PENGAKUAN HELWA BACHMID!! DITELANTARKAN HABIB BAHAR?!

Why did you want to marry just with a letter like this?

I thought we were going to use a wedding invitation. But it turned out to be just a letter. I kept asking where the wedding invitation was. He said it would be easy. He kept saying that.

He said she was his last wife.

He told me that he was his last wife.

He was going to remarry. Oh, he was going to remarry?

He was going to remarry. He got married again. He got married again? We had a meal with sweet tea. We had a meal with sweet tea. Because there was nothing else.

I sent him a photo. He said he hadn't eaten for three days. What about the baby inside? I was so confused. How could this happen?

Because I was abandoned by my child. I've never been forgiven, not even once a month.

Do you already know the consequences of this podcast. You already know the consequences of this story. Especially since you are still single. You know the consequences, right? Assalamualaikum. Waalaikumsalam.

With Mrs. Helwa and Mrsbundanya. Is that the son? Yes, the son. How old is he? Three months. Three months.

What is your status now?

I'm still his wife.

From? Habib Bahar. Habib Bahar bin Smith. Yes.

The one with the blonde hair?

Correct. The one with the yellow hair? Yes. Correct? Correct. Is that right? Yes. Why are you here?

I want to speak up. Before I hear you speak up, I want to make sure. Are you sure you want to share your story?

I'm sure.

I'm very sure.

You're sure? Yes. I'm sure. I'm very sure.

You're sure? Yes. Are you sure, ma'am?

Yes.

Because there's a baby in front of you.

That's right.

He's still 3 months old.

That's right.

Wow, he hasn't even started yet and his mother is already crying. What's wrong, ma'am?

I'm really sad, doc.

Because I was abandoned by my child. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

I'm sorry. I was only his mistress.

He never came. He only came once.

You're his wife, right?

No, I'm not his wife.

I don't have a marriage certificate.

You're just married like this?

I'm just get married. I want to get married like this. I want to get married like this.

The letter of statement with the signature below, her name, with all her identities. I state that I have married a woman named Helwa Putri Fauzi. Her identity,

I have married her. Friday, November 15, 2024, at 8.20 pm, W WIB in Tsentul. I was married to my brother-in-law, Muhammad Sultan bin Fauzi Bahmid. He was a goldsmith, and he had two grams of diamonds. And he was seen by two people.

There were no diamonds at all.

The ring was just this.

This?

Yes, that's right.

I'm sorry, I'm not following the story. Does he already have a wife?

Yes, he does.

Before he married me, he admitted that he doesn't have a wife. He's divorced. He showed me his divorce application, and he only sent it once. I was sent to be seen. So I wanted to marry him. At first, I thought he was a prophet.

I wanted to marry him because I thought he was a good person. But he wasn't.

He was just playing with my family, played with me and our marriage.

Oh, he admitted that he was already divorced.

He already got a divorce. He doesn't have a wife anymore.

Oh, you don't know? I don't know.

The real one?

The real one.

What about the real one?

What do you mean?

The real one, he already has a wife or what?

Yes, he already has a wife, but he's divorced.

We were blind at that time. But he was actually divorced? Yes, he was divorced. He was divorced, but he returned to his wife.

After the divorce, he returned to his wife.

Okay, let's start from the beginning. How did you get to know each other?

We got to know each other from the beginning. My mom you meet each other? We met each other through video calls. He also has an event in our area. In Kepulauan Sula. We are from North Maluku. Kepulauan Sula. My son is an icon.

He is a model from North Maluku. My cousin called me. I have a house to eat. So my cousin called me and asked if I wanted to eat. I said I wasn't there. I was in Menado. I was with my son who is a sultan and is studying.

He said, you're lying. I said, just video call. When he video called me, he was with Habib Bahar. He said, oh, you're there? Yes. With who? Children? He asked, where is the Sultan? I said, this is the Sultan. He asked, where is Helwa? I said, this is Helwa. There, Habib Barr saw Helwa and they asked for their phone numbers.

They chatted.

That was the first time you met?

Yes, the first time.

When was that?

September. That was pretty fast.

You got married in November. September was the first time you met. Yes. And then?

We were packing our stuff and we were going to go to Sabuk. My cousin asked me where I was going. I said I was going back to my hometown to get some money. I was going to Surabaya, I have a cousin who's getting married. He said, don't go to the village, just send your stuff, you can take a plane with us. He said, I don't have money. He said, just send the KTP, we'll buy you and Helwa tickets to Surabaya.

I was confused with my brother, what should I do? Should I go to Java. He said, you're wasting your money, you should find another job. You should go with your son, so we can have a good life. We left, but not together. We went to Surabaya first.

