Hablemos De Tal - Ep104 - MAYRA ALEJANDRA | UnTalFredo

🎶 in my nuptial era, planning my wedding, until they kicked the wrong dog's ass. And she's here with me, Mayra Alejandra.

Woo!

Thank you.

Previously, Mayrita.

Previously, Mayrita.

Not anymore.

Not anymore. Since my separation, Mayra Alejandra.

I was made fun of for calling you Mayrita. But I said it so people would understand what I was referring to, and the algorithm would catch it but I had already asked you before but Maira Alejandra, now yes the internet is up the internet is crazy

waiting for this episode waiting for this story thank you very much for being here, it is an honor and a pleasure

no, on the contrary, thank you very much for the opportunity to give me your space I know you were busy but as you said, something woke up and well, it's a privilege to be here.

No, thank you. In fact, something that people didn't know is that we had talked months ago and I told him, I'm going to invite you to the podcast, but wait until I get married. I want to be at peace, I'm medicated, I'm organizing the wedding of the century. As you know, I'm a wedding planner, so I have a lot of things to do with my wedding. Go follow me on Instagram so you can see the whole process and everything. Because the wedding is coming up, I was like, wait a minute. But when I saw what this person, who we're not going to mention directly,

started doing, started throwing, I said no. Let the devil that I have inside awaken and fill us here.

Thank you very much for being here, I'm very excited. dentro y enos aquí muchas gracias por estar acá estoy muy emocionado al contrario muchas gracias por el privilegio pues para los que no me conocen de si mayra alejandra antes conocida como la mayrita tengo tres niños edades 15 12 y 9 años dos niñas y un baroncito que de hecho me baroncito tiene la tiene autismo ok y bueno soy una mujer que le está echando Okay. paquete completo para las niñas que no van a tener fiesta sino simplemente quieren ese recuerdo que les queda toda la vida. Y además que las fotos están espectaculares porque las

estábamos viendo justo ayer que fuimos a comer y es lo voy a juntar aquí o sino en redes sociales el caballo relinchando la niña en el vestido gigante se ven espectaculares en donde se

encuentran para que la gente pueda ir también hacer su sesión. Pues estamos en el área de so that people can go to their wedding? We are in Dallas, the most famous city in Texas but the town is called Terrell, Texas

Ok, so that people know, people are going from all over the country?

Yes, from all over the country. In fact, a few days ago we had a girl who drove from Queretaro just for her photo shoot

Wow, for all the people who are watching, they also opened the wedding market they have spectacular wedding shoots I'm going to do my wedding there. You already said it. I already said it, on the horse. So, a businesswoman. Where are you from? How did you start? What is your story?

Of course, look, I was born in Los Angeles, California, but my parents are from Guatemala.

Kisses to Guatemala.

Yes, kisses. I have a lot of people who support me from Guatemala. So, I grew up in California until I met my ex, and from there we moved to Texas.

That's a little bit.

I can't talk too much.

Maybe a clarification for people who don't know about this project. Here it's not a court, here it's not a government, here it's not a psychological therapy. We are two friends talking gossip. She is telling me her story is We have two friends who are recording, telling a little gossip, I tell you mine, you tell me yours, and that's it. That's right.

It's over.

So that they don't attack us. And another very important thing is that you go support Mayra Alejandra on her social media. Instead of being morbid, watching what the other person is doing, because we are like that,

making them win, because we believers win when we are seen, We support the person we want to support and ignore the others. Let's start at the beginning. Let's start with Los Putas. How does this story begin? This tragicomedy?

Well, I was 17 when I met him. I had just graduated from high school. He came to sing at the church I attended. I met him and by then, I was 17 years old, I was a little girl. I had plans to go to college, I had plans to go to college, which was in the state of Washington.

And I fell in love at first sight.

At 17, you're really dumb. How old was he? 22.

Crime.

Let's start with crime. Let's start with something illegal.

The truth.

And also, another thing that I've just commented on in all this controversy, because people were telling me, you've already got too hooked. And you were asking me if the people involved had answered me before. And I say no, I'm very hooked on this story because I was disrespected on the other side.

And I'm bad, I mean, I'm really bad. So I'm really pissed off. And as I was saying, a 40-year-old man, 20-year-old, 30-year-old, que busque a una mujer significativamente menor, es meramente por manipulación, por poder, o por grooming.

O sea, ¿por qué alguien, un hombre tan completo, tan lo que sea, no se busca a alguien de su misma edad? Porque las de su edad ya están despiertas y maduramente lo van a mandar a la chingada. Entonces, ¿lo conoces? ¿Cómo llega la conversación a esto? and they will send him to hell. So you know him. How did the conversation come to this?

I'm going to let her speak, forgive me.

No, no, don't worry. He comes, he approaches, he introduces himself, charming.

Very charming.

So, yes, according to me, I fell in love at first sight. The tension was there at first. Well, he made me fall in love. I mean, I practically left all my plans for love with him. I practically left all my plans behind to go with him. Or to just wait until I turned 18, which was three months away. Because at 18 in the US you're already an adult.

So I turned 18 and went to ask for his hand in marriage.

How? I turned 18 and went to ask for my parents' hand in marriage.

How? Yes, yes, yes.

As soon as I turned 18, I went to my parents' house to ask for my hand in marriage.

And before that, you had been dating?

Only for three months.

But, three months and that's it?

Yes, three months.

And what did your parents say?

My dad wasn't happy. My dad... My dad worked hard to get him to accept it.

Of course.

Like your 17-year-old daughter.

No, and I already had my plans. I was going to go to college, I was already accepted. I already had my dormitory, everything. I was ready to be in the summer and leave.

At this point, in those three months, you sí lo veías como una persona decente, como una persona encantadora.

Correcto. Sí, pues atenta, o sea, siempre estaba ahí para mí. Ah... O sea, tenía... yo tenía toda su atención. Entonces dije, no, pues sí, o sea, es muy atento, muy cariñoso.

Me enamoré.

¿Pasa que pide tu mano, tus papás no estaban de acuerdo y aun así lo hiciste o al final entendieron y dijeron bueno te apoyamos.

Fíjate que mi mamá sí me apoyó, el que no estaba muy de acuerdo era mi papá. Mi papá batalló bastante hasta el día de nuestra boda. O sea mi papá batalló, yo no sé si él presentía algo, lo más probable es que sí. Pero pues ya, no le quedó de otra que aceptar. Pues yo estaba encaprichada de

que si me quería casar y pues me casé. Llegó el día de la boda.

En este tiempo donde empezaron como a planear la boda y demás, vivieron juntos o estaban aquí en su casa para la boda, él a qué se dedicaba, tú qué estabas where they started planning the wedding and everything else. Did you live together or were you here at his house for the wedding? What did he do? What were you doing?

I was at home with my parents. I was the one who planned the wedding, practically the one who decided everything. He worked in a factory, but then he left it. He was more dedicated to singing. In that time, Christian music.

So he went to church and sang. He had, when I met him, two recorded albums.

Wow.

Two recorded albums. In fact, he released his second album the day I met him. In my church.

And to a certain extent, I feel that you gave him the benefit because he was Christian, right? Exactly.

You said, he was a good man.

Yes, exactly. He comes from Christian roots. Yes, he had that good Christian character.

So, there's the planning, up to there everything was fine, you hadn't seen anything weird.

No, not everything was fine.

I ask this because then a lot of people say, how did he get say, I'm going to say, I'm going to say, I'm going to say, I'm going to say, I'm going to say, I'm going to say, I'm going to say, I'm going to say, hasta años después se pudiera decir. Entonces se casaron y también todo bien. Desde que nos casamos, y si me preguntas ahora,

regresando, o sea, 18 años, porque duramos un año de novios en lo que planeamos la boda, no, las red flags sí empezaron desde antes. Ahora que yo estoy en terapia, que yo estoy, verdad, con coaches y terapistas

que me están ayudando, I'm in therapy, I'm with coaches and therapists

who are helping me. Now I can go back and see a lot of things. A lot of things that if I tell you, I think it would be about three seasons.

But give us some examples.

No, well, a lot of manipulation. But since I was a girl at that time, very quiet, very shy, I didn't talk, very shy, so I did what I was told. I didn't say anything, I didn't say anything, I said, yes, I'll do it.

We're going to be with my family all day again. Okay, yes, I'm going to cancel these plans because we're going to go with my brother. Okay, si. Mira, voy a cancelarte estos planes porque nos vamos a ir con mi hermano. Okay, está bien. Ahí están los red flags. Porque dices tú, recién casados, es que no quieres estar con tu pareja todo el tiempo?

Ahora que ya lo veo y que tengo todo esto abierto, digo, yo todo aceptaba y decía, sí. Pero las cosas no deben de ser así. Un amor verdadero, tú quieres estar disfrutando con tu pareja. I would say yes, but things shouldn't be like that. A true love, you want to be enjoying with your partner.

Of course, it has to be like half and half.

Yes.

He wanted you to spend more time with your family than alone.

Yes, we didn't leave the house with his family.

And with his family at that time, how did you get along?

Well, I think they are all the same. familia entonces como te llevaba pues es que es que creo que todos ellos son iguales entonces me acuerdo una ocasión que estamos planeando un viaje a cancún casi era nuestro aniversario para ese entonces el primer aniversario y lo estamos planeando y nada más nos iba a acompañar mi suegro por precaución méxico no nomás se le dijo a la familia que I was going to accompany my father-in-law to Mexico just in case. No, he just told the family that we were going to... Everyone signed up.

And it ended up being a family trip.

With your family? And not with yours?

No.

There was never even a trip with my family. I did it with my parents.

But he didn't want to get involved?

No. So it ended up being a family trip. Extended. No, entonces terminó siendo un viaje familiar extendido.

Y ahí, cuando ya se casan y se mudan, ¿a dónde se mudan? ¿a qué se dedicaban?

Mira, nos casamos, nos fuimos para Texas. Un mes antes de que nos casáramos, él había ido a Texas a rentar un apartamento para nosotros pero pues era como que no salíamos de la casa de la familia. Solo íbamos a dormir prácticamente y sí o sea vivimos en ese departamento el año cuando en ese transcurso estábamos en él y yo en pláticas de comprar una traíta una mobile home When, in that time, we were talking about buying a... a little car, a Mobo Home, the kind that you can tow. And...

Well, yes, always involving the family. I had already told her, yes, we have to do it, because if you are a singer, and you want to be in other states, you have to do it. You have to do it. But the family, no, how are you going to do that? They were reluctant.

So I told him, look, if we're not going to do that for the sake of both of us, then I'm going to be a mom. And he said, okay. Well, I didn't know I was going to get pregnant so soon, but I did get pregnant and we ended up buying the car to travel. So I got pregnant and we ended up buying the car to travel. So, she got pregnant at least once a month.

