OM TAU AKU DIAPAIN SAMA IBU TIRI AKU⁉️ RIYUKA BUNGA

I don't want to get married again.

You don't want to get married again?

I don't want to. Because, so the mindset is... No one is loyal.

But you got married twice, right?

Damn it. You know it. I remember it so well. My dad came home from work, brought a bread. We ate one. I was given a hand wash.

With the lady next to you?

I swear. I was given a hand wash You were given a hand wash? I swear I was given a hand wash

Riuka Bunga

This is... what is it called?

What?

Cosplay first.

Disclaimer first. Disclaimer first. Before the podcast, I just had a video call with Sabrina,

my ex-wife.

It's up to you, guys.

How was it? She told me, I gave her the card, but Rika didn't want it. I want it. She said, you didn't answer. it Oh, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

I'm sorry.

I'm sorry.

I'm going to do. I know what I'm going to do. So, it's true? It's true. But we agree that we end the relationship here.

In the hat?

Yes, the black hat. So, we say that we end the relationship here, but not here. If we're still siblings, we still care.

But, will the next couple be jealous?

If you never care about your ex, you have a problem with your ex. Until you hate him.

Like you.

Like me? I'm a little bit. I'm a little bit. I'm a little bit. I'm a little bit. I'm a little bit. I'm a little bit.

I'm a little bit.

I'm a little bit.

I'm a a I'm not a I'm not a

I'm not a I'm not a I'm not a

I'm not a I'm a man of justice! So you're the one who was robbed of Gunung Gini's property?

Yes.

Of course.

Are you serious?

I don't want to be the one to take care of her.

It's okay, it's already bad.

No, it's not.

We still meet.

It's true.

It's true.

I was the one who was robbed.

You were robbed?

I was robbed.

That's it! Why? Men are supposed to hit women

No, I don't think so

No?

That's just for men

Men who like purple and hairy But you got married twice

Of course and Harry. I'm sorry. He's handsome. I woke up and realized he's really handsome. I was like, mom, mom, mom. I was like, no. Yeah, right. It's realistic. Sometimes people say,

why is he being praised for having a son? It's not like that. But we're realistic. At my age.

Especially since he's not your own son. He's still young.

Right. I'm worried if she and I are going to get beat up Can't we?

Yes we can

Both of us

Oh both of us

While crossing the island, oh wait While crossing the island, drinking water

I'm wrong

Diving

Diving, drinking water

But seriously, is it over? Yes

It's over right?

It's over Okay, so now you're really alone

Really alone Looking for a boyfriend again Are you looking for a boyfriend?

What?

Are you looking for a boyfriend?

Not yet. Not yet? But you want to find a boyfriend?

I want to, but I'm still afraid of commitment. I think the reason why there's a cheating is because there's a commitment.

Oh, there's a cheating?

I don't know! There is! I'm surprised. Oh, there's a perselingkuhan. I don't know! There is!

I was surprised. Oh, there's a perselingkuhan.

There is.

I was just surprised.

But I want to ask. In your opinion, what is a perselingkuhan?

What is a perselingkuhan? Is it according to the KBBI or?

No, just according to Om Det. Just according to Om Det's opinion.

Wow, if you ask me, I would say it's based on psychology, hormones, or research. Based on psychology, men and women can cheat. Not because they don't love each other, but because they want to experiment new things, or challenges to new things and new conditions, when there's something that's not certain in their family that's uncomfortable. It could be just because of challenges.

Or social media. Social media is a place where dopamine rises. Dopamine can make people want to do something without being aware of it. And then there's the oxytocin hormone, when you do something. That can really increase. He becomes self-love. He feels like he loves himself. Why? Because there's someone else who wants him.

That's why he feels that it's not because of this person, but because if he can do it, it means he feels that he loves himself because there's someone else who can love him.

I'll google it later, Om. He wants it.

I'll google it later, Om.

Men have testosterone, if the testosterone is high, the feeling is high. Right? Now we're going to the sociology.

No, Om. I'm There's a guy with a maid! What? A maid? Yes!

There's a guy with a maid, there's a guy with a maid, because a maid can fart.

That's a bad fart. I can also fart.

Doctor Boyke said so.

Don't!

Why did you ask that question?

Because, according to my ex, Oh, so there's another theory according to your ex-boyfriend? There's another theory.

According to my ex-boyfriend...

Something different, right?

The affair must reach the point of adultery.

The affair must reach the point of adultery.

Yes.

Okay, so it means you have to be in love? Yes, so if it's just flirting, or just a meeting, it's not cheating.

But...

Don't laugh yet, Om.

But... But, you said But... But... But... But... But... But... But... But... But... But... Why do you love? Bim, explain it to me Yesterday our guest came here

Who was it?

Yesterday? Who was it?

Mbak Tejo

Why Mbak Tejo?

Love is different I can love my environment I want to love my family If you just f*** They said Mbak Tejo Oh, they said Mbak Tejo said.

Oh, that's what Mbak Tejo said.

Right?

Mbak Tejo said that, right?

Because it's true, love means to love. It doesn't mean to commit adultery. Who knows he's committing adultery with other people, but he loves you.

Yes.

We have to defend him

I think it's that part of the ***

that's what Mbah Tejo said

Mbah Tejo's words, Sahabat because he said that

there are many wrong words yes so according to your ex

according to my ex, when he's already having an affair I'm I mean, is it true that cheating is like that? If flirting, flirting, and then like asking a girl out, asking for a hug, asking for a kiss, that's not cheating. Or, or I'm the one who... Because when I was divorced, I always blamed myself. Hmm, why? Because it went viral.

How, how? You blame yourself because you made it viral.

Making it viral. Because according to him, it's not cheating. You're exaggerating. Your reaction is too much. So, is it true or not?

Let's do this. Because if we talk like that, it means there can be two. Because I don't. Let's just look at KBB.

Okay.

It means cheating. The act of hiding something that is not honest or slandering from a partner which violates the commitment of faithfulness in a romantic relationship. Expanding is not limited to physical or sexual relationships. It can also be emotional, cyber, or even financial with other people outside of the main relationship. It means that it is paid by people, including cheating.

Physical cheating, physical contact, emotional cheating, there is an emotional bond to other people. Cyber cheating, forming a romantic or sexual relationship through digital media. Like instant messages or social media. What about watching bokeh?

But it's not... not interactive.

