Shanmukh Jaswanth on Breakups & Life Partner , Friendships & Acting Career | Telugu Podcast

What does life do to a person who believes in it?

If you can go back and change any one thing in your life, what would you change?

I would quit without going to a show.

It's deep.

It was deep.

Yeah.

Are you an emotional person?

Very emotional person, bro.

Did you cry during the breakup?

I cried a lot, bro. To be honest, I lost all hopes on love Then a girl gave me entry She never called me Shanmugam till now She used to call me Aunty Aunty till now

What Aunty? No Aunty, don't call me that My main point is that she doesn't want negativity Even if I want to take a stand They took my legs They took my legs online to take a stand In they took my leg off. Stand? They took my leg off online.

Taking my stand.

In the past years, there are many things. There's no answer to any of them.

Shanmug Jaswant was arrested by the police.

Everyone knows Shanu. But everyone asks for an interview with the same Shanu. In a big movie, the hero's friend came. They took off all his moustache and beard. The producer saw it. He said, don't take the boy. They said, take another boy. I was so depressed. Do you know how many movies I have been in?

Many people said, Chanu Chayadu only if he gets treatment like YouTube mega star he will make movies. They said that and made a lot of wrong propaganda about me. I was first in the running race. I was running, running.

I know I was looking for someone to sit next to me I looked at him and he went ahead I realized that day If I had looked at him from the side, I would have stayed there I came to Hyderabad without even holding a single rupee I slept in a hall for 3 years No one knows this When I didn't have money, I used to eat rice, water and onions for a week I didn't feel any pain

Because I was doing what I liked

Many people who started with you, who started after you, they all became actors. Why couldn't you come?

This is the question, right?

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Let's get into the podcast And mainly friendship When you are in a friendship Don't fight over two things. One is money. And the other is the girl.

Just ignore both of them.

If you can explain, why do you fight over both of them?

Look anywhere, bro. Even if it's about money, or friendship, even the best friends will fight over money and friendship. Because he's growing up A girl She messaged me saying she likes him

The problem here is not you guys Find out what the problem is Don't ever fight about a girl That is never It's not about respecting anyone here It's not about respecting respect anyone here. I don't respect the girl, but I respect your friendship.

Did you feel it? When you don't have fame in your life, when you don't see that much success, when you don't see that much money, that friendship is very different. It's very natural, very authentic,

without any covers, without anything. Once we have that fame, that small success, that little money added in our life, the difference in friendship is there.

Bro, friendship has become very subjective now.

Right.

It has become subjective because I need you, you need me, it's up to that. Once, I was like, if you call me, come down bro. Where are you going?

There's no need. Let's have paneer puri, play snooker, He would call me and ask me to come downstairs I would be like, where are you going? I didn't have to go anywhere We would eat Paneer Puri, play snooker And then, he would be like, look at this It was like that Now he is calling me Why didn't he come when I called him last time?

Ok, let's do one thing Let's call him and wait for 10 minutes Why are you being so subjective? I mean, for me, in 5th grade I'll give you a small example I'll tell you how important friendship is to me since childhood

In 5th grade, we had to do a PPT Everyone had to do a project In 5th grade? Yes, in 5th grade, I was doing Sri Prakash We had to do a project We did volcano, volcano eruption

With a small powder. We used to do it.

I did that.

I and my friend did it. He was a close friend. So, we did it. Guru... Gurujaada Kalakshetra.

Oh, Ashwath!

So, there were almost 1700 projects there. Different students. So, I explained to everyone. This is how you apply the powder. This is the walk nose. So, when someone judges you,

in the first place or second place, my friend said, I'll tell you, please, my family will be happy I said, okay, take it He said, we got the first prize and he was the only one invited to the stage

My mom and dad were like, Are you crazy? What are you doing? I was really sad But, I'll give it to him If anyone asks me, I'll give it to him.

My mentality has been the same since then. Even now, if I think of him as my best friend, I'll give him whatever he wants. I'll be without any commotion. I don't know, it's become good and sometimes bad. Givers are always happy inside People who see me outside will think I am giving everything

They will feel disappointed And givers have this too Many people think that if you give everything you will not get anything in the end But actually givers get what they give This is 100%

100%

So, I actually I thought of a podcast with Shannu

But a bunch of questions are running in my mind

Is it?

See, in the past years There are many things There is no answer to this I don't care what is viral on social media Or what kind of propaganda is there I just wanted to understand yours

What is going on in your mind at that time, in that phase of time? What is going on? What did you feel? That is actually matter to this podcast. For example, I feel somewhere you saw success in your life at a very early stage. If you compare it with your peers or friends at that time, individually, if you have a success that you can stand on your own two feet,

you will see a lot in the early stages. Even in fame. And you will see a lot of money in the early stages. Because if you see your lifestyle then, it says, you made good money and you spent it well. You enjoyed, you lived that lifestyle.

Seeing success early, failures also hit you hard. Because you were so successful, failures also hit you hard. When you were too young, and you were in this life, did you have any difficulty in managing?

Or if you had these things after you had some maturity, would you have handled it better? If you think deeply.

If you had these things after you had some maturity, would you have handled it better? If you had these things manage, I earned money from you I saw a better life I didn't saw money Everyone thinks he saw money No, I saw a better life

Everyone would have seen money in every phase Mine is open book, someone can scold me It's easy to scold me, I can scold Shannu Why would I scold him? Who is there to stop me? You tell me

Right, obviously

If I say Shannu, this is it, is there anyone to stop me? I don't have anyone to stop me I have to stop my content, scolding What I always feel bad about one thing. How can they leave me so easily? How many years have I been doing this? 2013 bro.

I mean, they have been watching me since 2013. I am doing this for entertainment, for fun, for everyone. I am doing this for myself too. I never thought of hitting for entertainment or for fun. I'm doing it for everyone and for myself. I don't think about beating up 4 people in my videos. I'm doing it to make them feel or make them laugh. So, out of the 5 scenarios I've been in,

If I can manage it, the media can also manage it. If I had that much money, I could have stopped the news without it. The reason I didn't stop it is because I didn't earn as much money as you guys thought. The reason I felt that is because We see a lot of things in our day to day life But because you guys are limelight, you guys have become a big controversy

You guys have shown a lot shown on many channels I saw that I have seen many people like that in my life But never came out I saw that He made good money, why couldn't he stop it? Why did it go viral so easily?

That's a very big question for me Many people do this very simply You can make it a side track If you don't have a big Porsche, a big car It had an accident, I won't get the car number. I won't know who drove it.

How will I get my name? I mean, I did this, but they can't do this. I can manage that, if I had the money. Everyone will say, this guy... Bro, to be honest, I came to Hyderabad without even holding a rupee. My dad put 5000 in my account.

Back then 5000 was a lot in 2015-16. I lived for a month. I don't know what to do. I came to Hyderabad. Bro, I slept in a hall for 3 years. No one knows that. Harsha knows, Sabarish knows.

Because...

Hall means?