What was the purpose?

The purpose was to go to my cousin's wedding. I'll show you again. When we were in Surabaya... She gave me flowers. For a few days, we went to a sermon in Dupak. I remember that time.

We got off the bus that day. And at night, he got off at 7pm. He called us to his hotel room. We wanted to go to my cousin's house, but he said, we should go to the sermon first. But we went to the house with the Hajat.

We stayed there for two nights. He told us not to go home. We said, no, we wanted to go to our family. He said we should go to Dupak for a sermon. After the sermon, he wanted to go to Jakarta.

Who was he?

Bahar went to Jakarta. My son and I went straight home to... What was it? Surabaya? Perak. We went to Perak. He gave me this flower and my son. This flower. Habib gave this to Kaua. There are words for it.

I offer this white rose that you like from me who is not honest in loving you. Have you met him? Yes. We met at Dupa. Oh, you met him.

Yes. Was there a special moment when you met him?

There was a moment when he told me about his story with Helwa. He wanted to find a partner for Helwa. He said, there is this kind of person, kind, this kind, this kind. Then I said, yes, Bip. I told him, I hope my son will be happy to wear short clothes because he is a model. I want him to be better than before. He said, it's okay, just be calm.

It turns out he is the one who is the best. I don't know if my son has a relationship with God. But I have a good intention. I hope he can change my son, who was short, to be even better. It turns out that the one who has been having a marriage problem all this time is not there. He doesn't stay at home. He's somewhere else.

My son is at another place. And that's where we got into a fight.

Okay, slowly, so that people can understand. So, when you first met, he wanted to find a partner. Yes, he wanted to find a partner for me. You were looking for a partner.

Yes.

You were looking for a partner. And he said there was a partner.

Yes, there was. He was nice. He was a good person.

The first time you met him, what did you value from him?

That one. Try to open the paper, Doctor.

He was nice.

The other one.

Okay.

Ah, that one. The first moment.

Oh, this is the first moment?

Yes. I He didn't leave. He said he kept remembering Helwa. Okay. Then, suddenly, on a Sunday night, he came again. I thought he was already in Jakarta. It turned out that on that Sunday night, he picked us up. So, there, we went to an Arab restaurant. Shisha was there.

Okay, he kissed your hand.

Then, he gave you this flower.

Yes, that's right.

While giving it to you.

No, he didn't give it to me. And he gave you this flower? Yes, that's right. While you were praying?

No, he didn't give it to me. He gave it to someone else. To the person who owns the house we were living in.

Okay.

How did you feel at that time?

I was just normal. I didn't have any feelings for him.

Oh, you didn't like him either?

No, I didn't.

Okay, next. What happened after that? I don't like it. Okay, next. After that, how was it? After that, I thought,

he said he wanted to find a partner for me. I waited for the person he said would come later, would meet you, a nice person, but it turned out he was the one who proposed to me. He proposed to you?

Yes, he proposed to me. I rejected him. I rejected him three times. But he forced me to get married. I said I wasn't ready to get married. I wasn't too mature yet. I wanted to live my future first. I wanted to have a career first. He said, oh yeah, it's okay. You can learn. If you marry me, you can learn. Like this, like this, like this. It turned out that everything is a lie.

Okay, what do you mean by lying?

He asked, what is your purpose in marriage? I said I wanted to make my parents and my siblings happy. And I want to take my mom to Hajj or Umrah. He said, oh yes, I'll take your mom to Hajj or Umrah. And go out with your siblings. It turned out that it was all a lie.

Okay.

When he asked you to marry him, the first time you rejected him? Yes, I rejected him. You didn't want to? I didn't want to.

I cried to my mom. I said I didn't want to marry him. Why? I don't have any feelings for him. I don't love him either. Okay. And then? Then, I was confused.

I just wanted to marry him.

On the same day?

Yes, on the same day. I was hypnotized. I was also very happy. I liked it. He wanted to marry Habib Bahar. He gave us the ring without hesitation.

Oh, you liked it?

Yes. Why did you like it so suddenly?

I liked him so suddenly.

You accepted his proposal?

Yes.

In Surabaya?

Yes.

And you were happy? Yes, I'm happy too.

Okay. Because Helwa has found the right person.

Yes, and I think that if Helwa is married, I'm already out of the chain.

And I will go back to Maluku to find a way to live again. Because Helwa's father is already dead.

Okay. When I was married to Helwa, father had passed away. When I told Helwa that I was getting married, I told her that I wanted to go home because I had two more children, two boys, who went to school and college. I had to find money for them. She said, don't worry, I'll stay here with Helwa.