It's a romantic relationship. Oh, there's a romantic relationship. So it has to be mutual. Because it's mutual. Financial shrinkage hides or lies about money to the partner.

Oh!

Oh, if it's a lie

yes this is according to google according to google yes according to google

according to Harry

no need, there is no according to Harry there is

there is

it means it's not just Zina, right? It's not just Zina, right?

If it's from Google, it's not just Zina.

So you're right? So I'm right, right? So you're right. If you look from that side.

Because until now, I'm still blaming myself. You're wrong. Why did it change so fast? So fast, Om!

No, you're wrong. Blaming yourself is wrong. Oh, right. You shouldn't blame yourself. Because it's easier to blame others.

Right.

Right? Rather than blaming yourself, it's better to blame your neighbor.

Don't blame my neighbor, Om. Your neighbor is nice. Him, then. His family is punk, I'm a good neighbor. Just be like him. His punk family.

I'm not following you.

But yesterday you said you haven't moved on. Not haven't moved on, but haven't recovered from the wound.

That's right.

Haven't recovered from the wound. Because 4 years together, there are a lot of things that... A lot of things, not just physical, but also mental things that he did. So, it's still going down to this day. Like, I feel like I'm pretty. Why is he...

Pretty, Om?

Pretty, you crazy. Crazy, you're so pretty. If I'm not pretty, I won't play Caption Dealer.

That's what I said.

Deal for this, right?

I said it's a deal Deal Deal for this right? I said it's a deal right?

Okay, just be it

I can do it

You can?

We should date first Date first

You don't have to

You have to know the character first

We're not close

We're not close But if you're close, you're usually being bullied I don't have a big mouth. My family is just a normal broken home. Big mouth. What's a big mouth?

Big mouth is a descendant.

Descendant. What's a big mouth?

Let's check.

I don't know.

It's a descendant. I think a big mouth is financial. Is. Bobot is a financial company, right?

Huh?

Bobot is a value company, right?

Value, right? What's Bebet?

Appearance.

Appearance?

Oh my god, you want to be like this?

Why? I'm going to Thailand.

Appearance is okay.

You're going to Thailand for a plastic surgery?

No.

No.

I want this one. Boob job? But it's not happening.

Why not?

Because after seeing my friends doing it, they always look sexy when they wear clothes.

Yeah, I agree with that. Because it's like, you can't help but open up.

True, true. Even though their intentions are not like that.

Yeah, yeah.

I...

But it's still showing

I have a friend who thinks like that So it looks... A bit...

Yes, that's it

Even though his goal is not that

His goal is not like that So, oh well, it's like this

Yes, but seriously, if you're looking for a guy What do you see now?

Now?

If it's happened twice

What I see? What type of guy do you see now? Now? If it's already happened twice Hmm

The one I see? Hmm

Oh, I'm not looking for it anymore

Not looking for it?

Not looking for it

Oh, ah, the one I see, not the one I see, just the criteria, okay?

Criteria, yes, that's right

Uh, the one, the one who doesn't have a child

Doesn't have a child?

Uh-huh Okay I don't want a single mom. I don't want a single mom. I want a widow. A widow without a child? But she doesn't have a child. Why? Because she's the one who takes care of the child.

It's hard to take care of a child.

What if the child is already big?

It's still the same. Especially if it's already big. It's hard to accept a new person when it's already big. As a mother. Right? And then, what did I say before?

You want Duda without children.

Duda doesn't have children. And her financial situation is okay.

But why Duda?

Because if for example, Bujang or Jejaka, her parents definitely hope that parents would never get married.

Oh, you're the one who's been avoiding it.

Yes, I'm avoiding it. Because I've been like that before.

Oh really?

I've been like that before.

Have you been in a relationship?

Yes, I've been in a relationship for two years.

And then you said that to your parents?

I said that to my parents. And then they said, Why are you getting married? He said, why do you want to marry a man who has a child? You have to pay for the child.

Oh, so you're traumatized.

So I said, I don't want to. If you're a man, go ahead. That's what parents want, right?

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Okay, I'll accept it. So I sat down without a child.

And I don't want to... I don't want to make a commitment. I don't want to commit anymore. I don't want to get married anymore. You don't want to get married anymore? I don't want to. Not yet or...

No, you don't want to get married anymore?

I don't think so, Om.

Wow.

But Om Daddy still wants to. He failed twice already.

Who is this with? You?

No, well... If it's with me, I'm Wow! In my opinion, yes. Don't say it's a lie, it's just my opinion.

Yes, in Ryuka's opinion, we're not saying that it's impossible, but in her opinion, because she has that fear, no one is faithful.

No one is faithful.

Because there was a lot of faithfulness.

What?

Just now, it was a financial lie, and now it's a lie. There's a lot of it things. The base is still the same.

Right.

So, because of a lot of experiences, my environment, my closest people, they all have been cheating on me. So, I think no one is loyal. That's why, to minimize the pain, I don't have to get married. anymore. I don't want to get married.

Okay.

Even if I want to date someone. I don't want to have any commitment.

You don't want to date anyone?

I don't want to. I don't want to yet.

But right now, you don't want to date anyone?

I don't want to.

You don't want to date anyone and you don't want to get married?

I don't want to.

Wow. Just a little bit, Om. For Rahim when he's still twitching, it's not bad, just a little bit.

But it means that the trauma is really big, in your opinion.

Big, really big, Om. Because, what is it? Actually, he doesn't want to get married again from before with Harry. So, with Harry...

If he doesn't want to get married again before with Harry, then Harry's got it, this time we don't have to believe it

Right?

Right?

Yes

Harry means cool, great, I can get you

What do you mean? What do you mean? I cried for months at home Until my mom said, just marry him She cried all the time

But you had dating Harry.

We were for 3 months. And for 3 months, we were un-one. We were adapting. It didn't work out. So I broke up.

After that, he started chasing me. And I already had a boyfriend. And he kept chasing me. He kept saying he wanted to get married. I already have a boyfriend. And he kept chasing me. He kept saying he wanted to get married.

So, even after that, you could...

Yes, people who are obsessed with me, from the beginning, they could...

Negative ending.

Yes, they could. They could be in pairs. So, I think, no one is faithful. In my opinion. Again, in my opinion, he was cut off. I think so.