Hall. 2BHK flat. Harsha, Sabarish and I all stayed there There were clothes hung on the wall and we slept on them for 2 years I didn't feel any pain When I didn't have money, I used to eat rice, water and onions for a week I didn't feel any pain because I was doing what I liked I mean, I've seen this life I was eating only rice for one week. I didn't feel any pain. Because I was doing what I liked.

I mean, I've seen this life. I called my dad and told him that if I wanted money, I could get it. But what was the purpose of coming here? I wanted to create my own. When I was creating,

my family used to say, you could have come to business, why are you struggling? So I never took any support from them. But now I started doing videos. I started supporting my dad. I used to take care of him when he was not around.

He was struggling a lot. He went to Hyderabad. My dad is still in tears. You came here without any support. You came to this position because of the 2-3 mistakes you made You didn't ruin anything by yourself You don't do any mistakes with your birth right?

If you are doing all these mistakes because of your circle They will tell you to stop doing all these That's it bro One thing is that You can call Shannu as Andhra And then everyone asks for an interview with the same Shannu

They ask for two bros The same media asks Sir, why do you want two bros? Don't call me sir Stop using me sir, enough It won't be in our control

The same goes for Envoy Patton Not just me, all the actor's pattern is the same My issue is How do people believe in this? Don't believe everything Listen to it a little bit

You have to listen to the other side of the story And now We have completely wronged someone After a few years, we realise that we are wronging them Slowly If you observe, in today's world, if one person says wrong, another person is right. That's it.

You can't say both are wrong and both are right. In today's world, if you say you are great, the other person should prove that he is stupid. Otherwise you are not great. Not at all. Now that is happening. That is happening. If I say I am stupid fool, another person is becoming a great person.

How long will you drive that? Tell me how long will you drive that car? You can't drive a car without fuel. That's it. It's just a point work. After that, you have to prove your talent. He's right, he's wrong, everything else is aside.

People have always seen you well They have loved you a lot So many views, so much celebration At a time, everyone in every house knows you Because the series has reached out to everyone deeply Everyone has seen it

All the people, the people who gave so much love One incident Nothing has been disclosed yet Nothing is completely right or wrong, nothing was proved. Same people, you are like this. When you passed such big statements, what did you feel?

How did you feel? What did you mentally feel?

It's not new for me, bro. For me, someone has commented somewhere in the past. But, don't drag the family. How do you decide your family? You, your family, and your brother. It's wrong to say that. It's very wrong.

When people scold me, they say, he didn't grow up well. How can they say that? They can say that to me. Because I am in the public. I am there to say that to people.

I am there to praise people I am there to praise them I have to accept when they praise me in software development I have to accept when they scold me And if I make a mistake I have nothing to lose But I have to say it for what I have

For everything I didn't get free time My boss is beating me up I didn't get that I spent 2,000 this month and I get on top of him How will it be bro?

Now if everyone gets on top of me How will it be if I get on top of someone else bro? It will be a wrong cycle And, scolding me Bro, you get tired at a point How much bro?

Someone who scolded me in 21, is now married and has kids. Will he still sit and scold me? That's it. That's his life. Each one has a different lifestyle. They behave like this at a certain age.

I was a topal at 18-19 years. At 21, there are still some topals. At 25, everyone is a topal. At 30, there are fat people and normal people too Let's prove ourselves with our talent What is the thing that people misunderstood about you?

That I have a lot of attitude I will leave even after seeing how mean, I have such an attitude that I would even look at her and leave.

And... I misunderstood about Shannu. Only scenarios, bro. That's it. But no one knows me personally. Who knows who I am? Really, no one knows me except my friends.

I don't know. No... Literally Literally no person knows me. Completely. Except my fiance.

God's plan.

Let's not talk about it.

Except my parents, no one else knows me. To understand or misunderstand. And irrespective of what content he does or doesn't do, If he talks about me, that's luck bro. Trust me. Go to RGV, they'll tell. They'll say, Shanu, you're very lucky.

Irrespective of them talking about you, Make it positive, make it negative, doesn't matter. You come with the right content. Everyone will encourage you. Content, cinema. As a human, we tend to learn and we grow.

We don't learn everything from birth. We learn slowly and step by step. We balance our habits and mistakes and everything comes neatly. I think it will come over a period of time. Usually, people think that Shan that Shanu is very introvert But I don't think so

But when you were in that phase, in the early phases Even though you were so introvert How did you handle such a big fame? I couldn't handle Really? You didn't understand?

Yeah, I didn't understand There were so many messages bro I still remember in 2019, in live Bro, the person you in live There was a person who asked me who I was In 2019, within a span of less than 1 year He said, Mr. Shannu

I said, how can you expect to deal bro? I mean, I couldn't even deal with him at that moment At that time, everyone was talking about you Everyone was supporting you They They were supporting you and they were praising you. So, you don't know. At that time, this is business. Who is talking business?

Who is talking the truth? Who is mentally supporting you? You don't know anything, bro. That is too young for me to handle that fame. And to guide me in that moment, there is no big people to tell me. You already did this, right?

Now I can tell you. If someone is famous, I can tell you.

Not like that.

First, draw a graph like this. For example, someone is famous and comes to you. Bro, I got fame. How do I handle this? What is the first advice you give them?

Nothing is permanent. And also, whatever fame you get is not permanent. To make it permanent, first, the base rule. Think about why you got fame. Think about what to do for them.

What is your friend feeling about you you Or what your family members are saying Don't think about anything Whoever famed you, whoever gave you a good position Whatever they want, you should do that

That's it

When fame came to a high so early People are giving a lot of advice If you want to maintain this, you should do this Now you are not this, you are this To do that Do you have any unconventional situations where you add something new and then go for it?

I have, bro. I have. Definitely. Like? Like, you have a position where you have to meet everyone, you have to go to parties That's what's happening You don't have to go to any parties Go, go and drink lemon soda and come

I told you that there is vodka in it, nothing No one will taste and tell you Don't drink at all Don't drink at all when you go to a party and call someone Go neatly, do whatever't drink when you go out and call someone. Go and do whatever you want to do when you like it. But when you call someone, be sober. Talk to people.

Meet everyone nicely. No one is less or more. Treat everyone equally. Yeah. I have a friend who has become a hero now.

Okay.

We went to a party.

Okay.

The party was full of people. I went in the car. Meema went in the car and he came. I was a bit shocked. He said, I'm acting with lemon soda. You maintain that. We'll be safe.

That's it bro. You have to do this. If anyone hears this,

almost everyone there will be like

Many people will are like that. Ask the girls bro, how many lemons do you want?