I'll keep Helwa company, and I'll take care of the kids. But she only took care of the kids until the end of the Idul Fitri. That's it. After that, she stopped.

Okay. Let me ask you something so we don't jump to conclusions. You got the proposal in September. September. September. In September. Okay. Then, in November, did you meet?

Yes, he came often.

He came often.

He came often to the two-month pregnancy.

Sorry, I don't know. You met in September. What date is this?

That was in September.

September. You got is this? September. You got married in November. 15th of November. You haven't got married yet. Where do you live?

He invited us to Jakarta. To my grandmother's place. But you didn't want to get married yet. He said he wanted to go on a trip. He said he wanted to go on a trip first.

He invited us to go on a trip. In Jakarta. We lived in Bogor. At that time, you were still getting to know each other.

Yes, we were still getting to know each other.

What did you think of Habib at that time? What was he like?

He was a good person, romantic. But after the marriage, everything changed.

Okay. I'm sorry, but why did you want to get married just with a letter like this?

I thought Nikah was using a wedding invitation. It turns out it's just a letter. When I asked for the wedding invitation, he said, I don't know, maybe later they'll make it. I kept asking him where the wedding invitation was. He said, later.

It's easy.

He kept saying that.

Oh.

So there's no special event? No. It's easy to change. He kept saying that. Oh.

So there was no event?

No. The event was private. Private?

Yes.

Did he explain why it was private? He said he didn't want people to know. If he injected a mosquito, everything would go viral. He said that. Then, he wanted to get married,

but his cell phone was collected, using a phone holder. He said that no one could take a picture. Mahar was not there, only Mas Kawin. No pictures at all?

No pictures at all. He didn't even use his cell phone in the video.

He said that he couldn't use his cell phone in the video.

So you didn't have any photos or videos when he was in Kabul and so on?

So he sent us a photo of their wedding. It was just a picture of him cutting the cake.

Oh yeah?

Yeah, that day he sent it.

This?

Yes.

We got that. We got it ourselves.

Oh, when he sent sent, there was no...

No.

We asked him to send it, but he didn't want to.

He didn't give it to us. He didn't give it to us. He kept it a secret. He kept it a secret. He didn't want people to know. He didn't know we had this, either.

Okay, that's it. Do Helwa and Bunda know about Habib Bahar? We didn't know him at all. We didn't know him at all.

I don't know him. If I were a mother, it's impossible for me to want to pair my child with someone else's husband. It's impossible. My child is the only one. The only woman who can make me proud. But why did I suddenly want to marry my son to him?

That's what I didn't think.

You didn't know he was married?

I didn't know because he told Helwa that he only had one wife. But he had already divorced her.

Okay, he admitted it from the beginning.

After he got married, he said he was back with his wife.

Okay, I'll hold on to that. Do you know if he was ever arrested? No.

We don't know.

I only found out after he got married.

He told me.

You didn't know before he got married?

No, I didn't.

You didn't try to read the news or look for information? No. You didn't know? No, I didn't know at all. You didn't try to read the news or look for information? No. You didn't know? No.

Your mother didn't know either? No.

We were just being stupid.

Just being stupid. We didn't want to know. We just wanted to get married. We didn't think about why. We didn't know. Do you want to get married because of him? I just don't know why he did it.

Do you want to marry him because he is a prophet and he is a famous person?

I thought that if I marry him because he is a good person, he is a prophet, he can change me into a better person. But it turns out that it's all a lie.

Okay. This is the wedding, right? Yes. Using this letter. This is the wedding photo.

Yes.

Okay, after getting married, what happened in your marriage?

He never came. He just left me and my mom alone at the house he contracted. Even at that house, he said he bought it for me. He gave me the facilities, the car, everything. But it was all a lie. The house was contracted. The contract was accepted by my mother.

Okay.

He claimed that he bought it for you.

He bought it for me.

That's what he that to my family.

I'm sorry, but what about the first night?

The first night, it didn't happen. What?

The next day,

Okay. But he gave you a mental checkup? Yes. And then he disappeared? He disappeared. Just once?

Yes.

He never came back?

He came once a month.

That's all. He rarely came back. He rarely came back. He never answered his phone. He never answered his phone because he was sick. He didn't answer his phone.

Okay. What else happened?

He asked for money. He didn't give me a monthly salary. He gave me whatever he wanted.

May I know how much?

First, a million. That million was reduced to 300. May I know how much? The first one million, that one million, it went down to 300. How long did it last? 400, 500. How long?

Three times. For four months? No, I mean, one month, he gave three times.

One month, for one month,

he gave three times. One million, 300, 400 a month, he gave you three times? Three times.

