. I can even see people walking around with people is like my mother's education. I can even see people on the street. How can I be so pitiful? I can think of my home. Is it enough to be good?

Do we have to... I mean, the religion. Like praying five times a day. Or reciting prayers. Is it enough to be good? It's not enough.

You become good because someone taught you to be good. That is God through Prophet Muhammad. So the first and foremost right for your goodness is your creator and the teacher of your goodness.

That is Allah and Prophet Muhammad. And you become good to your mother, your child, your grandchild. Because they are kind to you, you feel like you have to repay them. The one who is far better than you, from all the people in the world, is Prophet Muhammad who taught you, minadduluhu ma'a l-ilaha ila n-nur, from darkness to light.

And Allah who has given you kindness, من أدل مات إلى النور من أدل مات إلى النور من أدل مات إلى النور من أدل مات إلى النور من أدل مات إلى النور من أدل مات إلى النور من أدل مات إلى النور من أدل مات إلى النور من أدل مات إلى النور من أدل مات إلى النور من أدل مات إلى النور من أدل مات إلى النور من أدل مات إلى النور من أدل مات إلى النور من So we are taught to be kind to Allah and to mankind. But isn't it enough to be kind to ourselves, but directly to God? Yes, if we are directly to God, then what is the basis? That is the best form of kindness. So, to be kind to Allah and to mankind are equal. Because Allah is the one who teaches us to be good.

We know that this is good, that is bad. That is Allah. Not someone else. For example, my friend is not religious. For example, he is not religious, he is not fasting, he is not praying. But he prays to God. He has a God and he is good to all humans.

He practices without differentiating between humans and all that.

That's not enough.

This is a good question. This was once asked to Sinali bin Abi Talib. Then, where do you know God from? I know my God from my God. People can know God without reading the Qur'an, without reading the holy book, or even without

going through the prophets and messengers. But knowing how to go to God is only from the prophets and messengers who were perfected by the Prophet Muhammad and the Messenger of Allah. So we don't know how to worship God. You do know how to repay God's kindness. Which is not up to that. I just want to repay your kindness, I'm confused.

Testa has helped me a lot, how to repay it? You just repay your mother's kindness. Maybe you don't know how, because it's too big. Especially to God, who is great, vast, great in everything, great kindness to us. especially to God, who is the most precious, the most precious of all, the most precious is His kindness to us.

So the way, whether we want it or not, we have to learn from God Himself who told Prophet Muhammad, the way you repay my kindness is by praying. That's why it's important there, all the prayers in Islam, especially the prayer itself.

I'll go to the toilet first. You want to join me later?

If you want to join me, then I'll do it.

Have you done your prayer? I haven't. Okay, let's do it together. Let's go. While we're closing.

No need to close. What's the point of closing?

What do you mean? What do you mean? No need. You don't have to do it like that. How? You don't have to do it like that. You're so lonely.