There was a propaganda before. For example, if we want to network in this group, we have to drink. If you drink, people will look at you. If they host the party, he will drink. If he hosts and doesn't drink, why? If you drink, you will only move if you drink Definitely

So you were clear from the start People love me and at the same time they hate me if something happens So that was clear in your mind But after seeing so much hate and so much cruelty

I took that as an opportunity I saw many videos on social media Did you ever feel like it would be good if it didn't exist? It would be good if I don't have social media

It would be good if it disappears I felt it, definitely At one point I felt Why is this? Why is this necessary? You suffer, I suffer at home

I came to Hyderabad with the mindset to prove myself somewhere and make my family proud I can't do that And the irony is I came to Hyderabad with the mindset of proving myself and making my family proud. I couldn't do that. Irony is that,

I studied in Amrita College in 2012. I told them that I am not able to study in Manasan College. My left side brain is heavy. I told them all this. My dad said one thing. If you go into this field,

people like you will definitely face a lot of problems. They asked if I was ready. That was in 2012. If you are that mindset, like? I mean, I believe in my mindset easily. Everyone, I... When someone knows you 100%,

I know everything about him. I know which tune, which beat and which beat he will dance to. So, can you live with that mindset? You can't. You might go back to the old habits. Because you don't have a stable mindset.

You change schools 4 times. You change your home 2 times. You study in Amrita and go to another college. You don't have a stable mindset. Can you live there? You changed your inter-school twice Now you are studying with Amrita and saying you are going to another college Your mindset is not the same as others Can you stay there? etc etc

I was still getting strike How did my dad say that? But eventually You know it's How you deal with it Negative or positive, you have to deal with it

You have to celebrate the positive I have never done cake cutting because I have to deal with it. I have to celebrate the positive things I don't do cake cuttings because I got 1 million I never did it in my life. I never did cake cuttings because I got 100k Have you ever seen your Instagram, YouTube members as a success meter? Like a big success? Like I got 1 million and I became a big success? It's on its own. But I don't want to cut a cake

If friends come and say, do it dude, that's the elevation If you cut a cake for everyone, it will look like a huge success If you see content that is huge, that's enough Cake is not enough, our content should be the same So, content a celebration for me. I never got the kick that a video gives me. Nothing.

Whether it's a video or a web series. I never show that happiness to the outside world. Because I feel happy when I feel that happiness inside. That is pure happiness. Because content. To be an actor and to be recognized by the people is the biggest thing in my life.

Now you have a clear goal and mindset to become an actor.

Yeah.

Yeah.

Then why did you stay in YouTube for so long?

Without doing anything next? I didn't have an opportunity Do you know how many auditions I went to? Do you know how many movies I have been in? They removed me in the last minute One good thing happened is

They removed me Why? I didn't get it. Is it all in your hands? You can make me an actor Why can't I make myself an actor? YouTube is my channel.

What can you do? Can you stop me on YouTube? Okay, I'll make web series on YouTube. I'll make content on YouTube. Who can stop this? If a YouTuber gets 200k views,

if we get a movie promotion, we'll keep our hero aside. If we keep our hero aside, our hero will bend. That's it, bro. If heroes come, YouTubers should bend. I had this mindset. I want to change that mindset.

I changed it. I'm very proud of it. If you say you haven't seen a YouTuber as a YouTuber, it's only because of the web series, bro. Wherever the people are, everyone is there where they are. People are on YouTube. When you say you are watching, during Covid time, everyone came to YouTube and OTT. Right. Why are everyone saying OTT deals now?

What is happening, bro?

People are there.

People are there, everyone is there. So, when I didn't get the opportunity, I felt, even if I got far, again, I thought, I have my, I thought I have my scope to create my own content. I have my YouTube channel. I was in this pattern.

So, I got very less opportunities. When the web series hit, then I got opportunities. I got good opportunities from production houses. People called me and all. They said that the production houses will make me a movie. Now, they are doing it.

Nice, interesting. Another thing I feel is, If you see, recently Many actors are saying Most of the casting is happening through Instagram They have easily showcased their talent

They are getting calls from there. And some have proved it. From there to becoming an actor. They have created a market for them. They are successful. If you look at it like that, you are the biggest star in YouTube space.

In terms of views, numbers, content. The content which we did was the biggest. For example, how will the content prove? If the podcast you do is great, how will anyone believe you? No one will believe you if you do a crazy podcast.

They will ask you how many views you got. I didn't interview you. It's a podcast question. That's it. You came for the collections. They are the big heroes.

That is, at the end of the day, numbers decide everything.

Yes.

So, if you think like that, you saw a lot of great numbers on YouTube. You built a thing. You made everyone watch the series. You did all that. People who started with you, who started after you, They all became actors. They came to the big screen. Why couldn't you come? Bro, I got a lot of opportunities. And a lot of people took me as a big star on YouTube.

They took me as a big star in the production houses. Shanu said that he would make movies only if I give him treatment as a big star on YouTube. And a lot of people started spreading wrong propaganda about me very wrong when I was making a movie outside they said you are a chair, you are a youtube mega star

I was like, sir, I know you personally there is no need to know, people around you are saying the same thing about you it's not like that sir, we all came here for the movie we can't handle YouTube megastar. So, we got offers. So, to tell my close people, my close people only offered me a movie.

So, I had to do it. It was a good role. Shannu Udilendi didn't do the film yet. He didn't have the experience. Instead of me doing it, he did it. So, all of these things have become bold.

Everything.

Did you feel insecure? If everyone goes forward with you, We are still here on YouTube. I am the first to grow. I have proved that people watch me on YouTube. If you compare and see,

If you see the cut, people are leaving. You watch it on YouTube and compare it and see that it's a cut and you leave. Have you ever felt like you're left out? Before answering this, I'll tell you about my past. So, 4th class, 1st, 2nd, 3rd, I studied in Tempney School till 4th. I studied in Tempney till 4th. Every year, CBC and ICSE had a sports day. I was the first in the running race.

I was the first from the first standard. I used to run like crazy. I loved running races. I practiced 3 times and came first 3 times. Main finals, sports day. Everyone was there. Neptune, Pluto, and many more. So I was running.

I knew I was ahead. For the first time in my life, I realized that I was looking for someone who was next to me. I looked at him and he was ahead. I came third. I came first in all the practice. I came third. I came first in the practice.

In the main finals, I came third. I was so confused. I was a kid. I was in 4th class. I was a grown up. I came to Hyderabad. I was taking care of my life. Everyone was going ahead. One day I realized, everyone was saying this. Shanu left and everyone else who acted with him left. If I had looked at the side, I would have stayed there. That's it. He will go forward. You should never compare yourself with others.

Never. Vijay Devarkonda never got success. He also tried since many years. He came from the film Nubvila. If you compare him and say, this hero and that hero, it won't work. Right, definitely.

And he acted with me. With me. I mean, this is a statement. Bro, he acted with me, so I acted. Now I thought about how the movie would be. Hmm. That's my positive mindset bro.

Right.

Every guy will connect to my character in the movie. Is it? Every guy in my movie connects to that character. You will understand why I am saying this after watching the teaser. Very interesting bro. I am lucky to get such a movie at this time.

Really?

Trust me.

God's plan. This movie is God's plan.

First movie and then this.

Right.

You said an interesting point bro. I liked that... Right. The interesting point you said about running race, I liked it a lot.

Maybe true.