Super fast.

I mean, almost a year after marriage, she was already pregnant.

And did you help her with her music or what did you do?

Of course, of course. So, I was like the behind the scenes, right? Keeping her clothes, everything in place, lunches, all that. behind the scenes. I wanted to have a little trailer so I could always walk with him. He's very shy, from what I see.

Yes.

Hey, and how does this drama start? How did you live your pregnancy?

I lived my pregnancy well. I mean, the first five years we lived in those trailers. I say those trailers because we started small. 25 feet, I think it was, but we didn't expand or anything. It was something small with what we started and that's where Valentina came in, our firstborn. And we lived there for five years. In those five years Eric Jr. was born, the boy.

But when Eric was born, it was almost five years old, so we were looking for something stable. We knew that Texas was the state because there had always been talk of having a ranch with horses. That was always talked about. And I was always supportive. I liked it, anyway, since I had already experienced the little streets and living outside the city, I liked the tranquility, there was no traffic. So I told him, there is no problem for me, you have to find a little house that has its own little land for the children to play. 2013. At the end of 2013, I found the first

house in a acre. And we bought it, and they gave it to us.

How nice. Until now.

Yes, and in those 5 years, well, both of us working, me supporting, we were in a plan. So those 5 years were wonderful, because we were on the same path.

So I started to save, I started to save, I got into what I could do maravillosos porque estamos en como en el mismo camino entonces yo me metí a coupon ear me metía orar me metí en lo que yo podía hacer detrás de cámaras se pudiera decir porque él era el cantante pero si yo me acuerdo que yo ahorraba lo que yo podía hacer o sea yo no he sido una mujer que le exigido lujos le exigido viajes nada nada y hasta la fecha teniendo no lo hago I haven't chosen to travel, nothing. And to this day, having, I don't do it.

I don't do it.

And you like to be more simple.

Yes, yes, yes. So, yes, we bought the first house. They didn't give it to us fast because we bought it in cash. Because we had been able to save a lot to be in the United States. And in the beginning of 2013 we moved to our first stable house.

And that's where it all started?

No, no, no.

Because there were no social media. They weren't that strong yet. From there, everything was calm. He got sick from the voice. Which I think, I see it that way. And I'm So, I'm the one who starts giving the conferences. Because that's when we started, a little bit, as I always traveled with him, to talk a little bit about us.

I didn't speak anything, but that's how we started, we started to tell our testimony of how our wedding was, how we started, the five years we lived. So, the conferences started like that. So, I started to do that voice,ada de Amalia, la niña número 3, y así me iba y así manejaba seis horas y yo hablar.

Entonces ahí empecé yo a desenvolverme un poco.

Sí, pues ya siento yo que una señal de preparate.

Sí, de algo viene, algo grande viene para tu vida jamás jamás jamás pensé que iba a ser en redes que iba a ser el boom como lo es ahorita de estar aquí contigo jamás pero sí creo ahí fue el inicio y ahí como era su relación como matrimonio seguía todo estable? Seguía estable. Recuerdo que de repente cuando él ya se estable, ya que ya estaba bien y... Ya así como que decía, bueno, yo ya estoy, ya voy a tomar las cartas sobre el asunto, yo ya voy a tomar control. Y yo pues, ok, está bien, está bien.

Y así entonces ya él volvió a ser como el centro de atención, el foco, lo que sea. Y pasaba una situación, bueno recuerdo una situación que en ese entonces Valentina la Mayor cantaba. De hecho le sacamos un disco también de niños a ella. Y me acuerdo que una vez una iglesia nos dijo vamos a tener como un convivio de niñas, pero queremos que Mayra hable. I remember that one time a church told us that they were going to have a group of girls, but we want Mayra to speak. And she didn't like that.

And she said, we just want Valentina to come sing and Mayra to speak. And I remember that I prepared what I could, it was my first hour, like, who says conference for girls, to give a positive message. And then, why does that happen? Because, and I'm going to tell you, and I've already told you,

Valentina, we both took our hair off. We shaved. Valentina and I, Valentina tenía como seis años. Y le quise dar un mensaje de amor, como de que no importa cómo te veas, tú siempre vas a ser hermosa. Y lo hicimos y ella, por eso creo que es la mujer, ahora digo mujer porque tiene más de, ya tiene 15 años de niña mujer, que es muy fuerte ella, muy madura, muy fuerte para su edad.

Y por esa razón fue que nos llamaron para dar ese mensaje a las niñas de que no importa si eres chaparrita, alta, tú eres hermosa tal y como eres. Y entonces el conciertito lo tenía que dar Valentina y yo a la conferencia, pero siento como que él no y ahí se metió a cantar. I had to give Valentina the concert and I the conference, but I feel like he didn't and he got in there to sing.

Although it was for pure girls.

Yes.

Obviously they had a duo that sang, but he wanted to be part of the show because he loves the show. And you already noticed.

No, and more than he loves the show, I also feel that it is a way of exercising power of, ah, I don't want you to know that you can do it alone. No, y más que le encanta el show que sí, también siento que es una manera de ejercer poder de, ah, no quiero que sepas que tú puedes sola. Y pasa muchísimo en las relaciones, no soy psicólogo, pero pregúntale a cualquier experto de la salud mental que les va a decir que los narcisistas

o la gente manipuladora, su primer como manera de controlarte es hacerte ver que tú no puedes sin ellos, que los necesitas, por eso te empiezan a aislar de la familia, te empiezan a aislar de tus amigos, te empiezan a aislar de tu trabajo,

para que tú te sientas y te veas como pequeñito, pequeñito indefenso, y él decirte yo soy tu salvador. Y se convierten en este rol de verdugo, pero también salvador, yo te hago chiquita, I make you small, but I also push you. So that's where this toxic relationship begins.

Yes, because now that I see through the years, there were red flags. So he wanted to be part of it. He couldn't stand that they only wanted them, but I have to be there.

And how does this start, the social media, and where everything starts to crumble?

Well, look, from the social media, well, the social media starts, obviously, as he was a singer, the social media, he opens them as a Christian singer. So, there, where I entered, was like his secretary type, where I handled, I don't know, Myspace,

I don't know if you remember, we started Myspace. I started using MySpace, because that was the first platform I was on. Then Facebook came along, and we were already married. I was taking on the role of his pages. Then Amalia was born, and his social media started to clear up a bit. of as a mother, as a woman, it happens when you have a child. It hit me a lot with my last daughter, because at the time I was pregnant and my third baby was born, they diagnosed my child with autism.

So, like this pregnancy, it was very difficult for me because there were many appointments. Not only that, my child, during that time, had two operations. One where we didn't know if he had, he had a lunar, we didn't know if he was a cancer patient or not, and they operated on his angina. During that time, he was diagnosed with autism.

So it was a very difficult time for me. So Amalia was born, and I fell into postpartum depression because of the pregnancy and everything that was happening. So he starts to give those messages y como que si cae en depresión post parto por el embarazo y todo lo que estaba pasando entonces él empieza como a dar esos mensajes para las mujeres que están pasando esa misma situación en la que yo estaba pasando en ese tiempo pues él era me apoyaba mucho estaba y todavía conmigo muy cariñoso muy entonces estaba todavía tranquilo entonces la gente empezó como oye I was still calm. So people started to say, hey, we like to watch them together,

even though she doesn't speak, but they make a nice dynamic. So I said, hey, what do you think if we start acting a couple's scene and you give the advice?

And he said, ok. And we tried it with the first video and boom. People started to say, keep going, keep going. In fact, it was the people, we started growing in networks and it was the people who started, you are the Charly and Mayrita, and it was the people who put the name, and we started, we started, the networks started

to grow, I remember that once, I was the one who managed everything. All of that. They hacked us once and that was horrible. From there we said, we need a team. We need a person who is direct, because I didn't know anything. And yes, we managed to recover everything back, but that's where the monetization comes in. Because Facebook didn't monetize at first. de regreso pero ahí fue donde entra la monetización porque no monetizaba Facebook no monetizaba al principio pero ya cuando nos saquearon ya empezaba la monetización y ahí es donde cuando empieza la monetización es como que

empieza a temblar. El dinero cambia las personas. Coronar todo. Definitivamente sí, sí cambia, bastante. Y la gente lot. And people can't imagine how much that can change. It's incredible.

How did you start to realize the change? Was it gradual, or from one day to the next it increased?

No, no, no. It was gradual. When we started to monetize a lot, and Facebook was the first platform that monetized, he got obsessed. So, when he got obsessed, he always wanted to be recording.

So, I remember that, and he has mentioned it, he said he didn't like her on social media. It's not that I didn't like them, it's something I need him to understand. Simply on the occasions that were done, maybe they weren't necessary, like a family reunion, a vacation. The first vacations that we started doing as a family, everything had to be recorded. Everything had to be sketches, sketches of the bitter man who doesn't want to be on vacation.

And I think that was his life. He wanted to reflect what he wanted. I mean, he didn't want to be there all the time. And that was what I didn't like. Because I said, I think there's time for everything. There's time for social media, time to work, but there's also time to be a family. And that's what I think he never understood that I was complaining. I said, hey, I think you should turn off your cell phone.

Turn this off. We can leave it for tomorrow. He never understood. And that was his obsession. And as he started to see that controversy brought more money, he said, no, I'm going to expose lives. And the one that exposed the most was mine.

What kind of things did he say? I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know.

I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't a y'all the inclusion of a citizen on novas a subireza no no lo voy a subir en tipo burla y yo enojada no lo vas a subir y terminaba subiendo entonces ayer el reclamo y era el enojo y era esto las redes son bonitas cuando las sabes aprovechar cuando los aves hacer para

transmitir un mensaje positivo algo algo bonito, pero no para exponer, no para hacer show, no para hacer un circo de cosas, o sea, ahí no es bonito.

Y menos con tu propia familia.

Exacto, exacto que ahora mi, ahora mi hijo me dice, no me gusta que de repente like that people suddenly know us. So if my 12 year old son is saying this, it's because something affected him.

And when these sketches started to be made, and they started to become more known, I ask all this so that people also have the context of the complete story. Because if you don't like it, you don't know anything. No, I ask it to so that people also have the full context of the story. I'm not going to say that Alfredo doesn't know anything. I ask this to give the context and get to what we have to get to.

When they did all this, how did he behave behind the cameras? Because I feel that people don't measure what they see in a person on social media and then how is real life. I feel, it mi opinión, y Diana Ulofuna, pero siento yo que la gente que más buena se proyecta, se quiere proyectar, es la que detrás de cámaras es peor. Yo por eso me proyecto mierda siempre.