One million, three hundred, four hundred.

Except for the Eid al-Fitr, he gave me two million to buy clothes.

Okay, is that enough?

That's not enough either. But I also have small businesses in the village, so it's getting worse. Okay. While he didn't contact you at all,

in a month, he came to you once, did you try to contact him or communicate with him? I tried. What did he say to you?

He just said he was sick. He didn't answer his phone. He was busy.

He was busy taking care of his people.

That's all. I was tired of talking to him. Because talking to him was like a waste of time. He was just playing with me. When I was pregnant, he never came. He went to the USG, didn't have money,

we sold my father's ring. The ring that my father gave me, I sold the ring my father gave me for my son's high school.

I went to the doctor.

But did he come once a month? What did he come for?

He came just to make a relationship.

Oh, he came just to...

Just to do that. During the wedding, I was never taught about religion or anything. I never told her about my family or anything. Never at all.

She came only because she wanted to. Oh, really?

Yes.

There was no guide? No, not at all. Our guide was praying.

She came not alone. He came with us, not alone. He came with his crew, with his children.

Oh, he came with his crew? Okay, and what did he do when he came?

He sat down and ate. I cooked, I serve.

Okay, and Habib?

Habib just sits and talks to Helwa.

Just normal stories.

No family or future stories.

Just chatting with his friends. So I asked him, what did you talk to him about the future? He said, nothing. I asked him, what did you talk about? He said,

he just said, I want to get married again. I want to find a new wife. He said that? Yes, he was like, he was trying to bait my emotions.

He said, I want to get married again, I want to find a new wife. I think it's good that he wants to find a new wife. He kept saying that. He never talked about family or anything.

Never at all.

And what was your response?

I just kept quiet. It hurt my heart. It hurt my heart.

I just held it in. So he came to the meeting, and talked to you first, or did you have a relationship with your husband first? No, we talked first. After that?

Then we went upstairs. Did you bring your team? Yes, we slept on the carpet.

After the meeting,

he went downstairs. And then he went home. He went home? He didn't sleep. He didn't even have his own clothes at home. So it was like my son was being spoiled. He was just playing around.

If a husband and wife,

no matter what, the husband should have his own clothes. He should have his own clothes in the house where his wife lives. But he didn't have any. He was just playing around.

He was just playing around. He was just playing around. No matter what, my husband should have a place in this house where his wife lives. But he's just playing with my daughter. What he told me yesterday was not what I expected. It's not the same.

I'm sorry, but is there a prayer room at home?

Yes, there is.

And you live together? Yes. Have you ever been guided your mother? With my mother. Did you live alone? Yes. Did you ever have religious guidance?

No.

Never.

Never.

Did you pray together?

Never.

Only once.

Only once? Until now. Did you teach her to read the Quran? No.

Did you teach her religious knowledge? No. I thought if I wanted to marry him, he would guide me, teach me about religion, teach me what I didn't know. But it's not the same. I was also surprised.

Why did I marry someone like this? Like a mistress. A mistress. He came as she pleased. She cried and asked her mom. She said,

I'm getting married just like this. I don't have a husband. I'm like a widow. My son never got married.

I got married when I was just born. He got married me a cold. I only gave him a cold when I was born. He would go home right away. He never gave me a cold. He came home only twice.

You got married in November. When did you get pregnant?

I got pregnant in December.

You got pregnant right away. How is he?

He is still sulking. He was flirting with me. Yes. He was flirting.

Why was he flirting?

I don't know. I was confused with him. When he had a problem with his wife, he would flirt with me. I was confused with him. I was like, what's wrong do anything wrong, but he was like, what? He was like, what? He was like, what? He was like, what? He was like, what? He was like, what? He was like, what? He was like, what? He was like, what? He was like, what? He was like, what? He was like, what? He was like, what? He was like, what? He was like, what? He was like, what? He was like, what? He was like, what? He was like, what? He brought her to the doctor only twice. Twice.

He accompanied you to the doctor twice?

Because he said, all his pregnant wives, he never took them to the doctor. Then I said, those are his wives, if they are my children, I can't take them. The husband must take his wife to the doctor. He took her twice. He said he was sick and busy, so I let him take her. He gave me his car's driver,

his son, who took us to the doctor. Then, in July, I told him, I told him, I told him, I told him, I told him, I told him, I told him, I told him, I told him, I told him, I told him, I told him, I told him, I told him, I told him, I told him, I told him, I told him, I told him, I told him, I told him, I told him, I told him, I told him, I told him, I told him, I told him, I told him, I told him, I told him, I told him, I told him doctor. Then, he said, Mom, don't ask for more. It's better if we sell our cellphones. He once bought me a cellphone. He bought me a cellphone. I said, let's sell it.