I can accept it. I mean, every human being has their own way of thinking. If you have that kind of assumption, there's no problem. You don't say it to everyone. It's your personal opinion. It's my personal opinion. But I'm a bit surprised when I heard you say that. If I were to ask you if you want to get married again, I could say that I've never thought about getting married again.

Not yet, right?

It could be a yes or a no.

That's it.

It's hard if we say no, then suddenly we'll be wrong. That's right.

So, not yet?

I could say that it's very likely that I won't. That's it. Why? I'm We were disclaimers. They saw that this podcast was made before this podcast. We asked Sabrina to do it. We called her. We talked about this. If you want to find the pieces of Hujat, what he said, or what I said, what was said by the leader,

those are the pieces of people who made a joke. Because they are looking for it. So are the pieces of people who make jokes. Because they are looking for people. So, they are looking for that problem. We don't have a problem with that. But, for me, it's like this.

I said before, it's end here, not end here. Because for me, what scares people is when I'm older. I'm 50 years old. If my friends or netizens say, umur-umur gua. Gua tuh sempat 50 tahun tahun gua. 50? Nanti, kalo katanya temen-temen atau netizen, oh nanti sendirian. Betul.

Nanti, oh tua gimana. Betul. Sendirian gimana, gitu.

Gol sidup gua tuh beda. Apa tuh?

Gol sidup gua tuh adalah gua hidup sehat selama mungkin. Bukan hidup panjang.

Betul. But I'm not talking about a long life. True.

That's different. A healthy life as long as possible. Not a long life. If it's a long life, it means I'm still alive until I'm 80, 85, 90 years old.

But it hurts.

Yes, yes, yes.

If that's the case, it's like when you have a partner, you're bothering your partner. Right? Right? You're bothering your partner. My target is to live healthy as long as possible. If I'm given another 10 years, it's okay.

As long as you're healthy.

As long as I'm healthy for 10 years. That's my target. But you're alone, like this, like that. I have an interesting psychology. Every morning, I'm alone. Because I don't want to be disturbed in the morning. With my children, with anyone.

That's a ritual.

That's a ritual. So, I have a ritual in the morning until 10 or 11 o'clock. I don't want to be disturbed. I learn new things, read books. I practice, I go to the gym alone. I go to the gym by myself. I go to the gym by myself.

I don't use music, I go to the gym by myself.

Oh, but you don't use music?

No, now I don't even use music. I go to the gym by myself. So, I'm used to it. I can torture myself by myself for hours. So, I'm good being alone.

Yeah.

I'm good being alone. Yeah. And good being alone. Even if there's a partner or whatever, it means, maybe people will say that we... ...become... ...what is the term? Egoistic. Because in the end, we will find a partner who can make us happy.

Right.

Because of my experience, you have a bad experience. But for me, with my ex, I don't have any explicit problems. That's why I said she's a good wife. An amazing wife.

But in my age, I don't want to be dramatic anymore.

Right.

And at my age, I'm There are a lot of netizens who say, I once said that I don't want to get married anymore, I don't want to find a partner yet. They ask, what if I'm alone? That's my goal. I'm looking for a partner now. You have a child. Let the child take care of you.

I don't want to bother anyone.

I would rather be a bit weak. Just put it in front of the lamp.

Yes. That's why I'm saving money now. I'm investing in things like SBN. There's a flower. There's SBN in the nipple. Yes, there's a nBN. He has a flower.

He has a seedling.

Yes, he has a seedling.

He has a seedling.

He has a seedling.

Yes, he has a seedling.

And then, I will use that money to pay for my living expenses in my old age. To pay for the house. Jompo pays for it, right? Yes.

I have seen it.

Jompo has a good one in Pantijompo. There is! It's 16 million a month. I said, I can do that. I can. That's why when we're young, we look for a lot of money to save for that. Even we don't know when we will die.

We can die before entering Pantijompo.

That's right.

But at least we can save it first.

If we are ready at that time. I agree with you. I really agree. Because my mom is almost 90 years old.

90?

Almost 90. 89 if I'm not mistaken. I'm confused about her age because she has two ages. There's a national age and a Chinese age. Do you know the difference?

Chinese age?

Yes.

What's the difference?

The year is different. China. rumah itu, dia tinggal di apartemen karena kakak gue yang cewek di apartemen itu. Kakak gue yang cewek meninggal. Baru, berapa tahun? Dua tahun kali. Dua tahun yang lalu meninggal. Jadi, dia kan kehilangan orang juga gitu ya. Itu gue suruh pindah ke tempat gue juga gak mau, karena menurut dia ngerepotin. Nah, gue tanya, ngerepotin siapa? Menarik. Ngerepotin mama. I asked, who's bothering you? Interesting. You're bothering your mom. And I tried to understand, it turns out, it's bothering her. Because it's not her environment anymore.

True, true.

And then, what's sad is that, all her friends are gone. She doesn't have any friends. That's it. But if you're in Pantijompo, I'm No, no. If you say that, I also meet my mom every week. I invite my son and family to meet. Because if we don't meet, we won't meet for a long time. But it's hard for us to make her happy.

Yes. Especially if the parents are like... We don't give them a burden of thought. We don't tell them anything. But we see... Especially in social media. He knows it. My mom is like,

there's a news like this. Is it true? Actually, I don't tell my mom so she knows. But, there's news.

Hearing, opinion, like this.

Not a friend gave it, but a relative gave it. Yes, that's right.

That's why I decided to... I'm Ya, betul. Misalnya ada acara apa, yaudah kita nginep di rumah anak.

Terus kita balik lagi ke Pantai Jompo.

Apalagi anak aku satu. Aku gak mau punya anak lagi nih. Anak aku satu. Jadi mau gak mau kan aku ke dia kan? Kalau aku numpang di dia atau menyusahkan dia, even aku ngasih rumah yang besar terus ayo tinggal sama mama. Kan prinsip anak sekarang sama aku tuh kadang beda ya? I As for Aska, she loves me.

And one of the things is, in her opinion, the advantage of having a father like me, because I'm updating.

Update.

Update. I mean, I can talk to her friends. I can do this and that.

You're flowing.

Maybe because we live in social media. That's right. Our job is like this. So, I meet a child who is much younger than me. Mungkin karena kita hidup di media sosial. Kerja kita tuh kayak begini. Jadi kan, gua ketemu anak yang jauh lebih muda dari gue, ketemu apa. Tapi kan orang tua kita gak itu ya? Gak gitu ya? Kalo kita mungkin masih bisa kesana tuh.