Pero siento que los que se quieren hacer, los de, no sé, justo me salía ahorita un clip de ustedes que él decía que cómo es posible que una persona de tanta edad ande con una chamaquita de 18 años que como ande buscando y es lo que está haciendo hoy en día entonces cómo se comportaba cuando terminaban de grabar como era su matrimonio?

El metido en el teléfono, el viendo las vistas, viendo si pegó el vídeo, si no pego teníamos que grabar otro Porque se si va tenía que o sea todos sus videos tienen que ser virales todos entonces no había un momento o un segundo donde él no soltaba y si yo le decía hoy apaga una hora el celular se enojaba

pero ahí es donde él quiere hacerlo como que yo era la que renegada a la que no me gustaba en las redes no era eso era simplemente de que I was angry. But that's where he wants to do it, like I was the one who denied, the one who didn't like it in the networks. It wasn't that, it was just that he never knew how to separate what was the business, networks, whatever, because it was our business, to also have a family, because he had a family, he had children and he had a wife. I got to feel like I stopped being his wife. y tenía esposa. Yo llegué a sentirme como que yo dejé de ser su esposa.

Más bien era como una cómplice, una socia. Y le decía muchas veces, me siento más socia que tu mujer. Porque no había, él a las 11, 12 de la mañana contestaba mis llamadas. Sea quien sea, él contestaba. Y yo decía, no, pero es's not the right time to answer.

So, it's early in the morning?

Yes, yes, yes. That's why I have my schedule. I go at 9 at night, my phones don't turn off, if they don't contact me, I don't know what to do until the next day. And I think that's how it should be.

Sure. And I think that's how it should be. How did your family see all of this? Your family was already friends, you were more intimate with each other, you were more isolated?

My family has been very respectful, so they never said anything to me. Family reunions, like Christmas, it was always me. reuniones familiares como navidades. Era yo casi, siempre yo. Era yo la que planeaba, yo soy siempre la que siempre estoy ahí. Él en su mundo. En su mundo siempre. O sea, no...

Incluso me acuerdo una navidad que fuimos a California. Ese viaje yo lo estaba planeando con mis niños. Era el primer viaje que hacía con mi niño. I was planning that trip with my kids. It was the first trip I was doing with my son. He had already been diagnosed with autism. I remember that being on the plane, the noise, all that, it bothers them a lot. So I was very patient.

I was with him. I remember that he got angry and said, never tell me again that we are going to travel, because this is not for the child. And in my mind I said, but if I don't expose him,

I'm just going to be stuck in the house. I need to go through this stage so that he gets used to it. And it made me feel so bad. Like, it's your fault,

the child is like this, and I... I said, I'm not going to let that make me feel bad. Three months later, I took him to Florida, to the boy. And he was calmer. Where I'm going is that on that Christmas, there were uncles that I hadn't seen in years,

it was a very nice family reunion. He couldn't stop recording content. And those are special dates. and 24 Oh, you know Tranquilo Yeah, I stand up videos and

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Divide us a poquito pero junto con pegado como ha sido este desafío de ser mamá de un niño con autismo porque siento que hay muchísimas mamás afuera que que pueden estar pasando por lo mismo y que quieren saber de dónde sacas la fuerza, cómo le haces, cómo lo manejas, de dónde buscas información, ayuda.

Definitivamente es muy difícil. Al principio fue muy difícil. Yo encontré una escuela especial para el niño cuando tenía cuatro años y la escuela me dio mucha terapia. Eso I started a special school for the child when I was four years old. And the school has given me a lot of therapy. That is, the therapy that the child receives at school is the most important thing. My child received a lot of therapy, help for the parents. Today I think there is much more information than when I started eight years ago. Much more information. Now the networks, years. A lot more information.

Now the networks, there's a lot of information. That's something I want to start opening my networks for, for positive things, for messages. Because I know there are a lot of moms who write to me, they just diagnosed me and it's a very difficult, very stressful process. I cried a lot, a lot, a lot, because at one point I did feel very lonely,

because it was hard for him to accept that the child had that condition. It was very hard for him. In fact, I had already noticed it, and when I brought him to the table, I was the crazy one. You're crazy, how are you going to have that? And at six months, I mean, six months is enough to seek more professional help. His brother comes and says, look, I see the child strange, I think he has autism.

He takes the child to the doctor because my brother says he has autism. And I, I told you six months ago. And still after the diagnosis, it was hard for him to accept it. And I think that to this day it's hard for him to accept it. Or accept the child.

I think that's the saddest thing that someone can have in their life, to deny their own child for something that is external and has nothing bad.

And I say it openly, not because I'm talking, I'm not saying anything bad, but people from country realize it. Because if you realize it, in their public relations, they are always naming girls. But now they want to have a boy child with someone else.

And the one you already have? Exactly. Exacto. Now, going back to the social media, you guys no longer worked as a couple, you were more like coworkers, partners, etc. Employee, actress, sketchers, and so on. And how does this start to officially crumble, this that you had?

Yes, since the social media exploded. I don't know if he did it strategically, no lo puedo confirmar todavía. Sí me acuerdo que el asistente que teníamos en ese entonces con él, vinieron conmigo y me dijeron, oye, vamos a fingir una infidelidad. Yo, ¿cómo? ¿Cómo? Yo no ando en esos teatros. Y me dijeron, sí, sí, para, me decía él, para traer más gente, me I remember some sketches we did where he was with his lover, they were very strong for me.

Even though I was acting, and I want to keep thinking that at that time I was acting, but they gave me that idea, and the assistant with him, saying, yes Mayrita, do it, and I, I don't, that's a very delicate subject. I remember I didn't lend myself to that. me and further away from me. And now that all the light has come out, those were the years that made me unfaithful. But I didn't know that until 2023.

And he didn't help with anything at home? With the kids or anything?

Well, what stopped him was COVID. Because COVID, remember, we were locked up for more than a year. nada. And so I left, I went to El Paso, I went to California, I went here, I went there. Buy me this flight, I bought it for you. And so, he already started, like him, to create his own character, wanting to get me out. Even at that time, he took a course on social media, according to him. Where he did even name me,

like I was part of it. He did it all, like he already wanted me, he even made his own brand, where he was like, the most of the people were already here, but now it's this character.

He didn't want me to go out with him, he didn't want me to participate. He started to put me aside completely, like I wasn't anyone. Yeah, no, I could akeo for saliera con el ya no quería que yo fuera participe ya me empezó a ser un lado completamente como que yo no era nadie No, si porque esta haciendo más vieja no sé pero ya no ya como que ya quería otras cosas

y como Con él como lo enfrentas de esta situación de no yo le decía bien me estás haciendo un lado

y this situation. So, I'm going to go the report. I suffered an assault. Then a restraining order came in. But by that time, the marriage was already... I was already kind of waking up at that time. I was saying, wait a minute, what am I doing here? So I was the one who started going to lawyers. But I did it slowly.

I did it slowly. In 2023, I found out about infidelity. Now, completely because someone decided, one of his lovers, to expose him with evidence and everything. And although he denied it a lot, to monetize and there are videos where he says that we made up to 100,000 100,000 dollars in a month just from Facebook for the videos that he contradicted with the lover

I don't know if it was planned between them I don't know because how I got that idea that you have to pretend I don't know but I remember the idea of pretending. I don't know. But I remember that once we were at a family reunion and with him, with a lot of pride, he said, we made $100,000 this past month just for the little show. And I was like, how?

But the pain you're making me feel, I mean, the kids, the pain that Valentina, to call the police, the courage my daughter had, little girl, at that time, I mean, that... How can you be proud of money more than your daughter's mental health or the emotional stability of your family?

And that's when I started to realize, where I said, I don't know what I'm doing here. y es donde me empecé a dar cuenta donde dije yo no sé qué estoy haciendo aquí

de verdad que cada vez me sorprende más esta persona o sea como puedes vender los sentimientos y el corazón de tus hijos deja tu pareja de tus hijos de tu hija una niña saqué tanto tuvo que ver la niña para hablarle a la policía por su propio papá?

Y tener el valor. Porque no cualquier persona lo haría por miedo o es que se lo van a llevar preso o lo que sea. Ella sí tuvo el valor.

¿Y hablaste con ella cuando pasó todo después de, mira hija, esto pasa? ¿O cómo abordaste ese tema tema porque también siento que muchas mamás

No saben como no de hecho ese es fue en la madrugada No dormimos casi yo le dije mi hija no vayas a la escuela Hay que quedarnos en casa tranquila's no has dormido nada Y yo creo que para distraerse si se fue Lo bonito de mi hija que siempre tenido un grupo de amigos que la han apoyado y gracias a dios I'm going to go see the therapist at the school. I said, go. If you need anything, I'll pick you up early. We're going to eat, we're going to go for a walk, whatever.

I'm going to go see the therapist at the school. I'm going to go see the therapist at the school. I'm going to go see the therapist at the school. I'm going to go see the therapist at the school. I said, go. If you need anything, I'll pick you up early. We're going to eat, we're going to go for a walk, whatever.

And yes, I picked her up early. That afternoon we spent it together. I spent it with my three children together. But what a lot of people don't know is that after that, they put in what is called CPS, I don't know, here in Mexico.

Yes, like the DIF.

And interrogations, they go to your house, they go to your house, they investigate you, they want to check that the children have their cameras, that they haven't been abused. Yes, and that everyone is calm, that we are doing well economically. At that time we still did not have the house finished, so we were in the department of the living room.

Not only that, I had to take them to a special clinic, and this no one knows. I had to take them to a special clinic where they were interrogated separately in a room. And there is that, that, like that window, glass window, but on the other side there are three therapists with an officer, looking at the report, what they saw, what they experienced, and the three children had to be questioned. And I had never talked about this, but that person thinks I made it up, but no. That's the process after something like that happens.

It's a process that was difficult.

I don't want to imagine.

It was difficult.

After this difficult time, did you decide to separate? Did you stay together? Did he apologize?

After the assault, we were separated for a month, even though he wanted to communicate with me. I should not, and I accepted calls, some visits. He apologized. He told me, I'm going to change. I'm going to change, I promise you that I'm not going to be that man from before, but come back home antes pero regresa a casa que termine ya la orden y lo funa en un en un mes muy difícil porque fue todo diciembre entonces son épocas donde dices tú

quieres estar en familia rey si regrese regrese y me prometió que todo iba a ser bonito a las dos I came back and he promised me that everything would be fine. Two weeks later, he fell again. He didn't come home. I got mad and I told him that I was going to look for my lawyer. Which I did.

I did. I just told him that I needed him to do the paperwork for me so that when I'm ready, to say, you know, I'm ready to file the divorce order, I'm just going to call you and give you the papers. And that's what happened. So I was already seeing, that's when I started to see his behavior.

He started to isolate me even more, like I was already back, I had already returned.

Because before I would tell him, you know we're going to separate, or I was already back, and I had returned.