It was seven months, right? Seven months, we sold our cellphone, and then we went to the doctor. Because I called his mother. His mother said, oh, I'm sorry. His mother is taking care of the people.

I can't call him. Oh, well, let's just be quiet. Then we sell the cell phone, we continue to treat. At the age of 8 months, he sold his father's ring.

That's the same thing.

Okay. So, while you were pregnant, you weren't accompanied?

No.

Even once a month?

He slept with me. So, I said, I was sick, because I have a husband. I was pregnant and sleep with my husband. Why are you sleeping with your mother? This is wrong.

What kind of teaching is this? You have to protect your husband. You're pregnant and you have to sleep with your husband, not your mother. I told her, she cried. I told her, we have to be patient. We won't be strong for long.

Have you ever called your daughter-in-law and scolded her?

Yes. I was angry with her. At the time, she told me about her 7-month pregnancy when she was about to celebrate her birthday. June is the 7th, right? I told her, Habib, Helwa is about to celebrate his birthday on the 6th, the 7th. I told him, Habib, Helwa is about to celebrate her birthday. He said, yes, I know.

Mom, don't worry, I want to give a surprise for Helwa. Oh, yes, Habib. That's it. Then, at that time, Helwa was pregnant too. Helwa was decorating the house, using balloons. I made the cake.

I thought, usually we have a our husbands like to give surprises. At 12 o'clock, usually husbands like to give surprises. So I thought maybe he was like that too. Because he said he wanted to give a surprise. So when I made a cake, I made all kinds of snacks. Suddenly he didn't come until 12 o'clock.

We were the only two who celebrated. Oh, he didn't come at all? He didn't come until 12 o'clock. We were the only ones who celebrated. Oh, he didn't come at that time? He didn't come.

He didn't give a speech either?

No. Tomorrow at 12 o'clock at night, he came with a cake. Then he said, he brought flowers too. But he gave the flowers to someone else. Then he gave the cake to Helwa. He said, Mom, you go in first.

I want to talk to Helwa. I thought, oh, maybe it's the surprise he told me yesterday. He called Helwa to the back terrace. He said, his wife in Kalimantan

was pregnant for six months. Helwa was devastated. I was devastated, too was six months pregnant. Her health was deteriorating. I was also deteriorating. I invited her to come up to me. She was with her friends, and there were a lot of them.

I said, I wanted to talk to her. I got mad at her. I asked her, what was your intention and purpose of marrying my child?

She said she loved him And there was a video. I was angry with him, and I cried. I cried too.

Was there a video?

Yes, there was. Everything we did with him was recorded. He didn't know we recorded it. And I cried. I said, what's the point of you marrying my son? He said he loved her.

You love her on her happy day. You destroy her life, you destroy him. My only son never like this, what people make. Only you are the one who makes my son destroyed. You know, his heart is swollen, he is pregnant. If I'm not here, how is his life?

I'm just here, I don't have a job, I live far away, it's dark there. I told him, be patient, I love him. I told him, if you're not pregnant, I'll take you home to the area. Because you're pregnant with him, he has to be responsible. I will report and I will open everything. I told him that. What did he say?

He was silent.

He destroyed our lives. We used to eat rice with sweet tea. We were poured with sweet tea. Because there was nothing else.

We asked for money, but he never replied.

I forgot to take a picture. I forgot to take a picture of the fridge and the rice. I said, the food is the food was already sold out. The fridge was empty. I waited and waited and waited, but there was no food. I was fasting, doctor.

I waited and waited, but there was no food. We were in the village, eating rice and tea. We were used to living in poverty. I said, just eat rice with tea. We're used to living in hardship. I told him to eat rice with tea. He said, yes, mama, it's okay. I sent him a photo of me here,

three days before I ate. How's the situation inside? That's what I'm wondering. How did someone like this happen to my husband? We're both alone. I'm I sent a video to him, he said, I haven't eaten for three days here. He replied.

After the mother got angry, there was no improvement either.

I had a conversation with my relatives to help me. They said, look at your brother, why did he do this to my son? I was so young, they didn't even let me go. We only asked for protection and responsibility. We only asked for his life. He didn't have a pure heart.

And until, I'm sorry, until his birth, it was the same?

Even his birth, he sent his mother to the oxygen. He said he was sick. I just accepted it. He wanted to lie. That's Allah's secret. But I told him, You came. Your wife about to give birth.

I once filmed Helwa walking around the hospital with a pain in her stomach. I took Helwa out for a walk with the infusion. She didn't respond, she said she felt sorry for Helwa. I said, you're not coming, your wife is about to give birth. If she's about to give birth, who's going to teach her? Do you want someone else to teach her or you?