When we are in a path, not only what we do, but what he does, it's a waste of time. True. And eventually I understood that. Life lessons are always teaching me.

To realize, I need time to understand why this scene happened. For our maturity, we need time to understand. When we understand, Bro, how many people listen to you, You come and hit a movie bro.

They'll say, they went to watch a movie with you. How much is this? Irrespective of how I take it, They are asking me to hit a movie. You do a movie. You did it in YouTube. Prove yourself in movies.

That is their only mistake. Then they are telling me to go. That is also a form of love. Yes, I will take it that way. If you compare your life with the highs and lows you have seen, Which phase of life did you learn more?

Many people say that more than success, failure teaches you a lot. What did you learn in success and what did you learn in failure? There is nothing to learn in success.

True.

Nobody learns anything in success. In success, everyone thinks about what the next step is. Nobody can judge that this happened like this and that's why I got success. Because he's been doing the same pattern since a long time. But that timing, the timing was right. It's all timing.

In that moment, you placing there, For example, in a big movie, A hero, friend role came. They removed all the moustache and beard. I did double role in Viva. In the second get up

I'll say it like that They told me to do it in that get up The whole movie They saw the audition Then The producer also saw it

He said no to the boy and asked to take another one I was like a mad man What is this? Sir, you removed so many moustaches. This is the third audition. You said it was good, everything was there. But you are saying something.

The hero is not suited for the role. Hero is my friend, sir. I am not a heroine. Sir, I am trying so hard. Please give me an opportunity. He said no if you tell him, it won't work I was really saddened by the Covid I had a salary base, suddenly I didn't have a salary Because obviously, a company can't run without videos

But actually, if you compare your YouTube with recurring revenue You can generate revenue by watching old videos It's possible, but I was in a salary base Suddenly I didn't have salary basis. So they gave me a VIPAR video. In a way, it actually helped me.

So suddenly I was like, I don't have that, I don't have a movie offer, what is this? Covid has come, 3 months, no money. What is this? Subbu came and said he wanted to do software developer. Bro, if I had accepted that movie, If my movie was okay, their movie was released 2 years later Which didn't play really well

If it was on the same movie, I wouldn't have done software development I wouldn't have been seen as an actor So placement bro, life placement is You failed the audition that day or you got good results You might have got bad results that day But you got good results the next day

Because of this series. So, it's all that placement. You can't say, this is what's going to happen, that's what's going to happen. You can't say anything. A flow. Like Arun Bhaskar said,

If you have to give or take in life, it won't happen. You have to go with a flow. You have to do it and go. If you go back and see your life, Big Boss, whether you agree or not, gave you an individual identity, a fame. People came out for you.

It gave you a shock when you came out.

It gave you a shake.

If you compare and see, there is a high point, low point, high point, low point in your life. You might feel that if you are high today, definitely I will get a bad phase? If you get highs in your career, you will get lows immediately. More than high, low actually gave you a lot.

Do you feel like that? Like, because of this, I can't enjoy being high anymore. Whatever comes, I will get it.

Do you feel like that?

It's a mindset, bro. This is a mindset. Our mindset is like what Prabhav said in the movie Chakra. We leave the white paper and look at the shirt in the middle.

200%

So, there is a high in the white paper. That small shirt, why do we get more concentration on that? That is our general mindset. We can change that. I am not a politician or a PM to change everyone. We have to accept it.

And when it comes to high and low, if I have control over both, I know what to do. I don't have control over both. I don't have control over high and low. If we change and we are good to everyone, that's enough. Even if those four are not good to us, we have to be good to everyone, that's enough. Even if they are not good to us, we should be good to them. Only then, the world will go a little smooth in life.

And, I learned from everything that came and went. I saw the high and I learned. At this moment, I have a middle class mindset.

Is it? Like?

That's purely from the time I got this.

God's plan.

I lived a very fancy life. I had to buy this car, that car, I had to go to many places.

I had to go to Goa. I had to do this, I had to go to Japan.

I had all of this. But in a period of time, I didn't feel the need. Actually, my mindset is my fiance. My original mindset was that. My father used to raise cows at home.

That was his lifestyle. My dad told me not to have that lifestyle. So he worked hard to earn money in the business. My growth started from that lifestyle. But my mindset is very middle class We live in a small house in Gajuvakkam

We meet every Sunday So as a person, me as a person I am not a fancy type of guy When I come to Hyderabad and hear the sound of a car I feel like I should drive around in that car I feel like I should do this

I feel like I should be in to be like this I learnt how to be like this in pubs Not just here, it's the same in any pub If you want to be seen as a great person, you have to roam around fancy I had this mindset at one point But since the last one year Why do we need this?

5,000 is enough, right? We are in a small house What's the big deal? It's enough if we are both happy, right? Hmm. I said, how can you say that? She said, you can try it once, like me. I started going to temples.

Bro, when did I... Bro, in the last one year, I went to Vizag 10-15 times. And I went by train 90% of the time, I went by train. No one knows this. I'd wear a mask and sit in silence. If someone's from the North, I'd sit with them and ask what they're doing.

We'd start a conversation. I've made so many friends like that. And when we travel in trains and with everyone, we tend to learn a lot. We think, how many people are doing this much outside. We think that we are doing something.

But outside, everyone is doing a lot. They don't tell. They don't tell that we are working so hard. So, seeing their lifestyle, I thought You should also see every face. And when you see, you understand the pain.

Even now, if someone tells me on Instagram, Bro, I'm in an urgent situation. I might commit suicide. I need some money urgently. I send money to my Mahesh stylist. Whether it's true or not, Keep aside the lie.

Since the time I've been on this train journey, or since it came, I tend to understand everyone. This is my life. Life is seen from a different lens. Exactly. How different if you can explain?

It's very different bro. Everyone is in a lot of trouble. Everyone is poor. They have to take out money from the loan app. Or their family, their family members. One of my fan page's guy died.

He failed in CA. I just said one word. I died. He failed in CA. I was like, bro, I failed in CA. If you want to see me, I'll take care of it. I was in the peak shoot of Leela Vinodam. He called me suddenly and said, Bro, he died.

I was shivering. Because I'm very connected to my fan page's people.

Do you talk to them?

Yeah, so I take them out for lunch every year Whether it's my birthday or not Because they are the only ones in my position today So when he died, I felt really bad I mean, I know a lot of people in C If he had told me, I could have helped him in some way.

So, a lot of people face this. Very talented people, bro. Due to peer pressure at home, they have to do this. Now, my parents supported me. Grateful. I am grateful for that. I mean, I am lucky to have that family. That...

Okay, you do it. We'll say something. If anyone asks, we'll say something. There's nothing better than that. Yeah, not everyone has that. Even now, bro, I'm not trying to start an event company.

Even now, I'm only thinking if anyone has a job, if anyone is struggling, I'll work for someone who doesn't have a job or is struggling. I'll do something. I'll grow and do something. My business is for everyone.