Because before I would tell him, you know we are going to separate, or I would separate and then return. It would last a week and then I would return. He said, well, now I have it back. And he started again on his little walks. I said, ok, that's fine. I started to make plans to travel with my kids. One of the trips was to California. I went to California with the kids. I enjoyed it.

And I started going out alone with the kids. On one trip or another, he accompanied me for just one day. And then he would come back. I said, OK. I think that's when I started to separate, to unwind. And that trip, that 2023, was the año que más viajé con los niños y me la pasé increíble.

Fuimos a Hawaii, California, Florida, San Antonio, viajamos. Y sin él se sintió bien, bien bonito. Pero lo que voy es de que en ese año fue donde yo me estaba preparando para irme a But what I'm going to say is that in that year, it was where I was getting ready to go to Hawaii with the kids. And that's where the first images of the first lover come out. Someone took pictures of them in a restaurant. I confronted him, I told him,

what is this? He says, no, no, no, it's that it was from my course. Well, I ran into it, he started asking me questions and I sat her at my table, and I said, oh, so a client can be offered, like, to have wine glasses, and have a girl, and I said, well, I'm going to a client meeting,

or whatever, I'm not going to take my kids, I need to be focused on the business, whatever. No, it's just that we ran into each other and I don't know what, I was just leaving for a trip and I said, I'm not going to do anything. It's the perfect tactic to deliver the papers. I'm leaving and the sheriff comes to give him the divorce letter.

And that's how it was. I said, I'm leaving on that date, this day he's going to be at home divorcee y así fue dije me voy tal fecha este día va a estar en casa porque hay sesiones de fotos él tiene que atender las sesiones de fotos entonces él va a estar ahí porque tenía que estar el presente y así y así yo ya estaba en Hawaii cuando le ese fue la primera vez que le metí el divorcio de ahí ya sale la segunda amante y ella sí traía pruebas y traía todo y fue un second lover and she did bring proof, she did bring everything and it was a show on social media and

to this day. And when... What did the second lover say? She came out saying, I was with him and...

Oh yes, yes, the times that were, the money that he sent her, he did interviews explaining many, many details, the times that they saw each other, even one of the times they saw each other, I remember detalles las veces que se vieron incluso una de las veces que se vieron me acuerdo muy bien porque el cumpleaños de mi niña la más chiquita y él estaba terco de tener que ir a entregar unos caballos a otros estados y yo pero es el cumpleaños de la niña siempre vamos a almorzar con ella a la escuela porque tienes que esa fue de cuando dije hay algo aquí está pasando algo y aquí ya yo tengo because you have to, that was when I said, there's something, something is happening here. And here I have to start firm.

And yes, I took the lover to deliver the horses. And she explained it. She got the horse names wrong, but yes, yes, I took the lover, I gave her money that same day, I think I paid me $600. Simply because he felt so much pressure, or he felt like I was investigating him,

and he left it there, thrown away, and I only gave him $600, and he returned it to the house.

How humiliating to be the lover, really.

The truth is yes. And to lend oneself, yes, he did. And verdad que sí. Y prestarse sí es que se prestó a eso.

Y mira, yo ya lo he dicho en otros capítulos. Para la gente que no ha visto de verdad, tenemos más de 100 capítulos buenísimos también, como este. Y siempre he dicho, la responsabilidad es del que está comprometido, el que tiene la relación. O sea, aquí el resp lend yourself to hurt someone else.

Another woman, another man, a married person. You deserve more than being the lover. You deserve more than being left in a corner in I don't know what state with $600 because your wife is discovering you. You deserve more than that. You deserve not to be the shadow, not to be anyone's secret.

And I say that because she said it in one of her videos. la sombra no ser el secreto de nadie y eso lo digo porque ella lo dijo en uno de sus videos

que él le dijo que como que yo lo estaba siguiendo yo la verdad yo enfocado en mis niños

en casa tratando de estar con mi niña la lleve a cenar nos fuimos a las películas entonces yo siempre enfocado en mis niños pero digo wow ya cuando yo vi eso de que no quiso estar en el día de cumpleaños de su hija, o sea, ir a comer con ella. Luego, ese fin de semana, pues yo celebre el cumpleaños de mi niña. Y le traje como una granjita al rancho. Ah, él se tomó el crédito.

Yo le hice esta fiesta a mi hija.

What?

O sea, dijo en redes que lo había organizado. I did this party for my daughter. What? She said it on social media that she had organized it.

When she was completely absent. I did it to distract the girl, because my dad wasn't with me. Why isn't my dad having dinner with us? When it's a tradition, when it's a birthday, the tradition was, either my birthday or his, or some of the kids, to go to dinner. That's when I think she felt the pressure and then she threw it away.

That's why I believe in the girl. But I mean, I don't have that heart anymore. At least, hey, I'll wait another day. What can I do? I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. and then throw it away. That's why I believe in the girl. But I mean, I say,

not having that heart anymore, at least, hey, I'll wait one more day. I want to be with the lover, but it's my daughter's birthday, I'm going to be with my daughter to hide her and then I do what I want to do.

Yes, at least have a brain. Have a brain to, if you're going to be unfaithful, Then cabeza para hacer infiel me emo says pen de Hosa Oye, y a este punto to leves platicado alien o sal te sentaba con alguien a platicar tenías a compañía miento o todo te lo yo no

No todo yo y ese fue mi error a no poder salir antes de esta relación entonces Si me entero la enfermedad de todo esto me pide perdón una vez más to enamorando me flores regalos esto entonces esos esos me pide le doy entrada porque esa ya parece entonces ya vemos casi terminado la casa que estábamos construyendo que nos tomó tres años la casa donde ahora ya vivo con los niños y de hecho el le dije tú no tú no tú no pasas a entrar a vivir a esa casa yo voy a entrar con los niños tú te quedas en la otra y sí así pero ahora que lo veo supo manipular me también porque a los a la semana ya estaba viviendo

dentro ya tenía su ropa ya tenía todo y no sólo a mí creo que hasta mis papás The week he was living inside, he already had his clothes, he already had everything. And not just me, I think even my parents, I mean, he manipulated the situation. Because I remember I would tell him, father-in-law, tell your daughter to forgive me. Look, I'm going to change now, yes, I'm going to change. And my parents were like, I feel sorry for him, I don't know. Yes, Mayrita, I'm already trying. But I didn't have the tools to get out of a relationship like that.

So yes, I gave him the entry. And that was in 2023. I withdrew the divorce in November, a day before we left for Paris. I withdrew that...

The complaint that would be... Yes, like the papers. Ah, I withdrew that complaint. Like the papers?

Yes, the papers. I didn't want to proceed. And that's it. It was all nice for a few months. Then I started to see the same routine again. But it seems then I said, ok, I have to be very smart. Because I'm seeing the same patterns, but I'm not going to let myself be manipulated. That's where I start to use professional help.

And it was the best thing I could have done. Because I already have someone who is telling me, look, he's going to start acting like this or he's going to tell you these words. va a empezar a actuar así o te va a decir estas palabras, entonces cuando él te las diga tú tienes que actuar de esta manera. Y lo empecé a hacer. Ya no me hice la fuerte de que me decía algo y ya no dejaba que me afectara. Me valía. Y si nos enojábamos, And if we got mad, okay. I grabbed my things, like I cared. And he didn't like that. So I started making minimal changes.

And it grew to where he continued to behave in the same way. There's even something he doesn't say, because this is something I'm going to clarify here. I have to clarify this. He says that I never gave him an opportunity after I entered puberty. Because yes, he drank a lot. But I gave him so many opportunities that what I want to clarify here is that he stopped drinking because I cared so much about him, even though he was looking at so many things that he was doing to me. I think I loved him so much that I was the one who took him to the hospital because he started vomiting.

I mean, every now and then, not even the food. I said, this is not normal. There's something weird here. I took him and that day, instead of him going to the hospital, normal. Entró el doctor, le hicieron todos los exámenes, todo, todo, y él empezó a decir, no doctor, es que yo soy bipolar y tengo ADHD y pues por eso tomo. Y el doctor le dijo, ¿sabes qué?

Ya.

Sácate de tu mente esas excusas porque lo que tú estás haciendo son excusas. Estás aquí porque tú no puedes dejar de tomar y tú necesitas ser medicado. He said, you're here because you can't stop drinking. And you need to be medicated. And he started talking, meditating, I don't know. And he said, look, you have a great woman by your side. Who is here, I imagine she has children.

And your children must be at home, but she is here supporting you. You can see that you have a great woman who has supported you all your life. and No, no, no. Son tus decisiones. Y tienes que, oh, doctor, pero pues si yo sigo así, que unos cinco o diez años voy a vivir, le dijo no. Te doy de uno a dos años. Es más, le dijo, no vas a llegar a ver los quince de tu hija si tú sigues como vas.

Te doy un año. Si no, dejas de tomar. a me hacían triggers por lo que había vivido pero él pero si él me decía no hay que echarle ganas yo le hubiera echado ganas pero pues no él cuando ya vamos al doctor y ya sale él ahí cambió ahora si de un giro 360 si ya me sentía aislada ahora si me dijo no I did a 360 turn. I felt isolated. Now he told me, I remember he told me, you are not

to be my support. I don't need you. When he told me that, I said, fuck it, bye. What am I doing here?

And I said, we are not even going to separate.

Bye.

And yes, I took him out of the house. I told him, look, the other apartment is there. Bye. I am Mayra Alejandra and that's where I was born. I will tell you like Anika, but yeah, when we piece a story my Alejandro to Tebas al departamento del Salón Yo me que en la casa Cuál es su reacción como empieza ya esta psicosis que empezó a vivir si pues hace cuenta que le ya

La reyes de esa que te dije que aquí hasta ahí aguante dije no Le sabes que nos hemos que separar Y los primeros días y dormía todavía en casa And the first few days, I did sleep at home. But I said, no, this isn't going to work. If I really want to separate, I need him to leave. So I sent him to the department of the living room we have. I said, I would like you to leave.

He didn't take out all his things at first, but he took out one who needed it. And from there, a transformation began. I remember what... ...detonated me even more, a little bit, to say, I need it now, so... ...to make it clear to him, my separation, is that I remember, he did his first play on social media.

I'm not going to mention names because of respect to other people, but he did what is called cyber bullying, with an influencer who started making false accusations that he's always wanted to be with me. And we were literally separated. And he was live, the other person,

and suddenly I go to see him live let's see if you can connect, connect. We want to know your business, we want to know you. And I connected, so it was my first time that I connected on TikTok. So like, you know you can connect like this to talk.

It was a Saturday, there was Valentina, it was a work Saturday because on weekends is when we have the most work. I was focused on the business, on work, as always. I am a woman who, well, I am the one who manages the agenda, I confirm with the clients, I confirm with the makeup artists, with the stylists, with the photographers, with the landlord.