He came all of a sudden. But when we were giving birth, his mother was there to take care of us. His mother-in-law was still there to take care of us and give us medicine. But Bahar didn't get mad. He came home after the prayer, carried the baby, and then he went home.

Oh, he just came home after the prayer?

He came home after the prayer, and didn't come to see me again. Then we asked him, if he wanted to use a pillow. He said, no need to use a pillow, I can take care of it.

What did he use? He used the money from the farmer's daughter. The money that he usually gives to his younger brother. Usually there are babysitters, but we don't use that. So, the people in the village have to pay 2 million. He said, you are the one who manages it.

He said to Helwa, and then my aunt who came from Surabaya said, why is that? Why do you ask someone who is just born to take care of it? We are the ones who take care of the birth. Eat, drink, because there are a lot of stitches. Then I asked for help from my relatives in Manado.

They sent me 2 million rupiahs to pay for the person.

Not from? No.

There is.

And after that, you were three months old.

Then we left the house on what day? More than the 20th. Yes, we both sold everything in the house. We were all in a hurry.

Why?

Because we wanted to eat, drink, get money from where? Want to buy milk from Dede.

Oh, he didn't give you the money?

He gave me from the 21st, 500 thousand.

What 21?

21 yesterday. October.

He gave 500 thousand?

500 thousand he gave. He gave me a photo of the fridge, photos of the place,000 rupiahs. He took a picture of the fridge and other things. He said that we ran out of food. He gave 500,000 rupiahs to the child of a nun. I told him that we didn't eat anything. What's important is that he had milk and diapers.

When we asked for laundry and people came, we usually bring our laundry to the condo. It took a week or two to get the laundry. We didn't have any clothes to wear. So I decided to wear the laundry in the area nearby. The laundry man came and asked where we were going.

We said we were going back to our hometown. He said, what are you doing with these things? Helwa said she wanted to sell them. He said, just buy them. I said, just buy them. We sold them to him. It was painful.

When did Helwa and you find out that the BPD has a lot of legal issues?

He agreed. He showed it to us. He showed it to us. He said it himself. He said it himself. He almost showed it.

When?

After the wedding.

What did he explain? He showed it to us himself.

Yes.

He gave an explanation. He gave an explanation. He said, here, here, here. We just kept quiet.

What did he say?

He said that he had a problem here. He was brought to a hospital. He was brought to Mount Sindu. But we didn't arrest him.

Oh, you didn't arrest him. Because it's a negative thing. He was in jail or something. He told you, but you didn't arrest him. Hewa didn't arrest him? No, I didn't. Isn't that a negative thing? He was in jail or something. Yes. He told you, but you didn't arrest him. Helwa didn't arrest him either.

No.

Did Belio know that you and Helwa were coming here? No.

Did you pick him up?

No.

No. Belio didn't know where we were. I only talked to Belio and Helwa at that time we had sold all the goods, but he didn't answer, he didn't say anything, he didn't give an answer, no.

Oh, he said he would leave the room.

Yes, and we just left the photo with the others.

Okay, what is this chat?

That's a chat.

This is a chat when I want to ask for time with me.

Okay, who is this chat?

This chat is me.

Okay, this one?

This is her.

Okay, can I read it? Yes, you can. Don't be weird, dear. She said. Mar, if you want to go home, you have to go to the airport. What language is this? Semenado. Markalo sayang mau bakalai deng kaklun da popo no.

What language is this? Semenado. Semenado, yes. Please, later you will smell this, dear. What is the smell? Watching.

I mean, I said, he said he was sick. Then I said, yes, I want to check on you.

He said, don't be weird.

Okay, don't be weird.

He said there was his wife named Fadlun. I said, why? I'm your wife too. I said that.

You said, what is this, dear? Who is it?

Who wants to have an affair?

Oh, having an affair. Bekuleri means having an affair. Yes. Rumda means having an affair. I don't want to fight. I came here with the intention of taking care of you, my dear. Because I heard that you were sick.

He said, my dear, there is a woman here. You mean his wife?

Yes, his wife.

Does his wife know that you're here?

She knows.

After the wedding, she knows.

What's the name of this wedding?

Wedding of Siri.

This is called Siri's wedding?

Wedding.

This is not Siri's wedding, right? No. Not Siri's wedding?

Yes.

It was Siri's wedding.

But I don't understand. I was told to sign this document, I'm sorry, I don't understand. This is not a wedding ceremony? No, he said, I asked, is this a wedding ceremony?