Tapi gua bilang sama Aska, iya, oke. Tapi one day soon. Pasti gua ketinggalan pola pikirnya. Pasti. Mau kita update segimanapun, pasti kita akan ketinggalan. I'm sure I'll miss the way of thinking. For sure. No matter how much we update, we'll miss it.

True.

We won't be able to connect.

True. So, instead of ruining our childhood, it's better to just stay at home. It's good to learn piano. There's something like that. Drawing, like SBY.

SBY is a painter.

And I just saw...

Making songs, SBY. I'm happy to see him. I'm so happy to see him. I see him painting, making songs. He's so happy. He's so happy. I want to be like him. I want to be like him.

I don't want to bother people. I don't want to ask for money. If I'm given money, thank God. If I'm asked for money, I'll ask for it. I don't want to bother people. I don't want to ask for money.

If I'm given, Alhamdulillah. If I ask for money, I don't want to trouble anyone. We don't want that. I don't want to. That's why I don't want to.

Children don't need to give their parents money. Children shouldn't bother their parents.

Yes, you're right. School is the right. The school is the right one. The job is the right one. The house is the right one.

But, is it because... You said your background is broken home. Is it because of that? Is there a reason for that?

Not really.

I don't know much. Sorry.

How about you? My father has another wife. Oh about it. Sorry. How did you break up? I broke up. So, my dad had another wife.

Oh, okay. Sorry.

So, from the age of 2, my dad already... He already divorced? He divorced and came back.

Oh, that's why it's not good.

That's why I said, why I think that everyone is not loyal? Because my father is like that, my first husband is like that, my second husband is like that. So, I said, okay, everyone is like that. So, I became... Even everyone said, there are people who said, no, my parents are still alive until now.

Well, I don't know if I know it or not. There was no social media back then. So, actually, it's not that no one is loyal.

Awet doesn't mean there is no controversy.

True.

Awet is because maybe they are smart to beat one another or hide one another. It can be like that. Because it's impossible. There is no controversy in the family. Either way, one of them is always losing.

That's right.

So, you were left behind by your father for 2 years.

2 years.

But you still met him.

We still met. We met, met, met. And then, he was gone.

Can I ask you a sensitive question?

What?

Do you hate your dad because of that?

No. No. I don't hate him. Because of that? No. No. No. No. No. No.

No.

No. No. No. No. No. I'm I've been with my dad. So you've had a stepmother? Yes.

And she didn't like it?

No, not at all.

Oh shit. I didn't know that.

Like in Indosiar-Indosiar.

Oh, right.

Don't lie. It's true.

So your stepmother was like that?

My stepmother was kind. She was kind. But she wasn't very humane. Especially me. He's nice. He's nice, he's nice.

I can't say he's bad or not.

He's nice, but he's not very humane.

Especially me.

Nowadays, people say, if you're a girl, choose a boyfriend. Choose a boyfriend. Yeah, yeah Yeah I'm Oh Yeah Yeah Yeah Yeah Yeah foreign

foreign hand wash so many butir i swear, i was given hand wash the other kids were given shampoo real shampoo

you were in the same bathroom, you can't take shampoo

i can't, don't use it like in the movies you use this like in the movies

i'm curious if your father knows about these things?

I don't know. I don't know and I don't want to know. I think he doesn't know about my feelings. But I don't know.

Has he ever argued with your father? No.

Oh.

Even when we were kids, I didn't argue with him about anything. Not the type of person who complains.

Her hair is thin. Including her thin hair. Maybe because of the hand wash.

Hand wash? Oh my, the one that smells like grapes. I'm confused, why does it smell like grapes?

Because if you look at her hair, Sorry, I mean... Her hair is thin, but it smells like grapes.

Right? You're right, it's hand wash.

This should be a tragic story.

It should be a tragic story.

This should be a tragic story.

This should be a tragic story.

Now it's Apple, sir.

It's been replaced.

People are used to it. People are used to it, it's hard. Let me tell you. What? I used to like to use a free weight gym equipment. Free weight is just dumbbells. Then I have a gym. I have a gym, right?

I have a gym.

You're arrogant.

No, I am.

Yes, you are.

I am arrogant.

The goal is to be arrogant.

The goal is that. I have a commercial gym.

Oh, yes.

I have a commercial gym.

I know that.

That equipment is sophisticated. Right. The equipment is sophisticated. The equipment in my house is much cheaper than the gym equipment.

Why?

Because I find it hard to shop. Because I think this is a sophisticated equipment. But I've been practicing with this cheap equipment. So, I feel better when I hold a cheap equipment, dumbbells and other cheap equipment, I feel like I'm practicing, compared to sophisticated equipment.

Although maybe the sophisticated equipment is better. But the mindset is like that. I don't know about this one. I'm You know the one in the bank? The one that has a picture of a kid? If there's a brand, it's better.

No, it's not.

No?

No.

It's better. My dad works in a bank. He's in the... ...supplier section. The one that likes to be hand-washed in the bank.

Oh, the one that has a white brand?

Yes.

Oh, the one that sells kilos? That's right!

You're so stubborn!

I swear, I'm a thief I'm a thief Believe it or not My aunt and I have a lot of thieves They put them They throw them

And spray them With a bygone

My head I was sprayed with bygone on my head Your hair is a mess

I was still young, I was sprayed with bygone But I got a lot of hair loss

You got hair loss?

Hair loss

I even used a hand wash

My hair was so curly What was it? It was so curly What was it? Is it because of your mom that your hair got curly? No, no, no I'm No, no, all the kids are kutuans. No, no, but it's true, they use it by go. Wow, there are so many kutuans.

But it's useless. Because they use that shampoo again. Then it's hot.

Why don't you complain to your father?

Because my father will definitely defend.

Not necessarily, the child is still a child.

Oh, I've been there.

No, you haven't.

I've done it before. You've done it before. I've done it before. But I'm not like, Oh, you're... Oh, that's it.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

So, that's it.

But now you're at peace with that, right? Yeah.

I'm very at peace.

I mean, sorry to ask, but, are you still with them?

Who? The mother-in-law. Who? Ibu Sambung Ibu Sambung? Still there? Still there Why did you borrow money yesterday?