I mean, with the whole team, I'm the one who confirms the schedules, I want to start the first, I want to finish the last, and so on. So, it was a nice, quiet Saturday, and I connected for about 15 minutes, and it was just with conversations, like, okay, Mayra, what do you do?

Okay, we have a... at that time, we had an event hall, where we did quinceañera's But I look at a complete news Yo, lo que más nos pego en el negocio fue cuando me se me brindó la idea de rentar los vestidos de quinceañera para las sesiones de fotos porque niñas que no quieren fiesta solo que en el recuerdo

entonces lo que hacemos si es niñas bien de todo el mundo para su sesión de fotos I have a photo shoot with girls from all over the world. So I was talking about the business, now I sell 15-year-old dresses, I rent them, etc. I have a salon for girls, they are stable. And I just talked about the business, we talked about what positive message I could give to the woman of today. Well, that person felt it,

it was like an infidelity. And I felt it, like it was infidelity. And I was like, what's going on? We're not together anymore. We're not together anymore, and he went crazy, posting. A psycho, like you said. There's no other word.

But I thought he was a psycho. What we've seen lately is from one level to another. I mean, yeah, yeah, yeah. So, he didn't spend a weekend to dump that person. And I was like, what the hell? I didn't do anything wrong.

I just connected with another influencer to talk about the business. If we had been talking about my private life or something, ok, you're right. But if he was talking to me and telling his followers, hey, follow Mayra, she has a very nice business, photography, where you can go to do your sessions. That's like, when you do collaborations like that, it's beautiful. Because you support me, I support you.

Well, that's how I see it.

No, and in the end, even if you had been flirting with whoever you wanted, you were already separated and he cheated on you a thousand times. Exactly.

One time for two, straight.

No, and he already confirmed it, it wasn't two, it was more than three times. No. So, I felt like he got so mad, like, you know what? We are separated, but you will always be mine. That gave me something. Not fear, but it gave me like, what world are you living in? My brain grows, like Shakira said in her song.

And the gym too. Crece el cerebro como dice Shakira en su pensada. Y el gimnasio en el cerebro también. O sea, ¿qué onda? Ah, like, casi maduro. Incluso, nuestra mayor, cuando vio esa publicación, le dijo, Papi, quita eso, qué vergüenza. O sea, no ponga, es que mira, tu mamá se está exponiendo.

Y dice, pero yo estaba conectada. No, no, no ponga es que mira tomas expo Niendo

Y siempre yo estaba yo estaba con estado conectada Lisa say me mama no dijo nada malo

si se está exponiendo porque ellos han tenido

a caray a IVS la in madurez bueno ese fue el primer tratito que me hizo entonces ya de ahí empezó a circular los últimos meses yo realmente pienso que me I know he's going to see this. When we broke up... I'm sending him my regards. When we broke up, the first few days I wanted to fall for him again.

I'm not going to lie, it's easy to fall for him. Especially when you're over 15 years old, living with someone like that. It's easy to fall for him. And yes, I told him we're going to break up.

I told him we're going to be apart for a few months and then we could try again, but apart. I was a mess. But then he did something and I said, no, I'm not coming back. And I didn't come back. That's when he started to get into cycling. If you get into it, he started to get his girlfriend into cycling. I didn't like that because he went from the focus of social media to the focus of cycling.

He leaves one focus to go to another, but never his wife. Never his family. Never what is more important. Nunca su esposa. Nunca su familia. Nunca su... lo que es más importante. Bueno, no sé.

Sí, estoy de acuerdo.

O sea, y yo cuando me dijo, ¿sabes qué? Es que estoy enfocado en mi novia, la bicicleta.

Ay, Dios.

Basta ya, no más. No puedo, no puedo. Agarré mis cosas y de ahí ya no hubo conversación con él. De ella era todo legalmente, todo bajo mi abogado, todo bajo. Me ha querido buscar, me ha querido hablar, no me dejó. Cuando yo me levanté a agarrar mis cosas, me fui y ya dije hasta aquí, no más. Ese día me acuerdo que me subí al carro y grabé la canción de Nati Natasha, la mejor versión de mí. Cuando yo cante esa canción la publicé en TikTok porque apenas empezaba otra vez a reiniciar mis redes

porque yo me aleje dos años. Los dos años que fue mi proceso, que mi duelo, mi decir, mi decidir de que, okay, quién soy yo realmente. Soy la Mayrita o en quién, o quién realmente soy. Yo cuando, ahí fue donde ya dije, sabes qué? No, yo soy Mayra Alejandra. or who I really am. That's when I said, you know what?

I'm Mayra Alejandra. And I released the first statement that I was currently separated and that now I'm Mayra Alejandra. Don't call me Mayra. That's why they attacked you. Because, the truth is,

I didn't know that people would take the name so seriously, the change of name, or that they would take it seriously. The truth is, I didn't know people would take the name so seriously, the change of name, or that they were going to take it seriously. The truth is that I didn't. So, in the first live shows I did,

when the girls were putting on makeup or getting ready, well, my most trusted people, I tell them, like my mom, my dad, it's impossible for me to tell them, hey, don't call me Mayrita, or my brother, it's impossible. So, I've known them for years, Hey, no me digan Mayrita, o mi hermano, o sea es imposible. Entonces, pues ellas tengo años conociéndolas, entonces en el en vivo decían, Mayrita, no le digan así.

Ella ya dijo que es Mayra Alejandra. Yo en varios en vivos tuve que aclarar eso. Pero para mi si fue muy importante ese cambio de nombre o de persona. No, no, no. No,

but I'm going to say that the public and personal that I'm not

the same.

I'm not the same. I'm not Exacto. Andale. Si es cierto. No, yo ya no soy la de nadie y la nadie. No, soy Mayra Alejandra, principal y primera y sola.

Hasta ahí. Si, entonces me acuerdo que el hizo ese showcito con ese influencer y le dije, le dije a mi asistente de México, le dije, sabes que, necesito ya sacar el comunicado ya, que estoy separada. I'm separated. I need to report him. Because I was still in doubt if I was going to get him out or not. But you know what? What I want you to focus on in the statement is that I'm no longer Mayrita because I'm not that person anymore.

I became Mayra Alejandra. And she made the statement like this. I posted it and that was a bomb. It was like we've never seen this version. I mean, we've never seen a Mayra's post like this. so Okay Paso a retractar un poquito En los últimos tres meses después de que pues lo lleve al hospital y todo también se vinieron los 15 de mi hija

pero antes de los 15 mi hija yo Quise empezar a transformarme yo no solo yo pero mi físico todo completamente busque una nutróloga Y empecé a hacer cambios en mi cuerpo. Entonces cuando hago ese comunicado justo bajé de peso. O sea, fue una transformación completamente no solo de mi alma, de mi ser, de mi cuerpo, fue todo.

Entonces fue como una bomba porque saqué el primer episodio en podcast, no contando así como lo estoy haciendo contigo, pero como mi transformación de salud, de bienestar, de donde me quiero enfocar, verdad, lo positivo, verdad. Ahí fue justo cuando cambié el nombre. Entonces la gente como que lo adoptó, así como que, no, sí estamos viendo tu transformación. Y eso me gustó mucho porque digo yo tengo una historia que contar y por eso sí te quiero agradecer ahorita que me has dado este privilegio este espacio para poder contar mi historia porque he hablado mucho de lo que nunca había hablado y hay cosas que gente no sabía

y siento yo que la gente digo como lo hemos dicho es chismecito, amamos el chisme pero a mí siempre me gusta venderlo así porque si yo digo vengan a escuchar la reflexión de vida nadie lo va a ver As we said, it's Chismecito, we love gossip. But I always like to sell it like that because if I say, come and listen to the reflection of life, no one is going to see it.

No.

There are so many channels of reflection, of history, of testimony, of self-love, and they don't see them. The gossip channels are full. That's why it was like my marketing strategy, so that people, if I know a gossip, and more because those of us who consume their history, See a connoisseur city to mass porque los que consumíamos historia, pues queremos saber que está pasando atrás pero también que se queden con este mensaje de empoderamiento y aclarar ciertas cuestiones porque hay varias cosas que a mí me tienen muy molesto yo como involucrado número uno que esta persona tiene tantas problemas tiene tantos problemas con la sexualidad y con las orientaciones sexuales y con las identidades de género como and with sexual orientations and gender identities, like X or Y. I've seen, and this is also authorized

that I ask you and we talk about this, that you have been pointed out by X or Y things with erotic, sexual nature, la la la, where I call you lesbian, where I call you ta ta ta ta. I want people to know, that it happened or not,

it's not, it doesn't make you a better mom, or a worse mom, I'm in that, because it was a decision that we both made, or that was made, or was not made, we do not know, but it is something that did not have to be published, which he published it, he even made accusations that to date I do not know if those videos exist or not. Because if they exist, it was under... I mean, I don't know about those videos. So, we are entering legal terms. He can get into trouble. So, I didn't know about those videos.

If they exist, they exist. I don't know. I can't tell you. But it's something that doesn't make me a bad mother, as you said, or a bad person. It was a decision. When you decide to do it with your partner, you do it because you both agree.

But,

if I wanted to say I'm bad for that, he is too, as a man. Like a dad. He's bad too.

I mean, he likes it too, right? Let's stop. Let's take off the fucking masks. So, foreign foreign foreign foreign foreign foreign foreign foreign If you recorded or not, there are videos or no videos. Number two, exposing these things, because in the United States and in Mexico as well, exposing someone's private information is a crime.

And number three, how do you come up with talking about topics of this high tone when you have children and they're going to watch these videos?

Not only that, she involved the grown up by saying, I'm not going to expose the videos simply because here you are. So, involucro a la grande diciéndole, no voy a exponer los videos simplemente porque aquí estás tú. O sea, mi hija que tiene que saber eso. Y eso lo tengo todo grabado, o sea, lo tengo todo.

Pero que bueno que legalmente están todas esas pruebas que eso que él se jacta, ya soy más emperrado, que eso que se jacta de, es que Mayra no ha dejado de hablar de mi, no ha dejado de exponer mis cosas. Nunca has dicho nada que no haya estado públicamente ya,

que todos los que lo seguimos, ya lo vimos. Yo vi cuando tu dijiste que tenias bipolaridad, no se hace no se cuanto. Yo vi cuando no se cuanto, I don't know if you have it, you can tell in those skinny thongs you wear. What a shame. And number 2, 3, I don't know which number I'm at. Your lover took it out, don't you remember? I saw when your lover took it out.

In 2023. She was the one who exposed that. So, I say, how dare he say that I was the one who exposed it. Simply, but look, how interesting. I exposed him with a song by Paquita Del Raro, the one about two-legged rat. So, well, if I was just singing a song, he got mad.