Oh yes, there is a wedding cake, there is a wedding book, that's all. But this is the definition of a wedding ceremony. This is a wedding ceremony, right? Yes. But he said it's not a wedding ceremony.

Yes, after the wedding, the wedding ceremony. But this is a wedding ceremony. Yes, But this is the definition of a marriage. This is a marriage, right? Yes. But he said it's not a marriage.

After the marriage, my brother asked, no, I asked my brother, why didn't you ask earlier, where is the marriage book? Then he said, you asked,

then I asked, where is the marriage book? It's easy, the marriage book asked, and I asked. It's not easy to get a marriage certificate. You can get one later. That's what they said.

Okay. I want to read this chat. This is a chat. Rum is me.

Me.

Rum just asked, Dear, you have to be fair for the time, dear. Yes, that's right. You said, yes. So, she replied, Fairness doesn't have to be 3 days, 3 days. Adil doesn't have to be 50, 50.

Adil places something in its place. Here, you have 4 children, Sandri, Pondok, Pondok. Sandri, Sandri, Pondok. Surely, when you are here, it's called Adil. If you love having 6 children, then you will have more time there.

Wow.

Crazy.

If you don't accept the situation like this, it's okay. It's up to you, dear. Whatever you want to do, just do it. You sleep first. Manu cu puru. What is that?

Stomachache.

Stomachache. Dapa heard this news, it's getting worse. Thank you, dear. Thank you so much, dear. What does it mean? Barang sayangkan figure terkenal, makanya dia bahaga nopa sayang.

It means like this. He sent a photo of him and his little son. Then he said, this little boy likes to of him and his son. He said that his son always looked at him. He said that his son's stare was different. I said, maybe you are a figure that he likes. What is it? He's happy. He's happy with you. And he replied,

He's a different kind of man. He's a different kind of man.

He's a different kind of man.

Okay. What does it mean?

He's like a father to him. He's like a father to him. I don't know what that means.

Okay. He said that he was like Walid. I don't know what that is.

Oh, okay.

He means that he compares himself to Walid.

Yes, like a movie story.

What is Garap Kang Sayang?

That's funny. He answers himself. It's funny.

You are like Walid. Garap Kang Sayang.

Okay.

It's funny. How many wives does he have? and her father, Garap Kang, dear. Okay. Funny.

How many wives does he have?

I don't know.

Many.

He said she was his last wife.

He told me, I'm his last wife.

He got married again. Oh, he got married again?

He got married again.

Did he have any children?

No, he said, at When he was 1 month pregnant, he said he wanted to go to a party in Pontianak. Then he went to Pontianak. He came back and gave me a letter. He said he forgot to tell me that he had a wife again. He had a wife again in Pontianak.

Then he was upset. He said, if I had known that he had a wife in Pontianak. And the Lord was angry. He said, if I had known you had another wife, I would not have married. Because you said you had divorced your first wife. Suddenly, you had another wife. You had a baby.

Now, you have another wife that you forgot. No one has a wife that they forgot. So, we were just being fooled. I'm just going to ask for justice. What kind of justice do you want? He has to be responsible for my son. Give him full benefits. And for me, I don't want to go back to him.

I want to divorce him. I don't want to do it anymore. I want to be with him. I want to be with him. I want to be with him. I want to be with him. I want to all my money. I didn't want to get back together with him.

I wanted to divorce him.

I didn't want to be with him anymore.

Have you tried?

Not yet. I asked him to divorce me once.

He said he didn't want to divorce his wife.

What do you want now with him? Ibu, apa yang Ibu inginkan sekarang dengan beliau?

Saya inginkan anak saya terlepas dari dia, dan tanggung jawab full kepada cucu saya. Itu aja. Karena dia sudah hancurkan anak saya, hidup anak saya, saya punya anak-anak di Menado, in Meluku, in a mess. No one is responsible for my children. I've been here for only a year, I've been taking care of his wife. This is his responsibility, not mine.

Do you still want him to be your son's husband?

I don't want to. I'm afraid.

But do you still want to communicate with him?

Not anymore. Not anymore. Not for a month.

Do you still live in that house?

No, we've moved out. We keep our place of residence a secret.

He doesn't look for it?

He doesn't. He only looks for his son's video. He asked me to send him his son's video. But I didn't reply.

Oh, he still chats with you?

He chats with me.

Okay. What do you want? Just to make it viral? Just to let the public know? Or do you want to report it?

Both. I want to be viralized. I want to be reported.

That this is a lie.