That's life

That's life You used to seduce me That's life You borrowed money

That's what happens to a lot of Indosiar families

Indosiar families

Indosiar families A lot of them The Shina-Tuan Shina-Tuan Ajat That's right Indosiar. Betul. Keluarga Indosiar ya. Keluarga Indosiar. Banyak ya kayak begitu. Sinetron-sinetron ajak.

Benar. Benar-benar.

Tapi, sebenarnya menurut gua, it's okay. Karena ketika hal itu terjadi, artinya lu nunjukin secara tidak sadar bahwa lu berhasil.

Betul. Kan di mana-mana tuh lebih baik begini dibandingin begini. I'll show you that the kid who was abandoned is the most successful kid.

Oh my God. Why?

The kid who was abandoned is the most successful kid. Because if he was abandoned, he will be alone.

He will be alone. You know, you'll be struggling alone. You'll be struggling alone, right? Until you can get it.

But, until now, I don't have... I mean, until now, I've been struggling and I've been lucky.

But I like that. I mean...

Me? You must like it. I mean... With me?

With you, I'm sure you'll like it. If there's someone who doesn't like Ryuka, the shampoo is definitely the worst.

The grape?

I mean, what did I say? I forgot. The context is, we shouldn't become the person we hate. Right. Because sometimes we hate someone, and we become like that. Yes. Because that's the example.

Yes, that's right.

And the children who are struggling, this is a parent, not a heir. Right. A real parent like this, the struggle is more felt. More felt. I told Aska, my daughter, she has a dream. She's already had it. I told her, I can't scold her anymore because she's 19 years old. I told her, Aska, I want to tell you something. I come from a poor family.

I was raised years old. I told my son, I want to tell you something. I came from a poor family. Do you know what was the best thing my father gave me?

What?

The best thing was nothing. And then he asked, what do you mean nothing? Does that mean your dad didn't give you the best? No, that's not the context. That was the best thing I got from my dad.

Nothing?

Nothing. Because he couldn't give me.

Ah.

And it turned out that was what made me. But he really loved me. He supported me, he loved me, but he couldn't support me. So the support had to support myself. And I said, at that time, my only dream was to be a magician.

And at that time, what does a magician eat? My father supported me, but he couldn't help me with money. I worked hard on my own, I have to practice. Until you know, I told my son, you know that I won the world twice. I won the world twice. World magic.

World.

World. My question is, if I die one day, I won't be able to say anything. I think I have to do more. I think I'm not doing enough. My question to you is, have you done enough?

To get your dream? Have you done enough? Because you can get support from me.

Oh yeah.

Sometimes you can get support, but the effort becomes weak.

Becomes weak. Yes. Because you feel that someone is pushing you.

Someone is pushing you. If you just shampoo, it's hard.

It's hard.

You have to live alone. Right. So even changing shampoo to g alone. So, even changing shampoo to gold.

Right. Yes, until finally, I really wanted shampoo. There was a shampoo brand that made a shiny black. Because at that time, my hair was like a bird's nest, red, curly. Then I wanted a shiny black. Until now, I can afford to buy it.

Even the small things can be goals.

And you won't feel it if you don't experience all of that. That's why I'm the one who is now formed from the one who was before. That's why people say I'm tough. Yes, it's tough because the friends are tough. Because life is tough. Yes, because life is tough. And if they say, you're a coward.

Well, it's human. God created tears, not to be a coward.

That's right.

To make us cry. So, what's wrong if we cry? And what else?

That's it. Have you ever, I mean, at this moment, have you ever felt sad, crying, remembering everything? Is it still there? Or not?

It's starting to be rare. Now I'm more confused, Om. It's true what Om said before the podcast. If you're confused, you'll die quickly. on Yeah, Om! When I was thinking, I was confused. I was in the apartment, right? I wanted to jump.

See? That's right. If you don't want to jump, you'll be confused.

Confused, and jump.

And die. That's why.

That's right. So don't be confused.

But if you're confused, what do you think?

Confused, like that, Om.

Blank?

Blank, blank. Yesterday, I was on the balcony.

Oh my god.

I swear. I was like,

You're crazy. Why are you on the balcony?

I was so blank. I was so blank. I didn't have anything.

Now,

I'm at a point in my life where I feel like it's enough. Enough in the sense that I think my life is enough.

You know?

Yes, yes. It's not that the material is enough.

Oh, shh.

You know? So, whatever I do, I feel like my life is enough.

I swear. So whatever I do, I feel like my life is enough.

I swear.

Why is it so dark? But have you ever felt like that? Like this.

I feel like, okay, if shit happens, I've done the best thing in my life. That's for sure. But I don't want to think about it. I think it's enough.

No, I think like that. Now, even until this moment. So, it's like, you can just close the door. Like, it's not that I don't want to.

I understand.

But it turns out...

It turns out that Riuka's voice, even though it's just a closed door...

No, this is really good. I really dreamt that I could be invited to this podcast. But when I feel enough... enough, it's different. God is a God of many things. So, God will say, no, you're still alive. You'll be on Om Dad's podcast.

Don't be here. No, you can still be join Om Dad's podcast. For example, I dream of having a big SBN, or some kind of investment. You can still do it. So, I don't know why, but until now, it's like...

What if we go back to... What if you start thinking, No, my life is never enough because there are many people I can make happy.

No.

You make many people happy. Your content.

Yes. But there are many others who can make me happy. Not only me. Like, it's not only me Don't be insulted, my friend. So, I was like, it's okay. It's enough. Because I felt like my financial situation was safe.

My kids were all... Wait a minute. You felt like that. There could be two reasons. It could be because it was enough according to your version. Or because you were afraid of the future. I'm afraid. So, I... I'm a public figure, right? I can't do anything wrong.

I'm running to my family. I'm running to my kids. I'm afraid of my kids. So, like... If it's over now, it's over. If it's over now, at least I can go to my family. I can go to my family.

I can go to my family. I can go of my child. So, like... If it's over now, it's over. If it's over now, at least my name is good. My name in the world is good. And people are happy because of me. So, like, it's enough, God. It's enough. That's what I think. Why don't you think that your life now

is probably a dream of a woman who is in a cellar now? Why don't you think that your life now is a dream of a woman in Celedug. Celedug is the map. Or a dream of children who see you.

Or a dream of many people who want to be called to a podcast. Because I'm afraid of blundering. No, I don't think so.

Oh, shit.