You identified yourself.

You identified yourself, I mean, you identified yourself with the song because I never mentioned his name, I didn't say, I just made an expression, but I never said, I was dedicated to you, I mean, no, the one who did speak, and spoke filth, was the lover. pero nunca dije estaba de Rica dedicada para ti no la que se habló y habló pestez fuera amante y ahí están todos los videos en redes eso y las fechas

en creo que justo es muy importante mencionar esto también que decías que eso es un vídeo el proceso yo que yo he visto en los narcisistas revisando con un terapeuta primero encantadores that I've seen in narcissists, I checked with a therapist, first, enchanters. They bring you down to the moon, the stars are the exemplary man, everyone likes them,

your friends, your parents, your family, I don't know what else. They start showing their true face with the passage of time and they start, I take you, I give you, I made you, but I also help you,

I give you the poison, but also the antidote. The veneno per to me in Lanty dot oh cuando ya los descubres y empiezas a lejarte de ellos empieza esta manipulación de tu no puede sin

Hay una palabra que usa mi terapeuta dice difam Cadena de difamación o algo así por ahí yo también lo he visto que en cuando un

Narcisista ya no puede control arte va a intentar control a lo que los demás piensan de ti I've also seen it, that when a narcissist can't control you anymore, he will try to control what others think of you.

Yes.

And that's what he's doing. You want to pretend you're a bad mom. Who's with the kids? Who's taking care of them? Who's raising them? Who's taking them to therapy? Who's taking them to school?

Me, me, me.

There you go. Where's the bad mom? You're pretending to be a bad woman. a I Van ya sin video exacto el que está también quedando como mal padre como mal esposo como mal hombre y además El exponiendo cosas que no debería No le con si que no le consideran y es lo que yo te aplaudí por eso también yo quería estar aquí porque tú a pesar de toda la mierda que te ha hecho esta persona, no has perdido la integridad como mujer,

ni como mamá, ni como esposa. Has puesto límites, y eso no le gustó. Pero jamás yo te he escuchado faltarle al respeto. Has, tipo detallado, o he nombrado cosas que son. Pero nunca te he escuchado decirles, es un pinche pendejo, unfaithful, unfaithful kid. Like I told you. And I tell you and I support you.

No, I've never mentioned it like that. And I was never the one who exposed it like that. It was the lover. In 2023. And he knows that those videos are out there. And if he wants to expose them in law and everything,

there are the evidence. I have them all. I mean, fear? to Okay publicamente cualquier persona se puede ir a la safari lo que sea google lo que sea poner el nombre de eric iba a salir que está un caso abierto de la del abuso que yo sufrí en el 20 22 diciembre 20 22 de parte de él entonces sigue abierto ese caso entonces las últimos dos videos que fue en octubre si

no me equivoco octubre 8 y ahorita en diciembre que fue cuando vino y le dio So the last two videos, which were in October, if I'm not mistaken, October 8th, and now in December, which was when he came and gave gifts to the kids, he went to the ranch with my dad, I was working in Houston. Those two cuts, he has said that they were divorce divorced, which is a complete lie. And I have the evidence because I have all of my lawyer's emails. I mean, we've only had one court hearing, which wasn't physical, because since he decided to move and go to McAllen,

and I understand, maybe he's going through family stuff with his mom, I'm not going to go into details there. It's fine. But specifically, they decided to do the first virtual cut. He did the water. So they even decided the day, I think they did it short because it was my birthday. November 10th.

They could have done it October 22nd, they had October October 22, or November 10. They chose November 10, and then they said, oh, but it has to be virtual, because I'm in Macalen, and I said, why can't it be October 22, so it has to be virtual.

Did I make myself clear?

Okay, whatever.

I said, it's okay. Something good has to come out. It's okay. November 10 arrives, that's the first court, and I have the papers where each person receives the email, each lawyer with the date,

that is, since it was decided that I have the email of your lawyer, that he decided that date. My lawyer said, well, it's the date you can. Okay, I said, okay, no problem nada. A las 9 de la mañana, está bien. Me dice mi abogado quisiera que vinieras hasta mis oficinas en Dallas para pasar todo lo que tenemos que pasar. Ya sé, ya es una corte, pero es en línea. Y si el abogado eso te dice algo y no puedes contestar, di estas palabras. O sea, me orientó bien. Súper nerviosa yo. Pero bueno, ya sé, ya sé. Ya sé I'm 15 minutos no no juez no se nos están presentando estoy mandando mensajes a su abogado no me contestan de repente le contestó el dice es que soy saliendo de una corte como pues si sabías que a las 9 tenemos que estar en esta y ya bueno

muy raro a la cosa no entra en detalles la cosa es que esperamos 50 minutos no se conectaron procedimos en la juez dijo, bueno, ustedes presenten su caso, yo veo las evidencias, presentamos, porque esa corte era para presentar cada quien su defensa y cada quien lo que está peleando. Entonces era una corte muy importante.

No se presentó. Contesté todas las preguntas, como treinta y tantas preguntas que me hicieron. Las contesté todas. I answered all the questions, like 30 and so many questions that they asked me. I answered them all. The judge said, no, you know what, okay, I give everything to Mayra Alejandra Torres, still. And that's it. That order was signed on December 1st, where already, I mean, between that there was a lot of that,

after that court, Eric could no longer enter the property. Because at the beginning, a one was signed where not only, nothing, I could not enter anything else but my main house, where I sleep. From there, I could enter the ranch. And a lot of people get confused about that. But that was signed in September. Right now, the one in December't go in. Everything was up to me. The children's decisions, the school's, the doctor's. I'm almost the main one.

I have to notify him. So that's where that app comes in. Now, if he doesn't have communication with his lawyer, that's not my problem. Everyone has it, because as soon as that order was signed, my lawyer told me, did you download that app? no es mi pedo. Cada quien tiene porque en cuanto se firmó esa orden me dijo mi abogado ya bajaste esta aplicación? Me dije no, bájala ahorita, suscríbete, de hecho tienes que pagar una membresía para

esa aplicación. Yo la pagué, hasta te pregunta la aplicación si quieres pagarle a tu cónyuge yo.

No.

Y tú no reportas.

No, bye. Que él pague lo que él quiera. you know, I'm going to be a lawyer. I'm going to be a lawyer. I'm going to be a lawyer. I'm going to be a lawyer. I'm going to be a lawyer. I'm going to be a lawyer. I'm going to be a lawyer. I'm going to be a lawyer. I'm going to to this day. Ask me if he's taken it. No. And that's what people need to understand.

Why is he blackmailing the kids? He's not blackmailing the kids. Number one, a judge said it.

That's what he wants to see. And that's what he wants to see. Like, I'm blackmailing them, but no.

Because that's what he would do. I mean, he would do that in your place. foreign Te amenaza te agrede Miente, oh yeah, una cuerdo que de registrar que de grabado y ellos puedan obtenerlo porque desafortunadamente Por fuera por palabras por voz por mensaje Todo se puede editar todo se puede manipular con la inteligencia artificial ya las pruebas no son tan validas entonces el gobierno o el juez

necesita tener algo tangible y no sólo eso para aclarar porque la primera ya cuando ya en septiembre que ya no podía entrar a mi casa principal en octubre que regresó a esa corte que no era por divorcio y hay unas primas del que jodes pero ellas ya se creen todas las mentiras del pero bueno no vamos a entrar esa vez que entró en octubre 4 creo que era bueno los principios de octubre but well, we're not going in. That time he came in in October 4, I think it was, well, the beginning of October, he came into the house. And I have the evidence, I have everything, and I was in the room with Amalia, the little one, because she was on vacation, and I was going to take her, according to the walk, and I go out to the room and he sat in the room like nothing happened. y salgo a la sala y el sentado en la sala como si nada.

Yo empiezo a grabar, obviamente tenía cámaras, tengo cámaras en la casa, pero yo todo como quiera grabé, porque es una evidencia más rápida de mandársela al abogado, le dije aquí está. Esa era la segunda vez que él había entrado a esa casa que no podía entrar.

Sí podía entrar al rancho, pero no podía entrar si podía entrar al rancho pero no puede entrar a la casa entonces el juez ve todo eso entonces si mi corte fue noviembre 10 y esto pasó en septiembre octubre el juez ve eso y él es una persona que no sigue y ahora de ley o sea estamos hablando ya

cuestiones legales si ya ni siquiera estamos hablando de bueno no respeto mi decisión de que no me venga a buscar no es dictado es un juez y repito que en I'm not talking about, well, he didn't respect my decision that he didn't come to pick me up. No, this is already dictated by a judge. And I repeat, in the United States, the law is not like in Mexico, where with a bribe or whatever, there, you do get jail time, daddy.

And I repeat, also for the people who understand a little bit, because I know a lot of people are on the gossip part where it's not about two isolated human beings, but it's about a relationship where someone exercised violence, why would you want to enter your house? Even if it corresponds to him, even if he also worked it,

at the moment of committing a crime, you lose your rights, both economic, as a father, as a spouse, as whatever. I mean, it's not because of whining, it's not because of taste, it's not because of burning, it's not because, no. It's because of the law that this person broke. You, who are watching this,

imagine that your partner did this to you, with infidelity, you don't even go to the aggressions, so serious, an infidelity. I'm gonna be a little bit. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know.

I don't know.

I don't know.

I don't know. in the beginning because it makes you feel good, but it's only for a little while. You start the same pattern and you say, wait a minute, no. And then the same pain comes again, or if he's doing it to you, no. You don't live in peace anymore. I can say publicly, I forgave him,

but one thing is to forgive and another thing is to continue or accept or want to continue being with that person. Seguir o aceptar o que seguir estando con esa persona se te puedo perdonar pero ya no quiero estar contigo Son completamente diferente bueno ya hiciste lo que hiciste eres un ser humano que dios te bendiga bye hasta aquí

Pero ya no quiero estar contigo y también que la gente sea un poquito más empática en el sentido de Me llegaron a comentar de repente de que es que ellos ya se habían dejado varias veces siempre vuelven es normal I don't know, they came to tell me that they had left several times and they always come back. It's normal, I mean, there are few people, and I applaud and envy them, that leave at the first time. Many of us have fallen back and many of us are there...

There were not several, it was only the one from 2022 or 2023, and that's it, but I already decided. Many people say, it's like the fifth time, no. Yeah, I decided so much I think is que ya van como quinta vez no

Yo que fueran quinta vez que te afecta que por fin a bristel ojo

Si tomaron para poder salir no bueno y es difícil salir de una relación así y la y me gusta leer comentarios así como mucha gente es que se les hace fácil criticar pero las personas que hemos salido de una relación como la que mayra está saliendo es muy difícil y si lo es y no digan que yo estoy todavía al 100 porque todavía no estoy divorciada y me ha dicho cinco años vas a estar casada conmigo yo vamos a ver chiquitito algo tengo que hacer algo tengo que investigar

algo tengo que encontrar para que eso no pase y justo es el libro del divorcio porque no ha I have to find something so that doesn't happen. And just that divorce, why hasn't it happened? He doesn't want to sign it, or how does it work?