It's not about making money. If I make money, I want to share it with everyone. So, I'm still the same. I mean, this mindset has changed since we met. As a person, I also used to think, how can you be depressed over this?

I agree, I am a topic for the public to talk about. But still, everyone has seen such a terrible face. And they are living it. They are seeing, one day a shine will come. One day my day will come. One day, my day will come. One day, I'll earn money.

One day, they'll happily eat at my house and sleep without thinking about me. I know how many boys are getting dumped outside. My inspiration is to take care of all of them. They're facing so many problems. Why can't you face this problem? How long will you take care of yourself? Why can't you face this problem? How long will you take care of yourself? Why can't you change?

He has worked so hard for his family all his life Still he hasn't seen success You are so successful, can't you change? I was questioned many times So that's Mentally, I never changed

As a person You said I'm an introvert I changed like this To become open I have changed a lot. As a person, you said I am an introvert. I have changed a lot. It's a good thing. Are you an emotional person? Very emotional person.

I don't show. I am very emotional. I cry a lot when I was a kid. My director said something in a movie shoot, I used to go home and cry while taking a bath. I am very emotional. I take it even if someone says something small.

I used to think that people outside are scolding me. They will change their perspective someday. I am a human being. I will also cry in life. They will also realize it. I'll let go of the thought that people will change their perspective and I'm a human being too. I'll let go of the thought that people will change their perspective and I'm a human being too. I'll let go of the thought that people will change their perspective and I'm a human being too.

I'll let go of the thought that people will change their perspective and I'm a human being too. But if you can't let go, you'll keep carrying it. Even if people who don from a person who knows us well, it pains a lot. True.

So, Did you cry during the breakup?

I cried a lot bro.

Really?

I cried. And I realized that the other person would have cried a lot more. That's... I am wrong on my side in some things. So, I did what the other person wanted without thinking about my pain. If they say no, then no. Okay. Come down. I'll give you.

Bro.

It's not a comedy. I'm the best ex-boyfriend, bro. It's like this too. I haven't tortured anyone after the breakup. I haven't troubled anyone, bro. Whenever I feel sad,

I feel very sad. That's it. I'll do this. I felt bad, I would just go like this But I never thought of doing this or that The reason I felt like asking you this is because I thought I wouldn't talk about your breakup After coming here and seeing your tattoo I just really wanted to ask

Like Definitely When you are at the peak stage of your career, when everything is going well, there will be a girl, when you think your life is set, when you got a bad breakup, talking a lot about it on social media,

affecting all of this, talking a lot about this tattoo, all of these are there, right? Then you feel like, you should remove this tattoo first. When it's a past, it happened Why should I be sticky to it?

Didn't you feel like something will happen because of this? I did feel like it I thought I'll do it after marriage If I meet the one After the one comes in my life I'll do all this, clear it, there won't be any problem for her

But the one only told That's your memory, right? Really? Exactly what she said That's your memory That memory is your choice

Whenever you want, you can take it out I won't tell you And I'll give you a lot of respect

So

I mean, I'm lucky to have such a girl, bro. You'll get a little slap somewhere. In that, bro.

It's really strange, bro.

It's really strange for me, bro. I'm not used to talking like this. She never called me Shanu. She used to call me aunty. She still calls me aunty. She says, don't call me aunty.

Don't talk to me like that. Actually... Why are you saying no to everything? Don't talk to me. Actually, Shanu, I want to hear it from her mouth. I want to hear her say Shanu. That's my wish.

Really? Till when? Till when?

My mom, I have done a lot of poojas for you.

You should be grateful.

Actually, Before talk about this, Mostly, when we are in the typical men in their 20s, Career is the first priority, end of the day, anything. Because once, there's a quote from Naval Ravikant. What he says is, When we say that love is always emptiness, don't look for love.

When you are complete, when you are fully complete, then only look for love. Because that kind of love will be successful. Because you are incomplete, when you look for love, your life will be complete. Definitely that kind of love is not successful. Because in most cases, love is everything. If you think love is everything, it's a foolishness.

I love Naval Ravikant a lot. It hits me a lot. In such cases, when you break up, did you feel it? Many people think,

we will go in love only after we are fully set. Why do we need a Panchayat now? Some people think like that. Some people think, after seeing so much hatred, they get scared of the thought of being with another girl. Just because people are judging you a lot.

How will this affect you? How will they look at you? Now I'm back... I mean, love will break again. You will know this individually. But people judge, right? What? He moved on so fast. What is this? How fast did he move? What is this other girl? How does your mindset think?

How do you stay in the process? I really lost my hopes on love.

To be honest, I thought I was not right for love.

Problem with boys, that's it. We think we are not right.

In a way, it's true. That's true. I didn't have a lot of love and attention. I was more on my career. That's true. I don't have a lot of love and attention. I was more focused on my career. I don't know how long I have to prove myself.

The guy who came to Hyderabad and slept in the hall, has an opportunity now. To prove a little. At that time, I will be more focused on my career. Then I have to give time to love. I don't know. I really don't know.

I have to teach. I have to teach how to love. I don't know how to do it. So, eventually I thought, let's take a light in our relationship. But every time someone comes and says that I am weak. If someone comes and says that I am weak, it's not like that. I lost my love.

I will tell my family and arrange a marriage. You can see. I told my family that I will arrange a marriage. I am struggling with this and that. I lost all my hope in the moment I said I will arrange a marriage. And now, love will form. Love will come. I have to tell everything about myself. I have to tell that I like black colour and I don't like red.

I have to tell all this. I thought I don't need all this. I thought I will focus on the film. Then a girl gave me the entry. It wasn't like love love. It was friendship. I realized this lately.

After I changed and went on a path of devotion to God, I met this girl. She is so devotional. How devotional? Every Thursday, Sai Baba's... Everyday... I always have a name behind my back. I have a name to keep.

I said that it is seen in the podcast. Leave it here. Keep it here.

Now you too say Andy Andy?

No, she...

So is she very devotional?

Very devotional. Very much. She is Ramudu Bhakti. I am Hanumanthu Bhakti. Likitha is my sister. I mean, I have a sister in Surya. She took me to God and did everything for Hanumanthu. So, eventually after a period of time,

we started talking. We started talking very randomly.

Don't say randomly randomly. Tell me clearly. How did you meet her? How did all this started? Because you didn't want love from her face. How did this God's plan started?

I'll tell you why God's plan started.

From her side first.

Okay.

So I...

Did she insist?

Actually, it's nothing. I'll tell you one thing. Okay. I went to KL University in 2017 Why did you start in 2017? I don't know if there will be any issues I went to KL University in 2017 She told me all this recently

She told me a year back That she studied at KL University So when I went there Someone was saying photos Photo, photo, photo. I said, no, no, no.

I mean, if you look at her, she's the one.

You didn't know then?

You asked for a photo, I said, no, no, no. You asked for a photo, I said, no, no, no. You asked for a photo, I said, no, no, no. You asked for a photo, I said, no, time, I introduced myself to him. Then in 2022, I asked him about a character in the student series. She said, she is studious. She is studious like a girl who has not studied.