Rika used to be a producer. She was a producer.

She was a producer. She was a producer. I was afraid of blundering. No, I don't think so.

Oh, shit.

You were in a relationship with Rika when you were in Pothub, right?

Yes, with Daffy.

Even Daffy clarified it.

I was afraid of being in the middle of...

But you knew that he was being searched.

I knew. That's why. So that other people don't look for it, I should just let it go.

But you understand, at that time, it was... It happened because people were looking for the problem. The Davies people didn't have a problem, we didn't have a problem. Even... Who is he with?

Yusril.

Yusril is worse.

Worse. Right? If we want to talk, I'm there. Right.

Usually it's worse.

That's why.

But it's like and dislike. Why do you let them win?

I don't let them win. But my son was attacked. I'm so afraid they attack my son. That's why I rarely post. Because people don't know I already have a son. Why do you hide it? Why don't you post it? Because I was afraid.

Michael Jackson.

Why?

His face was covered since he was a kid.

Oh, his child? Yes.

Because it was dangerous.

It was dangerous. I think. Digital tracks are never erased. I was afraid that people would look for my child. And then, they would say,

''My child...'' It So, the child must be educated. That's one of the things. Aska Nada is already educated. Aska has never seen you. She can say whatever she wants. But, Yuka, you have an amazing talent.

Don't lose it because of the unemployment that looking for a material to praise you.

Unemployment again.

That's the danger of unemployment.

Oh, that's it. It's a mental damage to the influencer.

The danger of unemployment.

If you have a lot of work, you can't manage people's family.

Right. Unless you're a lot of work, you can't take care of people's family. True.

Unless you're a content creator. Maybe content creators sometimes have a goal to find sensation. Right. Or what to look for.

Who is that, Om?

All content creators are like that. But if you're not a content creator, and you start judging people, it means that there is time to judge people. There is a lot of time. Not just for the function and work.

Right? Right. I mean, we are in this world. It's like this. I mean, not just you, you're not the one. If we talk about it, even the prophet was praised.

Yes, even the prophet was praised.

Yes, that's why.

But, why... What can make you change your mind and say, let's challenge it? Have you ever done that? No, I haven't think I've ever challenged myself. Have I?

No. Not yet. So, until now, it's enough. I've had enough. Until now.

Even when you're on a podcast, you're afraid to go back.

I'm afraid. I'm too afraid. But I always talk about politics. I'm afraid. But actually, it's not really the point. It's not that fear that makes me feel that life is enough.

It's like there are too many wounds.

So you don't want to have a new wound?

Yes, so I don't want to have a new wound.

But a new wound can be made without starting. That's why I don't want to have a new wound. But a new wound can be made by not starting.

That's why I don't want to get married and so on. I'm very afraid. Life is getting more and more... Humans are getting more and more error.

The world is getting more and more error.

The world is getting more and more error. So, I don't want to live in that long world. So, I think I've come this far. It's a sin, but I didn't kill ***. So, I just surrender.

But there's no context of killing ***?

No, no.

We'll clarify first. There's no context. But you gave up on life

That's right Not giving up, it's already... I gave up I don't want to anymore But when I decided to... I felt like that, many things that I dreamed of were achieved

That's why sometimes when people are in trouble, they pray to God. Usually when they are in trouble, they ask God, Why me? Why should I experience this?

That's possible. If God can answer directly, maybe God will answer. Why not? That's why we have to change, not why me.

The question is, what?

Try me.

Wow, that's challenging.

Because in my opinion, it's proven with what you've experienced and so on, it gives you this point. Yes, that's right. bukti kok dengan apa yang lu alamin dan sebagainya. Ngasih lu di titik ini. Iya. Iya betul. Iya. Ini kan Ryuka yang ini ada Ryuka yang dari komedi lu, dari apalagi lu komedian itu kan base-nya keresahan, keresahan. Masalah lu dan sebagainya kan. Tapi kan and everything. But making a story like this.

Yeah.

I'm one of your fans. I'm serious. I really like watching your content. Because in my opinion, it's so smart. My ex-wife, Sabrina, really likes watching your content.

Really? That's why when you make content, you're always asking for comments. Yes. You're always like, do you want this or not?

Thank you. When he was commenting, we were meeting.

But you weren't together anymore?

Yes.

We were meeting. We were laughing at your content. I mean, there are many people who are actually... ...entertained by you, like you. But maybe they didn't have the chance or... ...the moment to say it directly.

But there are also many netizens who praise you.

So many. Maybe we need to concentrate on that. langsung. Tapi kan banyak juga netizen yang memuji lu juga banyak banget. Banyak banget.

Maybe we need to concentrate on that. Instead of yang membuat pikiran lu kacau. Karena kalau ngomong begitu, nah gua disikat kemarin, pelit lah. Nggak nafkahin istri lah. Apalah. Ya mikir aja deh pake otak. Mungkin gak sih? Gak mungkin. I don't want to spend money on my wife. I just think with my brain. Is it possible that I don't want to spend money? Is it possible that I'm stingy and think with my brain? Those are all jokes.

You understand, right?

She's joking, I'm joking. Those are all jokes. I want to talk to Sabrina.

This... I want to talk to Sabrina.

When we were chatting on the podcast, when you were talking on my podcast, when I was talking about you, when you were talking about me, this is a video that happened 2 years ago, right? 3 years ago.

Why is there no problem? Why are you looking for it now? Why are you causing a problem now? I but it's being searched for

but that's what's scary that's what makes me scared

because we're talking about this, and there's nothing

but later

later it will be sent

given a title

if there's a problem, then it will be searched for

yes, that's right I mean, why do you have time to search?

because it's dangerous waste of time.

It's a waste of time.

It's like, it's an old video that didn't even work on the podcast. I mean, no one watched it.

Maybe no one watched it. Wow, now it's a clipper.

I swear.

Why do you have so much time?

Yeah, that's weird, right? Yeah, I talked to Sabrina like that. This is our old video, right? At that time, we laughed at the TV. Then the audience laughed at the TV. The comments laughed at the TV. That's why now.

Now it's like that. That's why we face it, if I and Sabrina are like this. We don't have a problem, you're looking for a problem for us.

Yeah, but it's true.

Maybe it can be... I mean, I just realized, there are a lot of people who are happy because of me. Why do I have to feel satisfied?

No, I have to say that I'm a fan of you. I watch your content.