Because if it's not like this, the other women will be involved again. The other women will be victims. Victims again. So that... Yesterday, when Helwa was still young, I thought,

Helwa, maybe Habib Bahar is already married, and he will be exposed to his dog. Because other women are not brave. They might be afraid too. We are also afraid. But what can we do? If we don't do this,

we will be treated like this. And we will continue to be afraid of them. We will be afraid of them. I told Helewa, so we have to get up and be strong

to show them that they have dreams. Don't let them sacrifice us like this. I told He, don't let your dreams be sacrificed for us. I told him that. Because it's hard for us to even eat here. Luckily, we have Umi to help us.

I'm here to ask for help from Dr. Richard. I want to ask for protection because I'm scared. I don't want to bring the name of Habib or Kiai or Ustaz here. I just want to speak up about my marriage with Habib Bahar.

I'm here to ask for help from Dr. Richard.

Why are you asking for my help?

Because Dr. Richard often helps people.

And we don't know who we should ask for help from. What do you want to ask for help from? I want to ask for help...

What?

Protection. Protection. Protection. For me, my son, and my mom.

Now I'm going to ask you a question. What do you want? I want...

A divorce? A divorce, yes. Do you have the power of law? What do you want? I want to be separated from him.

Do you have the power of law? I don't have it at all. Helwa, I don't want to get involved in other people's problems. Whoever he is, whatever his problem is, he's a good person, he's a bad person. I don't know him. I don't want to have problems with anyone.

As a normal human being, I help what I can. I introduce myself. At least I... Don't cry, Mom. If you cry, my heart will be sad. I feel it. I feel what you feel. I will try to connect with my legal team. You can talk to my legal team later.

In the worst case, my legal team will help you. I will try to talk to him. But I don't want to get involved too much. Because this is your marriage. You can tell me if you can get justice from there. If you need my help, I will try to help you. But once again, I can't or don't want to help too much because I don't want to get too involved in this problem.

I know you're having a hard time, I know you're suffering, I know you're really angry. What I can do is to try to give this room a chance to talk, so that hopefully there won't be anyone else, and I'll try to introduce my legal power. What else can I tried to introduce her to my law enforcement. What else can I do to help you?

Thank you, Doc.

I just want protection. Because I can't. I'm also scared. Because he has... He has many arms and legs. Many arms and legs out there.

And he's the only person I knew. What kind of person he was, I knew.

He was arrogant.

I just asked for that. This is not about Habib Habib. This is about my son's marriage. I just asked want justice. Everything he said...

Mom.

...is not true. It's all just a promise.

Can I use your phone? Just let it go. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

I'm sorry. I'm sorry.

I'm sorry. I'm on a podcast with Narasumber. I'm the host. There's a wife who married Siri to Habib Bahar bin Smit.

Okay.

It turns out that in the process, according to the wife and her mother, he was fired. Maybe the story is more complete in my podcast or his wife can tell it to you. What do you want? I want him to divorce my daughter. What else do you want? I want to report him. If you want to request something related to his children's rights,

the first step is to get married. If there was a sign that A and B have been married, that will be our proof in court to get married, so that the marriage can be verified by the court and

recorded. When we can win, then the rights is the prophet's son, can you? Well, it's like this, this is a bit of a debate, we have to look at it first, in a big way, don't just look from a small perspective, that indeed he was promised A, B, C. As long as there is evidence and there are things that are not suspected, that it is a series of lies to move something, give, to do something, to give something, to do something. Of course, it can be categorized as

fraudulent fraud. Now, what's the proof? If we can prove from a series of false words, of course we can report it. So we depend on the tool of the evidence to report someone

who is fraudulent fraudulent activities.

That's it.

Okay, sir. Just communicate with Helwa later. I don't want to get too involved. If you can help, you can help this case.

Okay?

Okay. Thank you.

Thank you.

Is there anything you want to say to Habib if he hears this video? I don't want to go back to him. What would you like to say to Habib if he hears this video? I don't want to go back to him. I want a divorce.

I want a divorce. That's all.

What would you like to say to your other friends who are watching? This is a lesson for all of us. So that the women out there won't be fooled by what they say. So that things won't happen to them like they did to me.

That's all. Do you regret it?

I really regret it.

I regret sorry. Ma'am, you seem to be very heartbroken. What would you like to say to your mother?

I just want to say... ...let my son go from... ...his life. I can't... If I want to say divorce, it's my son's right. I'm an adult, I can't say that divorce is my son's right. I'm an adult, I can't say that divorce is his right.

So I can only tell him what he wants. The important thing is that my son can be safe. He can get better than he is now.

That's all. Hello, Ibu.

I pray that you are healthy and can get through this. Amen. Is there anything else you want to add?

No.

That's enough.

Enough.

Enough? Enough?

Enough.