She sent me so many names. I said, no, I want this and this. He said, you could have just said no. I was like, why did you write so much?

I said, okay, okay, okay.

All the best, I said. And then, eventually when I became a devotee of God, she sent me a line from Hanuman. I liked it a lot. I also sent it to her.

We started talking devotionally. While talking devotionally, without knowing, she did Hanuman today. she sent me a gift without knowing. Ramkoti, a garland, a red garland, and a bottle with green and red papers. She asked me to read the papers according to my mood. Okay. She sent me all these. Okay, this and that.

Her moonshine is my sunshine. My sunshine is her moonshine. So, I sent her without knowing. Shri Ram Navami day, she received all the gifts. Patti's and all. That girl got very emotional. Shri Ram Navami day, you sent me. and all that. That girl was very emotional. She asked me,

why did you send me on Shri Ram Navami? Why did I send you on Hanuman Jayanti? We started talking and talking. We never talked about love or anything. Suddenly one day, we said that we were not in a good mood

and took a break. That one day, whatever it was, we took a break. That day itself helped a lot. After we went far away, we had a friendship, all of this was very close.

We never had love, relationship, feelings, you know, we never had any blushing. It was always like, this time if we go for feelings, I am thinking of getting married. If not, I can't, I have relationships and all. I kept sitting and said, I am this to feelings. Otherwise, I can't do it. I have relationships and all. So, I sat down and said,

I am this, I am that, I am this. What you saw there is this. But there are more than what you saw there. That is this, that is this. There is more. Why did this happen?

Why did this happen? That's why this happened. You clearly told me everything. I said, it's okay, I have to see how you are with me, I have seen all that, how will it be? He said, I said, tell me again. I said, are you not judging me? What is there to judge? Everyone has it.

Everyone is living in a cage. You are the only one talking outside. And why are you talking? You have told me all the scenarios, right? What happened, who did what, etc. So, I can understand, it's okay.

But my field is very tough, you are a very soft person. Very soft person. How can you understand my field? No, you have to have faith. People make mistakes, they can't make mistakes. But life doesn't run without faith.

You should believe everyone. You should believe in some point. You might hate someone, but you believe them in a certain point. You should have faith in them. Otherwise, you can't run in life. I'm learning everything.

I started learning from her. I saw for the first time, how people are. How they are. I started to look for a perspective I was like, how can people be like this? How can people be like this? I saw this for the first time I saw this for the first time My family told me about this

and this girl Then it kind of got arranged Then my parents told me Hey, wait Don't do all the dating Don't do all the panties

Wait, first wait We'll talk and then see. Then travel. Everything is okay.

I have a very important question here.

If you say it's important, say it.

Previously, I was not talking about the other person.

I didn't do anything with her. That's not the question here.

That's what the question here.

That's what I asked.

That's not it.

I am confused about how to articulate it. The point is, I can understand your mindset. You took the step that you couldn't take in Anniya's dating phase. It's not about the woman there again.

What was flickering in your mindset? It was never about the woman. To be honest, they were perfect. More than me, bro. I'll accept it. They are great people.

All of them are great people. All the people I've met are great people. I'll accept it. You can get hurt, bro. You shouldn't hold that hurt and think their character is wrong.

Right.

Okay. Whether it's small or big, their character is nothing. You've grown up. I understand. It's not their character. You grew up and at a certain point you shined. Everyone has support. Everyone has support. You have to accept that. It is me. It's me.

Who wasn't ready. It's me who wasn't matured. It's me who wasn't... I mean... When I met Tin, I felt like I was ready for marriage. I might have been ready before.

But it's not my age. My age is... When I met you, I felt like I was ready for marriage. I could have been married before. But my age is not like that. My age is... Not age, but you can think of it as experience. Or you can think of it as maturity level. How would I have been in that moment, bro?

When you are in 23, 24, 25? An actor should be 35. Until then, I should develop my career. I would have had this mindset Even now I am at the peak of my career But I was ready

If you can explain, what is love for you?

Love is that rush, energy, a bond between two people Love is friendship First you should be friends Respect

If you are friends, you can share be friends. Respect.

If you are friends, you can share everything. But you need to have respect for one person. What kind of respect? If someone calls you a pervert, you won't calm down. No one will calm down.

If someone calls you a pervert, you shouldn't sit and listen to them. That's respect. You shouldn't get carried away. That is respect. Don't get carried away. Because, how many people will come and say, he is this and that. Yes, he is this and that.

You are a prostitute? You are a prostitute?

Will you give me your phone? Will you give me your phone for 3 days? Shall I tell them about you? No one. We are no anyone to judge. So everyone speaks boldly. So never... Taking stand for each other.

And for me, Love is... I learnt eventually that it's respect and... I don't know bro, I was always a giver. A giver in friendship. A giver in love too.

Receiving... Even if it came, I wasn't ready at that time. Now, I get a proper matured receiving. I have to protect it, I have to take care of it. Similarly, everyone has flaws. Without flaws, there is no human.

Without highlighting that, we have to submerge and understand. Right now, my age is 30 or 31 If I sit here and sit in a butterfly's nest, they will beat me with a slipper What is your age? You don't have to talk. What else do you want? It's a responsibility. That's what love is to me Responsibility, understanding, respect, care, everything,

then life will continue.

So, when you are in your 20s, there are no barriers to love. Anyone can love anyone anytime. Everyone is born with that mindset. They think of a new feeling as love and stay like that. But getting ready for marriage is a completely different story

There are no barriers to love, no one questions love Even if you have it or not, it doesn't matter Because they have normalized love But marriage is not like that Even in our Telugu families, we see marriage as a big responsibility We take such hard decisions in love as fast as in marriage

More responsibility, more understanding. We have that mindset. So, you, from a bad phase of love, you getting to be married. What is marriage for you?

Bro, I got shivered when I heard about it. I got to know about the date, saying that it's an engagement. My body shivered. My friends will say no to anyone That's why no one said anything

So I was really scared I was shivering I was in a Vineshanmook song shoot I got to know the date at that time I was like, what the hell Is it necessary already?

What's happening? Will I be able to do happening? Will I be able to do this? Will I be able to do this? Is this tension too much? How to handle this? Because now it's not two people, it's two families When it's two families

How much tension will we have? They will have ten more years of tension Accepting me is their family Whether it's their mother or her Accepting me is their family, their mother or her... Accepting me is a big deal for me.

I don't know what she said to convince you. Again, she is from Rajahmundry.

Okay.

Those families are a bit more typical. A bit more... See, pin to pin... But, I mean... Even if I want to take a stand... They took my leg off.

They took my legs off online Even then they believed me So, it's a big deal for me that they believed me and believed that I can answer anything I have to save that. And marriage... I mean...

Eventually you will know. Everyone... Everyone will say, you will know. You are coming from that side to this side. You will know. But...

I have always been friendly with her. Friends... I will say, my girl my girl, she is beautiful. I will say, look at my girl, she is beautiful.