Om Indro even likes it. I was like, oh, Om Indro.

That's a legend, boss.

Yeah, that's why I was like, oh, it means that my existence in this world is noticed by many people.

Noticed by many people. And you can make many people happy. Di notice banyak orang. Dan lu bisa membuat banyak orang bahagia.

Alhamdulillah.

Makanya kemarin pada saat yang kalau kasus gua, bukan kasus lah. Kalau konteks gua perceraian, orang mengatain gua, gua ga peduli. Ngatain Sabrina juga, Sabrina juga ga peduli. Kita diadu domba juga kita ga peduli. Kita hanya kuat di dalam, kenapa harus resah di luar gitu kan. We don't care if we're being chased. We're strong inside, why do we have to be weak outside? But when someone makes a clip about Fidi, I get mad.

Because it hurts.

I understand. You have to be as bad as you can be.

You're so strong.

You have to be as bad as you can be. I'm a fan. Nah, if we're talking about you, maybe some of you are in the government. You have to find an excuse to...

He's so positive about it.

What? That means you're sick.

Even in every pod hub, I swear.

If we say something wrong, he'll clean it up.

Yeah, that's right.

How can you swear like that?

Wow!

That's why the world is getting...

I'm sad. I'm just kidding. I'm sad not only because of Fidi. I'm sad because... How can it be? You understand what I mean, right?

I understand. I understand.

I feel sad to see this. But you're sad because, not because of the video, but...

The production. Yes, the production. I mean, like, why is it like that? People swear... Swearing that someone died means they hope that person is not here. I mean, why do you swear that a good person doesn't exist?

It's not a tolol. I don't understand the language anymore. Even describing it is difficult.

Pity. But we pity people like that.

That's why.

I pity you. I mean, what are you doing? Are you typing or what? Are you typing? Oh, Iseng, I see you're on PD.

We want to know what the momentum is.

Yes, the momentum.

I mean, why is he thinking about it?

Is he having a problem? Fighting with whom? His wife, his husband?

But, Om, many people are not happy to see us happy.

Yes. Maybe he's like that. I'm not happy when I see people happy.

Maybe he's like that.

Maybe he feels like, Ah, people don't usually praise Fidi. People don't usually scold Fidi. I try to scold him.

Just for fun?

Just for fun.

But why is he so mean?

Just for fun?

Yes.

Your fun is like, you don't have a brain.

Right?

That's it it is.

But I'm not running away from you.

But, Om, do you think I'm suitable to be your candidate? I'm still trying, okay?

I've come this far. I'm still trying. But this is just the beginning. We can still... I mean, I got to know you better, you know me better. We've never talked like this.

Never.

Never on TikTok.

Usually we talk on Pothub or Somasia.

And discuss other things.

This is really a TikTok. But I think I'm suitable for you. Can you imagine us both? This size ring. It's easy, I have a lot of rings. I'm going to be hypnotized. I was playing the piano. I was singing. You were climbing up the balcony. The wind was blowing. It was a pijama.

I was wearing a pajamas. You were so old.

And you came to the party. No.

Don't think like that.

I can't think like that. I closed the balcony. Oh, you let me outside. So't think like that. I can't think like that. I can't think like that. I'll close the balcony.

Oh, leave me outside? Leave you to be confused. I think we're a good match. No, we're not a good match. We're not. But you want to, right?

Let's go take a bath together.

Let's go.

You go first.

I'll take a bath first. Yeah, you first I'm the one who's going to be the first You first

But you're going to be a senior there How? I'm going to be the preman there Yeah, and when I go in, you're going to protect me

Yeah, yeah The parents can't bully you

They can't And there's a grandpa who's going to be like

He's going to be like, you're crazy

Even his butt is like Even your butt is like It's like it's here

It's big but it's down It's down But I was scared

But there's still a pentil

He's a senior, he can still move

That's it

That's it, we'll make it But we don't have to get married No need I'm going to be a I have a pair of shoes I have a pair of shoes I feel more energetic when I go to the gym I have a pair of shoes

One pack

I'm so happy with your kids

Are they tall?

No, they're handsome My dad is like this

But they look like siblings Their faces look alike I know right? They're both kids, their faces look alike Have you ever thought is You feel send a reagan. Yeah, I'm gonna come over come out and make a beacon Diadare, but something I know that nada nada 12 It's a new bonding. Yeah, I think I did a bank of the decade and been a miracle caddy

You know, I'm gonna do the room Yeah, yeah, I didn't imagine that I had a look like a bujo. I'm gonna send it I'm I saw him, and I said, it's okay. He was in the gym, wearing a gym clothes. I said, it's okay, because he was in the gym. Wearing a gym clothes, because he had a big belly. He was in the gym, and the police officer came to him.

I asked, why are you wearing a gym clothes? He said, it's ugly. I said, it's okayî I saw him from afar. He approached me. He approached me and asked, ìAre you okay?î He was wearing a bag. I was confused.

Because my brain was in the gym. And I think. It's just a little belly. But I said, I said this, Aska, according to Papa, this is the gym, and that's the most polite. Then, are you okay? I'm not.

Okay. Then he said, do you want me to consider him as my brother?

Yes.

Yes. Okay. If I have to say that it's okay, I won't consider him as my brother.

Ah.

Ask him to change.

Okay. I said, okay. I was wrong. I was wrong. I said, okay. I was wrong.

Because the context protects his brother. I was wrong. I said, okay, I was wrong.

Because the context was protecting her sister. If I cut there, it would be all wrong. I was told, yeah, you're right. Papa, okay. I'm not. I'm wearing a jacket now.

You're wearing a jacket. But isn't that a private gym?

This is public gym. I think it's a bit rude to do that in a gym.

Because in a gym, you have to move around a lot. But it's okay. That's how it is now. So, for me, now, it's fun because I don't have to take care of anything.

What else?

I have to take care of Aska.

Yeah, yeah.

She's the one who takes care of it. If she's lazy, Aska will do it.

And she's obedient.

She's more obedient to Aska than to me.

But her father is Aska.

No, because if he's still looking at me as if I'm Angkat's father. Angkat's father means that he's much older than me. I'm much older, and maybe I'm more wise. Maybe I'm more spoiled. What about his brother?