What happens is that, as far as I understand, it hasn't been filed in any document. It hasn't been presented to the first court. And before that court, there was a lot of paperwork that one had to fill out. Obviously, I had to do almost all the work, because I'm the one who manages the finances, the business, everything.

What we have in the ranch, well, it's 20 acres. The properties that we have is a lot. So I did almost everything, but since he has his personal accounts, he hasn't given it to me. So we can't reach an agreement when both... No podemos llegar a un acuerdo cuando ambos, ¿qué? Parties en inglés. Ambos partes no han entregado y hasta la fecha él no... A lo que tengo entendido, todavía la primera corte,

la única corte que he ido, todavía el juez le otorgó

que él pagara algunas penalidades for I'm going to make a musical parenthesis in this, because I want to say something. Because I messed up against this girl, and I don't regret it, but now I want to give her a message. I'm going to do it in her tone, because I already saw that she's kind of slow. So, here you go, girl. You're an idiot.

I hope you understood that. No, it's not true. No, let's, mija, este vato no te va a dejar nada bueno. Si no le cumplió a la mamá de sus hijos, a la mujer del proceso, con quien construyó todo lo que tiene o no tiene o tuvo o lo que sea,

no te lo va a dar a ti, que eres una burla para él. Que se burla de ti, que te humilla, que permite que las redes sociales te destrocen a tu corta edad, a mí me llegó un mensaje. I'm I came from a complicated family and I wanted to become a rebel. It's preferable that you go back home, that you look for a study, because you tell me, I have the technical preparation.

Perfect, look for a job, instead of being allowed to be humiliated by this guy, because this guy can go to jail at any time, I just put it like this, and second, he has nothing. What will he give you? Monetization. I invite you to take a monetization course, ¿Qué te va a dar la monetización? Yo te invito a hacer un curso de monetización. Yo me capacito como wedding planner.

O sea, de verdad, me da mucha cosa porque está muy chiquita. Y no justifico. Es su pedo. Ya no es una niña.

No, es una niña. Supuestamente tiene 20 años. Entonces ya sus decisiones... pero el contenido vulgar que han hecho... need In six words, there are five. That you should, girl, open your eyes. To start, how do I say my girl? I only say that to Valentina, who is almost 16 years old.

I mean, no way.

Yes, it's a worrying thing.

Yes, and then, what I want the most is... I want to make her more beautiful.

How? Es que la quiero hacer más bella.

¿Cómo? O sea, poniéndole boobies y haciéndole un... No, la estás transformando a lo que tú la quieres verme. Entonces no la ves bella.

Sí, o sea, la quieres hacer como tu muñequita que tú vistes, que tú manipulas, que tú operas, que tú le hices qué decir. Pero no es como que estas enamorado de ella No, de verdad si es un caso preocupante Si la familia de ella está presente si la familia alguna amiga alguien está entrando el caso por favor intervengan porque a final de cuentas sigue siendo una víctima yo lo yo lo veo así

pesar de que esta pendeja y que ha hecho estupideces y no la justificó ni la aplaudo pero yo si la veo como I just to be this is in all of this if you could be a problem but you still have a lot of people.

But she's a chiquita and she can be manipulated in a thousand ways. I was one day.

Exactly. Oye, just mentioning what we were saying about the legal part, why were the accounts blocked? Is it because they didn't give the corresponding information from their studies? lo que nos porque porque le bloquearon las cuentas es porque no ha entregado lo que correspondiente de sus estudios o no

fueron algunas estan bloqueadas personas las de redes sociales

Porque dice que no tiene dinero que tú le quitas de todo que lo dejaste la calle que lo gaste sin un peso

es que él pudo haber trabajado conmigo pero no quiso He could have worked with me, but he didn't want to. I mean, just because I moved him from the main house to the other apartment, which was very nice, the other apartment. It was furnished very nicely. It had a kitchen, a bathroom, a living room, a dining room, his... I mean, it was like a mini studio, like here, more or less. But separated, everything, beautiful.

It didn't lack anything. The only thing I told him was, you know, just separate a little bit from the quinceañera networks, but you can help me by posting. I mean, if you want to work with me, I mean, if you want, we can continue working together, even if we are separated. quiere si podemos si podemos seguir trabajando juntos aunque estemos separados pero la imagen tuya está dañada necesito reinventar esta imagen ahí fue cuando yo empecé a hacer mis tiktok, yo empecé yo otra vez en redes mis mis redes más que nada y yo no sé si le entró celo And I don't know if he got jealous, most likely he did.

But the support, people started to connect with me, my sales, I mean, from Mayra Alejandra boutique, started to increase like this, 80% the dresses, everything, and what was not related to him, everything started to grow, my social media started to grow. And I don't know if he felt displaced, I don't know, he took his things and left.

Maybe he did. But you gave him the opportunity.

Of course, and he's going to deny it. He's always going to deny it. But no, I did give him that opportunity. I told him, look, I'm just the one behind the camera. Just help me post. But I, with the anus, help me record.

Even still, in one of my TikTok posts, which I could have lasted, in a TikTok, I've sold a lot. And I've lasted up to an hour, hour and a half selling. That time, I was the only one who could stay helping me. I felt so uncomfortable, because I felt like I was selling. That time he was the only one who could stay helping me. I felt so uncomfortable because I felt like he was criticizing me.

That in 12 minutes I turned off my live stream. But wait, it was the biggest sale I had. And he saw it. It was the sale. I had to do two packages trips to take them to UPS. And only in 12 minutes.

And he's boiling with the fucking courage and impotence. Of course. And today, today, today, he does nothing but Facebook.

Yes, he can be talking about other people. Shit, eating you. Or anyone, anyone he can grab.

But with me you got a dog. Hey, what message would you give to these women who might be going through the same thing as you?

The message I can give them is that it's not easy to get out of a relationship like this. Nothing easy, but it's possible. And obviously you have to be 100% segura de ti misma. Yo a pesar de en dónde estaba, lo dudé bastante, porque tantos años que me decían, no, tú no eres nadie, tú no eres esto,

o si, oh, es que hay mucho que platicar. No, yo creo que más tengo que invitar una segunda.

Parte dos, hay que to do part 2.

Because there are businesses that I started alone through those years. Like when COVID came in. If you told me how we got out of COVID, you'd be impressed. That's for another story. I started a business that was giving me good money. And when it flourished again, bye.

I told Isaac, you know what? Mayra is not going to continue her business. That's when I started to start with Mayra Alejandro Boutique, I had to close it, and now I opened it again, but already separated. So, yes, you can. Those words, that person you are living with, Si se puede. Que esas palabras, que esa persona con la que estás viviendo, no te afecten.

Si tú tienes sueños, si tú tienes unas metas, si tú te sientes capaz de poder lograr algo, y tu corazón y tu mente, esa vocecita, yo siempre digo, esa vocecita que tienes internamente, te está diciendo, si puedes, sal. Si puedes, sal say it again. I'm going to say it again. I'm going to say it again. I'm going to say it again. I'm going to say it again. I'm going to say it again. I'm going to say it again.

I'm going to say it again. a very professional therapist, I have one that specializes in narcissism. I'm in contact almost every day, we talk. Especially with everything, they tell me, do you see a video? Send it to me. Do you see this? Send it to me. And we talk about the subject every day. And two other people who are trained to help you get out of there. That's the only way I could.

And to this day, I haven't let go. A few more have joined, but it's strong. The people I feel like I want to beat up right now, calm down. No, you're not going to do this. Be careful with what you post, be careful with what you do.

If you're going to go live, don't say this, don't touch this topic, shut up, you look prettier, period. But it's hard, it's hard. But you can get out.

And what do you think, well, not what do you think, but what advice can you give to these moms who stay for their children?

I already tried. In places where they're not happy. Ya lo intenté. En lugares donde no son felices. Ya lo intenté y eso fue la primera vez que cancelé el acta de divorcio o lo que sea. Ya lo intenté, pero a veces en estos transcurso de dos años, por eso creo que ahí fue donde viví mi duelo, viví todo. O sea, ¿qué realmente quería Mayra? Yo miraba a mis hijos y de repente me daban mensajes y digo, espérame. I was looking at my kids and suddenly I got messages and I said, wait a minute, if I'm alone with my kids and we go out, we go for a walk, whatever,

they're happier with me. I started to see that and I said, okay. And I realized that sometimes you want to stay in that relationship for the kids, but no, you're hurting them more. When I decided and told the older one, I told her, you know what? Now she said, no, I don't know. It's going to happen like two years ago that they came back. And I said, no, honey, I'm well decided that yes.

And when she started to see that I started doing different things, I mean, I was already another me, she said, Mommy, are you really going to separate from my dad? I said, yes. Oh, is it that to this day my dad thinks you're going to come back with him? I said, no, no, I'm moving forward. I told her, I'm moving forward.

There I started to see a change in my children too. No, yo estoy avanzando, le dije. Yo estoy avanzando. Ahí yo empecé a ver un cambio en mis hijos también. Más en paz, más tranquilos, más relajados. O sea, mis hijos son otros también. Y digo, a veces uno por quererse quedar en esa relación, más daño les está haciendo a tus hijos.

Y tienes que ver cómo son ellos. Y ver en ellos. I want to see how they are and see in them. Yes, I think that as children there is no better message of self-love than to see the parents choosing. Yes. Because, and another thing that I was telling a friend who recently just divorced and has children, and that very likely the podcast will come and I will tell you, I will not give the spoiler, contare no dar el spoiler que le digo hazlo para que el día de mañana que ojalá no pero tus hijos lleguen a estar en una situación similar decidan irse porque vieron que su mamá también pudo exacto porque si te quedas el único

mensaje que le estás dando es tienes que aguantar y tienes que quedar y más soporto ahora yo tengo que soportar entonces seamos la generación seamos I'm I'm going to say it positively. I know you're a lady and you're not going to say it, but I want to say it. I know a lot of people expected me to drag this guy, but I don't want that to be a bad testimony. All I want to say is that, dear purple onion, hematoma, king of the world, in Not even your partner, but your family That are people that supported you, that accepted you, with whom you built everything A woman that saved your life A woman that was there, that decided to forgive your mistakes

And even so, gave you the opportunity to try again And you sent everything to hell for your ego For your fucking mental bullshit I'm really sad, I'm so fucking sad for your ego, for your fucking mental bullshit I'm really sad, I'm really sad And my only wish is that you look for help, that you heal So that tomorrow you don't age and die alone

With a lot of reputation, not only from the people on social media But from your own family, from your own people Because I think that as a human being I don't want to imagine a sadder scenario in the future sino de tu propia familia, de tu propia gente. Porque creo yo que como humano, no me quiero imaginar un escenario más triste en el crecer y que tu propia sangre, tu propia gente, tu propia familia, tus hijos, te vean como una mierda,

te vean como una persona que dañó, como una persona que dejó huellas negativas en su vida. Entonces, hemorroideneta, déjate de mamadas, pide disculpas. Creo yo que a estas alturas tu corazón es tan bueno, Mayra, que aún así no lo meterías a la cárcel, quién sabe.