I shouldn't say this after marriage.

I shouldn't say this after marriage.

I want to protect that friendship. I want to protect that friendship. Marriage is my responsibility. Marriage is my responsibility. Whether it is successful or not, it is in the hands of the people It's in the hands of our cinema content What's in my hands is food, my family

I have to take care of them That's my marriage

As you said, you've been into many relationships in your past Maybe anything, any number I'm not asking for the number, maybe any number So you know, in which segment of life, at which point of time What to do to ruin relationships If you can say, because most of your audience are very young blooded,

If you can tell them something,

What are the things that can break up a relationship fast? Micro, micro cheating. Like, cheating is wrong, what is micro? It's new now, right? If they don't talk, they won't understand. Micro cheating is,

Hiding a message Deleting a message And then, you need the attention of the other person But you are in a relationship Not telling others about your relationship Everyone does it, at some point in time Everyone does that little thing

That little thing is the biggest issue for the other person Because, it's a big issue for them And it will be a small issue for you I could have done this earlier I could have That's why I got to know

So, you have to deal with all these carefully And if the opposite person doesn't like this It means If you explain it It will be like you are explaining it. They won't get any solution.

If you say you don't like it and you don't want to talk to them, they will be happy if you say you will reduce it. But if you say you don't like it and you don't want to talk to them, they will be happy if you say you don't like it. You have to stop it. So But you have to stop it. You have to be clear about that.

You might not like what you are doing. You are doing what you are told to do. You have to do what they tell you to do. And this is a plain line. Once, my father and mother were openly telling me

not to do this. My mother never said that he is controlling you She never said that Your aunt, your neighbours He is controlling me I won't agree to it

If he controls me, I have rights and lefts It won't work Some people like it and some people don't There is a border between them I have to understand that border Without understanding that border,

he is stopping me, he is keeping me in this bubble, I want bubble gum, it won't happen. Only if you understand both, you can get married. Without understanding,

if you want to walk on your own, you will get into a relationship.

Right.

And, if definitely there are trust issues, I don't feel it's not love Trust issues Even for a message If there are trust issues I feel that it's not love

Bro, there are so many layers in love We add all of them Love has a very simple meaning Love is the love that doesn't have any restrictions on the other person Even if they spit, it's good You feel that inside That's all love bro Even if they spit, you can feel it.

That's love bro. She's so cute, she's closing her eyes. You can feel it.

That's love. You guys feel it?

The layers we have there, What we have is, Love has trust. If there's no trust in love, it means there is no love If you say she is mad at me, it means there is no love If you say she is not liking me because I am pushing a button, it means there is no love What is this pushing a button?

That is your personality and your personality has things you don't like It doesn't link to love

And actually if you see, in recent times Social media is consuming more of love and figure I mean Every individual has a different way of loving They show it to each other But if you see today's generation

What I observed is How does love look in social media For example, most of the people Even after seeing your story

Your audience will think that you should be in my love Actually, it shouldn't be there

It won't be there It's a different story

You should sit and understand how your love should be It won't be like anyone else's But the social media has become so much Because people are mostly on social media

Because of this reassurance and hearing a lot of new words

Benching

That's it

What is benching? What is benching? In office, they say bench You are put on the bench When the project comes When your time comes, you will come

Benching

Mostly it's like that Let's love as a social media figure They are like this For example, your engagement is like this, let's do the same If individual opinions are reduced and if you go and grab someone else and blame the other person, either male or female I feel like these issues are more common there

Because if your story is different, if something is happening there If you try to grab that and put it in your relationship Definitely it will go viral

True, 100%

If that is something if you reduce a little

So now, how it happened is The girl I married Is she better than her? Is she better than her? Bro, who is like who bro? Now everyone is going more on beauty

Saying that she has put on makeup She wears specs She is getting ready in a very formal way Not getting ready beautifully Dude,, she is not looking beautiful Dude, beautification is not in marriage When you get married, not how the girl looks, but what you both are growing together

If you both are together, if a girl and a boy are together, there will be a growth You both have to grow together How many years bro? 50 years? 60 years? They will grow together. That's it. They will take care of the family till a certain point. After the family, she should take care of everything.

She should be like that. If she puts her nose on my lap, I will marry her. There shouldn't be such wishes. It's going more about beauty. Because of that B612 app. It was there back then.

It's still there.

Do you think boys rush into love more?

A boy thinks about it when he proposes. True. A girl thinks about it and falls in love. That's it. Most of the people watching this podcast, If there are any college students in your audience,

If you want them to take dating advice from you, How do you advise them? Like, should they find their love or Will the one who loves find it and come? First, study If you can't study

Learn some skill to earn some money Don't fall in love No Not at all during college That's it

Boys What boys should realise

If

After 20s When you're out of college If they realise how tough your career will be, he won't love you after college. Because, if you look at it from a boy's perspective, no matter how many girlfriends you have,

or how many lovers you have, at a point in time, career feels like a priority. If you really want your career to not get disturbed, you have to set that career priority.

Bro, the opportunities they have, no one has it. They have so many opportunities online, through AI, so many opportunities to earn money. It's so vast. When I was studying, MPC, BiPC, MbyPC,

these three. If you don't do these three, your son is just a waste. That's it. That's it. It will be like this. Now, they are earning a lot of income in different fields also.

They have a lot of opportunities. If they use it correctly,

Nice. You haven't advanced till your second relationship is permanent. Yes. relationship until it becomes permanent you haven't announced it So till things become permanent until then don't post it on social media

how much better

before your relationship was very public and because of that it affected your relationship and now this marriage till the engagement comes, you didn't reveal it is that the reason for This one year dating life?

Yeah, I mean... I... My main point is that she doesn't want negativity. I want it to be mine. I don't want to talk about her again. This and that, this relationship,

She doesn't want to see all these bad comments. So, let's waited till the engagement And... Yeah... Now... Whatever I saw...

They can't bear it So, in that... The girl who trusted me... I shouldn't get that negativity That's my main intention I think she's not on social media publicly. She deleted my account.

Oh, she didn't tag you.

I was like, why? I was like, no.

Now they will start again. Like this girl, like that girl. They will make me do everything. I don't want her to come to you. What are you? I don't want you, you don't want me.

What is this? She is peaceful. She does her job. She is a working woman. She works in an IT company. She does her work, I do mine.

We both talk to each other. We talk to each other. So, when I took software developer, then Vaishnavi, now this Vaishnavi is also doing it in IT.

Do you call it a coincidence?

Yes, it's a coincidence. I am not just a software developer.

Nice. I am her developer a tester in real life Have you guys engaged in any kind of engagement? Like the posts that came out You consciously put all this in public first Nothing else

Actually all my friends are now Vineshan Mukh's videographer They did it? Yes, they did it Vineshan Mukh, Flash Shoot, Avalu And Praveen Bhonu

He is the main photographer for this event. He is my best friend since 2019. So, we were planning to start an event company together. So, we did all the engagement in the event company. So, Manasa, Praneetha, Kundan, Harsha, we all did this event together.