Yeah, I'm scared. Because it's scary. But, is Aska a weirdo? I'm not going to be a Takuti concern, I'm happy I said

Yeah, yeah, it'll be masala Yeah, and I don't know

I don't know if I am

you'll see you Did he ask a to the payang crash crash crash crash crash crash Aska is a tough type. Not a rough type, but a tough type. Cool. So, she's quiet.

I asked you about this conversation on purpose. To know more about my future child. How Aska is. Aska doesn't like to be open. I'll use a closed one.. Tendang, for example. Tendang Awinan. I'll just close it later.

What do you not like about Nada? Nada is a bit of a snob, I mean, she's a bit of a flirt.

Nada is more of a flirt than a snob. But, you know, I wake up at 2 in the morning every day.

That's amazing. Really?

Yes.

Can you read it?

I learn it.

Oh, yes.

And what do you pray for?

I go to the gym.

Do you pray for Tajud?

So, I'm talking to Ustaz Felix now. I watch YouTube. I just follow what's on YouTube.

Oh, it's okay.

Yes, it's okay. Of course. It's okay, right? It's a holiday. Because if you go to the mosque...

It's a holiday, right?

Yes, if you go to the mosque, it's crowded.

Crowded.

Then, people ask for photos.

Yes, so that's it. Then, I go to the gym.

Go to the gym.

At 3 or 4 o'clock.

Then, you sleep again?

No. Oh, you're sick? I'm drinking porridge. Drinking porridge? Yeah, drinking porridge. It's so refreshing! It is refreshing, but I get enough sleep.

When do you sleep?

Around 9 o'clock.

In the morning? At night. At 9 o'clock at night, you're already asleep?

Yes, I wake up at 2 o'clock. So, if you were my wife, you. All of it. Swimming pool, swimming pool.

Oh, clean it?

Yes.

Then, you're a housekeeper, Om. You're looking for another wife, you're looking for a housekeeper.

Yes, it's refreshing, that's true. Yes, I swim at 6 in the morning.

Swim at 6 in the morning, Om. Isn't it Mr. Prabowo?

Hmm. I'm I had a job in this place with Prabowo. I woke up at 4 in the morning.

Oh, not at 2?

No, because I was in another place. I was tired. Then I went straight to the gym. I went down to the gym. When I was about to go to the gym,

suddenly, I saw Judan. In the gym. While I was going to the gym,

suddenly, I saw your son, Judah.

At the gym.

Was it Bobby? No, it was Bobby. He was sleeping.

Sleeping, okay.

I saw your son, Judah. I said, hey, bro. I thought he was practicing. Then, he took a drink and walked. I asked, where where is he? I asked him to take me to the pool. He said, what? He said, he's swimming. I was like, what?

What time did he swim? I think it was around 3. I was like, oh my god. But he was cold, right? I looked at him and I was right.

But is it true that he was swimming

without any sound?

Yeah, he was swimming. oh my god. But it was cold, right? I saw it and it was true.

But is it true that he swam without screaming?

Yes, he was calm.

Really calm.

That's so cool.

I think it's not to make you calm and fresh. As a swimmer. But I was surprised because I thought it was morning.

It turns out there is a more morning. Above I was already in the morning. But there are more people in the morning. There are more people in the morning.

Yes, there are more people in the morning. It's hard for him to swim every day. And he's really tired. Especially being the president of Indonesia.

Are you tired now being the president? I don't know. I've never been.

I saw you when you were a president, there were so many problems.

It turns out that after it was done, I saw it. Okay, don't support that, guys. So, later, I have to wake up early, midnight.

I haven't slept yet.

It's okay. We smoke coffee all the time. Coffee, coffee, coffee, asam lambung, gendal. I haven't slept yet. It's okay. It's okay. The important thing is... It's okay.

We smoke coffee all the time.

Coffee, coffee, coffee, smoke, die.

That's the goal.

Love doesn't take long.

What's important is loyalty.

Loyalty, but not for a moment. The shorter the time, the more likely the loyalty. Yes, don't be like Aji Andre.

What if I'm like Aji Andre? I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know.

I don't know.

I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. oh islami I'm thinking ending it in Panti Jompo with Om Ded Yeah, okay Deal? Deal Deal, yeah So, what now?

What?

Let's do a... What is it? Ijab Kabul, let's do a prank

No, no need for a prank No need for a prank I'm not that charming We'll make a contract later

What?

Make a contract like in Arab?

Like in Puncak?

Like in Puncak? It's like Buncak! Yes, Arab village! I swear Rika, thank you for coming

You're welcome How long has it been? It's just that long, Om! We haven't taken a shower yet, Sir

It turns out you're tired It's been an hour and a half

I haven't cried yet, Sir

No, I don't want to make you cry

Thank you, Sir That's the real passion

It's beautiful like this I'm weird? I accept it, no problem. No, no, I don't think so. No, I don't think so.

I mean,

I don't have a problem when people say I'm weird and stuff. It's the same as, sorry to say, if I say, I really don't like your hair to be blue, it's ugly, like a frog, you know?

Whose hair is blue?

Yours. Why is it blue? I'm not mad at you. I don't like your hair. It's blue. Why aren't you mad? I said it's like a frog. Do I have to be mad? I told you earlier. I don't like your hair. It's blue. Like a frog.

No, I mean my hair isn't blue.

I mean I don't want to do it.

Oh, I see.

If you don't feel it, why are you mad? I'm sorry.

Oh, my. Hi. Hi. Hi. We're going to be on YouTube.

Thank you. Yeah, I'll be with Haji Andre later.

Yeah, yeah.

With Haji Andre.

We'll be on Photoshop with Haji Andre.

Right.

Right? Vidi, get well soon. We'll be meeting Haji Andre, Ruka, me, and Vidi.

Right.

Right.

That's cool.

Deal.

Deal. That was so cool This was recorded, all Indonesia knows If Om Dad is lying

Vidi, get well soon Vidi has to get well Next week Next week, get well Next week also shooting

Next week, oh no, it's just a second wife

She will get sick again

It's true

He made people

You made him sick It's me who made him sick foreign Wow, I'm sorry, Fidi. No, no, no. Fidi will recover tomorrow.

We'll do a podcast together. Me, Fidi, Haji Andre, and Om Dad.

Okay, done. Thank you, Rika.

You're welcome. Thank you, Fidi. Bye, Fidi. Bye, Fidi. He's watching.

Oh, really? Oh, really?

He likes to watch.