O sea, sería como, no le vas a hacer eso al papá de tus hijos, que ojalá que sí. Yo sería que, wey, por favor. Y no te juzgaríamos si lo hicieras. I'm sorry that you have such a big heart, that what you want is peace. That you affirm, that you give.

That's what I want.

That you keep what each one corresponds to. That you have a cordial and polite relationship with your children. That you give them values, that you don't give them this fucking bad example of being with a 20 year old girl down the street. While you do humiliations on social media. Really, that's where it goes. as a media center as a Cialis. The better that the private, also a crew you can must get this to say, when I last read the book like the piece of the

alien key element in TikTok, is mass on, when I meet this young, I reflection I said introspection, I was kind of you, but if it is a diagnostic,

you can be in, you just don't like the tobacco, just a control, can you manager, when we were talking about the case. Because for me, this case was really mind-blowing.

It blew me away and I said, no way, there's a person who is already so shameless. Because previously, the people involved, after a video, they stopped answering me because I was taking everything out of them. But this person keeps lying,

and with my physique, and with my body, with my family, with my sexuality, and kept going. And I kept going because that kind of person, a lot of people say, don't answer him, you're giving him more. And I, that kind of person, if you don't stop them, they're going to keep doing it with the one who keeps going,

with the one who keeps going, with the one who keeps going. you know, responsibility at the Tarsela you can meet in one diagnostic or you may medical paranormal as a journalist you may medical para tener buena relations porque mi pareja no tiene la culpa de que mi cerebro no esté produciendo ciertos químicos entonces yo busco ayuda yo tengo cinco años en terapia con psicólogo un año con psiquiatra para estar en paz para nunca faltará el respeto que no es excusa pero pues a final de cuentas tienes que tomar acción But, at the end of the day, you have to take action of your own reality and your own situation. So, look for help.

Think about what's happening in your family, which I'm not going to address, and whether it's delicate things or not. Reflect, think about your children. Stop being ashamed of any situation that may be happening.

Stop believing that you are the... That person you knew already died. of No, ya murió, mejor ahorita enfócate en tu vida real, enfócate en arreglar tus problemas, en tu salud mental, y en terminar por la paz y condescencia todo este mierdero que hiciste. Creo yo que por ahí va, creo yo que esa es la invitación que le deberíamos hacer.

Sí, claro.

Para que tú ya también estés en paz y que, ya,

dale el puto divorcio. I mean, this chapter closed a long time ago, for him to understand that. I've been turning it around for a long time, there's no turning back, I'm focused on my projects. That this 2026, I've said it in the last live shows I've done, I'm coming stronger than ever. And I believe it, projects are coming that I never thought I would do, Y me lo creo vienen proyectos que yo nunca pensé que iba a ejercer

Pero que los ya están en ya están en planificación y estoy muy contenta

Y eso es lo que pasa cuando sueltas. Si, te enfocas en ti dices a la madre Yo tengo el potencial de hacer esto dices ah me gusta y le sigues y se te viene otra oportunidad a la Thomas de ejercicio y ahí o sea las oportunidades que Se me han brindado Rita desde que ya hercy esta

Mayra Alejandra and see the incredible

Y puedes confirmar le también a las personas que nada de todo lo bonito que está viviendo

Estaría pasando si siguieras ahí claro no

Definitivamente no y te veías justo lo platicamos a comer if you were still there. Of course not. Definitely not. And you looked, we were just talking about it, we were going to go eat, you looked so off. You told me. I mean, look at the videos, how you looked off,

the look.

And I fixed it.

Lost.

Yes.

The eyes like that, without soul. And look at you now, how you look pretty, smiling. I mean, everything you're achieving, how your business took off, how your relationship with your children healed, how you shot yourself economically, in numbers you shot yourself, that's what happens when you leave a toxic relationship. At first it's very difficult, but after that comes all the abundance.

More collaborations that I've done, music videos, what you see on this 20th, that I have many projects on top of, videos musicales lo que se viene es que tengo muchos proyectos encima muy emocionada algunos

ya los estado platicando pero se vienen cosas grandísimas así es que por favor si les sirve algo este capítulo que sea de empoderarse de amor propio de creer en ustedes mismos creo que es la base si tú crees que lo puedes lograr a pesar de toda la mierda que te han I think that's the base. If you think you can do it, despite all the shit that they've made you believe in yourself, pure lies, with that, you're on the other side. With what you believe, it already exists.

Yeah, it's just that you believe it and that any bad comment you want to read, that doesn't affect you. Because if you're one of those people that the first comment you read, and you're like, oh no, it's not working. No, you have to be 100% focused on saying yes, you can, you can,

and that nothing slips through your fingers. And it's not going to be easy at first either. I mean, you're going to make some mistakes, but you learn from those mistakes. So that's where growth starts.

Oh, definitely. Thank you very much for being here. I definitely much as well as to the key and to the community of the commonwealth is here a cure is here to get some of the valiant grass get the admiral get the applause I can't get a result on North and earth. I keep working. It is a little bit of a simple. They look at you.

No, no, no. Here is the past. They said they come with an excellent. The mama. you're an excellent mom, an excellent entrepreneur, an excellent content creator, that despite everything you've lived, what I admire the most is that you still have a smile on your face because someone else would rot or become the shit that happened to them, but you're still shining like hell.

And despite everything that has been shown to me on social media, and they have attacked me.

Everything that they have told you, everything that they have revealed, everything that they have violated, that you didn't ask for, and that you didn't want, even so you keep smiling, you keep believing, you keep giving a lot to people, and you keep being an excellent mom. That, for me, is the most beautiful thing. I admire it. I applaud it. And really, thank you, thank you, thank you for giving this message to women and people in general who watch this podcast or consume your content because they need this type of stories on the internet so that people can see that it is possible.

Yes, it is possible. Yes, it is possible to get out of this relationship. I have ha tocado leer muchos comentarios de mujeres que me dicen, algún día voy a tener la valentía de ser como tú. Si se puede. Mujer que me estás escuchando, si se puede. Nada más es que tienes que decidirte y no voltear atrás. Una vez que tú decides, ¡corre!

Y no voltees atrás. Solamente así.

Igual, también creo que el primer paso es platicarlo con alguien, como tú decías.

Sí, tener un equipo.

Sí, y aunque no tengas aún los recursos, mínimo una amiga, mínimo a tu mamá, mínimo buscar a una persona, porque el momento en que la externas, ya empiezas a darte cuenta de muchas cosas.

Sí, o a veces sí existe esa persona, como tú dices, una amiga, un familiar que te empieza a abrir los ojos. Mira, es que estamos viendo esto y uno por negación, porque así me pasó hace unos años que se me acercaron dos personas. Es que vemos esto y no vemos, no nos gusta cómo te trata o X cosa, pero uno por negación, uno por, no, es que sí va a cambiar. Sí, eso, sí, lo otro. Pero no, esas son las personas que quieres tener en tu vida. O sea, y no las tienes que alejar.

Así es que escuchen también a las personas que los quieren. No le hagan caso a sus parejas tóxicas que les dicen, lo dicen porque nos tienen envidia. Wey, no te tienen envidia, te están abriendo los ojos. Te quieren salvar, te están abriendo los ojos. I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like,

I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, I'm going to be like, Si estoy segura Bapasar Bapasar esperan en redes sociales de hecho vayas seguimos en instagram por favor Hay de sacar la cámara pero no me es que yo soy bisca que no vayan a seguirnos en instagram y suscríbanse este proyecto Para que sigan apoyando yo platico me Platicaba hace ratito yo le ha dicho a mayra que yo estaba en mi sarcófago yo estaba en paz but I'm going to If you want me to bring this and that, those people will tell me, okay, but how many subscribers do you have? How many views do you have?

People don't just go to see it. So it's not hard for you to get in here, subscribe. And go to my Instagram so you can see the wedding planning, so you can see the other chapters. I'm going to try, I'm going to try at least to have eight, if not four, they're already safe, a month, I also collaborate a lot with pressure and I want to take the time for that.

If you are new to this channel, go watch the other episodes. They are all really good. They touch on a lot of family, self-love, diseases, security stuff. Real stuff. Real stuff and it's cool to see people you admire on the internet being vulnerable like you and overcoming it.

So, we hope you liked it. Thank you for your message. I love you so much. Me too.

Thank you for the privilege.

And also, please put us in the second part. Do you want the second part?

There's a lot more in detail if you want, but well.

And two things, before I forget. The first one, I want to invite you to one thing. To block this person from social media. Really. I'm telling you, I'm the most honest person in the world, I want to believe me,

there are people who don't care that you see them for the hate, while monetizing. When I see that they are dumping me in my comments doing a TikTok, I say, I don't care, I'm making money from this. I don't know you. is merece bloque a lo de facebook lo te a lo de instagram no te preocupes los iba a salir decir algo de ella de mí no te preocupes en tik tok siempre salen otras

cuentas velo en otras cuentas no lo veas en la de él de verdad de verdad de verdad es es como que la mejor manera de acabar con un narcisista es quitando la atención pero porque hicieron este podcast porque nuestra parte no nada más es quitar la atención es el mascararlo ahora tu parte como público es quitar la is In the story. In the story that I lost. We have to put a hashtag, but do you want it to be like a reflexive or a comic?

Whatever, no, whatever.

A phrase or a word?

A hashtag that they can... Search. When they're watching it, that...

The circus is over. The circus is over?

Yes. Hashtag the circus is over. I want everyone to put that hashtag on TikTok, on Instagram, on stories. and I'm sorry, I'm a little bit rusty. So we can put that hashtag and share all the clips, all the reactions.

And when you're watching the podcast, which is coming up soon, put those hashtags and tag us.

Yes, tag us, please. Also, go follow Mayra's businesses, please. Go see the incredible work they do. If you're getting married, hire me and I'll take you to the wedding sessions.

Yes, we're going to do something here.

Very good. Thank you. We love you so much. See you next week, same time, same channel. And don't forget to follow us and subscribe. And don't forget to follow us and subscribe.

Blessings.