To know the statistics, how does event planning work and what happens. Amongst all that, when my best friend Praveen was born, I couldn't believe it blindly. So, that's why, my main,

the first point I told her was, when I did Surya, I got a lot of messages, brother I don't have a job, I feel good after watching your series. For all of them, I said, I don't have a job, I like your series. They all need something to make a living. Will our company help them?

That's my main motto. So, we started this company. Event managing, event planning. Lit events.

First with your marriage?

First with my engagement.

So, you planned the whole thing?

Yes, we planned the whole thing. You planned everything? I was the one who was with the flowers. We all went to the flower shop together. We went to the groundwork props, background decor,

Canopies. We sat there and planned everything. It was a private event, right? We invited all my close friends and family. I invited all my friends who have been with me since my last struggle What do you mean?

I mean, since my one and a half year, the backlash of my life scenarios I invited all my friends who have been with me since then They came as well

Nice Do you still feel the pain inside? I called them and they came Nice

Do you still feel the pain inside?

It hurts when people around me say something

Right

Normally, in your life, did love make you strong or weak?

So when I told my family about Nitin My brother said the same thing For him, as a person Love will make him or break him You decide what you want to be

He said that?

Is she very extreme? Very extreme? Love will make him or break him It will be two extremes If it breaks him, we can't bear it If only it makes him

You decide what will happen But whatever he said is true My brother has seen me since childhood He knows me very well He understands me. He has seen me closely.

You posted a photo on your engagement day or next day. In your story. You posted a photo of Arjun Reddy's family. Is there any specific reason for that? I don't know. He posted it on his fan page. That was purely a fan page.

Oh, really? If they post it on Instagram,

Yeah.

Arjun Reddy, his story, he's not a clean person. He's a very disturbed person. That person's character is disturbed. He didn't come straight. He didn't come straight. So, I felt... I am also...

I am also... I am Arjun Reddy in my family. To be honest. I am very wild. I either love extremely wild or I become extremely wild.

So, my parents try to set me up. Arjun Reddy went out of the house and I came to Hyderabad.

So, all these phases... Arjun Reddy went out of his house and I came to Hyderabad

So, all these phases When I saw that photo, it was very... It was all unplanned I never thought I would get a photo like this Nice

I see you a lot with your mother And I see you posting a lot of photos Actually, whatever we do Whatever happens in our life The first thing that comes to our mind is family. I don't care what anyone thinks. What will my family think of me?

Because that gives us a lot of courage and at the same time it weakens us. If our family doesn't believe us, we become very weak. Did the same family believe us in any situation? We don't have any strength that is greater than that. I see you posting more about your mom. Tell me how much your mom loves you

Everyone loves their mom Because you are posting a lot about her

I am a small... Mom's boy? Yes, small boy Is she sweet? She is very sweet They gave me a bike for my first year BBM

Because I am a kid They gave me a bike for my first year in BBM Because I was a kid, I was like, where will he fall? I was so cute Very proud BBM was my third year Until I came to Hyderabad I had to come home by 10.30

I don't go out at night Movies are only for the first show I have to watch the night shows with my family I was raised like a girl Really? I used to wear girl's clothes when I was a kid

They wanted to have a girl's photo I liked to do it every Sunday But I didn't like to get ready like a girl So When I was a kid I used to have a girl's photo

Send me the photo

Oh my god!

I'll personally stab myself with my own hands You be the cut up pie Be the bowl So you've raised my expectations a lot

At this point of time, what would be the thing that makes you feel insecure?

Insecure? I don't know bro, if our people believe in us, there's no insecurity. Maybe probably insecure means, I'll think, everyone is talking about my acting and my life, that's what's insecure for me. We've worked hard, right? You've seen my journey all these years, right? I grew up on your own.

My beard grew in front of you. My moustache grew in front of you. You have been watching me since childhood. So, give me a chance. Trust me once. Just one chance.

You gave it to everyone. Give it to me too. I will prove it. That is my insecurity. Will you trust me again? Will you watch me? Because I've put everything I have in the movie. For this movie,

I gave my all. I gave the best. I gave more than what I needed. Because I have to watch the movie. So, I'll know when I watch it. So, that one insecurity

is my life. My personal life. It's all over. It's all getting sorted out. Slowly. My life is getting better. Give me a chance in acting. Give me a chance as an actor. That's it.

What are the 3 best life lessons you've learnt in your entire life?

Believe. People believe. But don't believe them enough to make them believe you. Don't give him everything Because self respect is lost if you believe too much And again we can't live without belief That's true

If we have ethics and morals It will change slowly because the world is changing There was no war recently, past, but today the war has started Right

Yeah

So, some people say that it is great if we launch a missile Some people say that it is wrong to kill like that Now, there is no definition of morals So, in your ethics and morals, you should think if you are are being respected or not, whether you are being praised or not, and live your life accordingly. Third thing,

if someone gives you advice, give him money. Don't take advice from others. Some people give advice with the knowledge they have. The world is very big. Don't spend your life with the knowledge you have and the knowledge he has.

Don't listen to anyone's advice. Go with what you feel is right. Don't do what they say. Do what you feel like.

If you can go back and change any one thing in your life, what would you change?

If you could erase this from your previous life, it would be great. If you get an opportunity to erase. What would you erase?

This is the same question. If my movie hits, you won't talk about this. Why won't you? Because I'm in this position because all this happened.

Right.

Respect. For a successful person, for a failure person, for a person who wants to succeed and fall again, these three have only one difference. Success.

In this success, if you ask what you want to do, what you want to do in your life, he'll say he's doing well. So, we can't say what point or what is it. If I had changed this, I wouldn't be happy today. That's it.

Suppose my movie became a super hit. Okay? After that, if you ask you are trying to do is I have changed a lot because of my movie. So, if you say that it shouldn't change, it will go wrong.

Yeah, yeah, right. We don't have anything in our hands. But as you asked, I will not go to a show and quit.

It's deep. It's deep.

It was deep.

If you can redo anything beyond the show, what would you do?

Maybe I would have become a better person. I would have understood everything before. I would have responded who understood it first. For everything, for everything, I would have responded without reacting.

Yeah, there's a podcast called Loras Lab CF, where they say a line,

In life, you may not respond, but don't react.

True, true.

Because for a reaction, for a reaction, there's always a reaction, like you reacted. There's will be more discussion on the reaction, but there won't be a discussion on why you reacted. If you respond to that, the opposite person will also be like, hmm, okay. Definitely, the maturity that comes with age. That's when you are young.

We did it like that.

Nice, it's really nice talking to you.

I enjoyed this podcast. It was my first time too. I felt very engaging. I didn't know the story. I really enjoyed. Thank you so much for giving your time.

Thank you so much for inviting me too. I didn't know what a podcast was. I didn't know how to talk. I didn't know what a podcast was. I didn't know how to talk to people.

I don't know. Let's see.

Since it's my first time.

It was nice. It was nice.

Thank you. Thank you so much.