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Honestly, I didn't expect it. I was a bit of a playboy. But when I had a kid, I was more like a mother.

Do your in-laws often get involved in parenting? Of course, they do.

Vincent is already involved.

You're already involved?

No, I'm not.

You're the one who's talking about my mom.

That's why in Islam, What the f**k? Bismillahirrahmanirrahim. Today I'm here with my family. From the same tribe. Not from the same tribe, but it's hard to believe. From the looks, it's hard to believe Why, babe? You have different skin color

What's the difference?

Are you trying to bait racism?

No, no, no

But, is there a Chinese?

Yes, there is

Marga, oi

Oh, this is a fake No, no, that's not I'm not a grandma. I'm Marga Owy. Owy!

Iwan Fales. No, not that.

Owy.

Are you Iwan Fales?

Owy.

So, it's a small Chinese family.

But, the next-door grandma, how is her family?

Oh, the step-grandma.

No, no.

It's easy to not believe.

It's easy to not believe.

It's settled.

No. I have a brother He's married to a Chinese And the impact of that discussion is So I know Because this is the first time Chinese culture, I don't understand

I understand

This is Arab, this is full Indo

Chinese Papua So there are Chinese languages Can a little

Oh, auntie I A, I Chinese Papua So there are Chinese languages, you can speak a little? Yes, I can.

Oh, auntie!

I?

Yes, right?

I!

Yes, right. So, Mandarin Ahok is not wrong?

Oh, my God.

Oh, my God.

Oh, my God.

But if I'm close to Chinese people, For example? If an Arab in my village is called Ye. China I'm healthy, right? No, we're already drinking I was going to take a snack, I said I could Yeah, it's not started yet You want to eat a blood worm snack?

Yeah, it's good

Of course

Can I?

No, not now

Not now, Fior

You said it's okay

Yeah, it's okay We're drinking water

We're going to make a video about this Like the bloodworm noodles

But Vincent is mentally healthy

He's happier to marry me

He's happier Because I...

Let him talk, Vincent

Why are you so...

Talk, honey

This is for you

You just have a kid Congratulations Sayang, sayang, sayang Sayang, sayang This is the new kid

Congratulations

Thank you

Are you happy? Happy, but at the beginning It's hard to have a kid It's tiring

What makes you tired? The housework Because his sleeping time is usually When we wake up Actually waking time is when we sleep

actually it's not certain

newborn is really as he wants

sometimes he doesn't wake up but often he's rewell at night once every hour or two

I thought my son was born following Vincent calm, usually girls follow their dad eh when he was born his face was so Vincent

but my personality is really

no, no, newborn age baby, you have to determine your character, how?

Well, you can see it.

Ah, it's his mother, so he's more famous.

All newborn babies are like that.

If his mother says that, just let it be.

Okay.

Maybe this is a left-handed person.

Me?

But can you raise the chair?

why?

because it's like lowering

like this

like a crab?

you're the one who turn off the light

what's the name?

Finica

Finica Riffiora Cossaci

Finica

the name is Vinny Vinny Dut What is Dut? Dut is a fat guy His cheeks are fat He drinks milk all the time

But he doesn't get milk anymore He doesn't get milk anymore

Which one?

Because he's not a kid anymore

I asked him to put it in the fridge. He tried it.

I tried it.

I tried your ice cream. I told him not to. I already ate it. You tried it. Poor Finika. It's not just a little.

It's sweet.

Sorry, I know this is a religious event.

I want to try it.

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Very Christian Why? Papua people are Christian? From their face? Very Christian

Try this

But there are Muslim's mustache, right?

Christian people can have mustache, right?

Rarely

What do you call it? Sunnah?

Yes, Sunnah

Sunnah wearing mustache

He knows.

He has a plan to keep a dog.

But he circumcised.

He circumcised.

He circumcised at 28.

That information is not necessary.

He did it for health.

That's common.

Now, you have a child, Finica. How is it after you have a kid, Finica How is it after having a kid? Does it make you feel warm?

Of course it's warm But I think the attention is shared For me You're to me, I'm to you

We're more like a child now Before, we were just two

Now we have a child

We want to go home soon

But as a mother, how is Fior?

Honestly, I didn't expect it Before, people were like a petakilan But when I have a child, I'm more like a mother

It's naturalization

Naturalization and... Enoko Gonzalez

It's natural It's just how it is

It's natural, it's biological It just happens Right?

A woman's nature is like a mother It's natural It will be a little bit. Oh, yeah, I saw a woman with a so-called a passive Ibu and it'll be

a little Yeah So blue me a layered canana so so key born it was with a dark and a little boom one to can add a aspect in Tidak, I'd apply the lucky lucky young it was if I put on my to honey to Rahim Paniyaya I am young key one

Ada, but can ya Rahim. Penyayang. Ayah yang keibuan ada. Bahkan ya, mohon maaf, binatang aja yang keibuan ada. Ada itu cerita Hay Ibn Yagzen dari Ibn Tufail, salah seorang filosof, yang bercerita tentang seorang bayi yang dirawat oleh kijang. Tarzan. Betul. long the story of Tarzan is a story about Tarzan that's why Nalib bin Abi Talib said

I know my God directly from my God it means when the baby was raised by Kijang the story is about how he found God without reading the holy book

but looking at the verses of the Quran in the form of the universe and finally he concluded it is impossible that all of this was created by not God surely the order and beauty is by God

Masya Allah

so it became Tarzan

Tarzan was inspired by the story of Al-Quran

not Al-Quran it's a book, a Muslim philosopher's work called Ibn Tufayl a wow conclusion Quran Karya philosophy Muslim

In I've heard enough of Vincent Nguyen But if it's a Mormon, but it's not Christian, but there are words like You have to read Mormon, Mormon, I don't understand, what is Mormon?

You don't understand the story yourself

I saw from the official influencer, has a Mormon book

What's the story in Christian?

About a Christian who is on a journey

Is it?

I don't know

Do you know about the Mormon?

She doesn't know, she's forced to know

You don't know?

Ask our cameraman

Who knows about the Mormon?

Do you know about the Mormon?

He's like a split

In Muslim, there's a split

What's his name? Muhammadiyah Yes, like a split, if in Muslim there is a split, what is it?

Well, that's right, it was logged in to find differences in the internal of Muslims. If before we will talk to other religious figures for the brotherhood of humanity. Now for the brotherhood of Islam, brotherhood with Muslims. What kind is Islam? I think it's more like Islam of the Ulema

What is it?

Ulema You've been talking about it I'm not a Muslim, I'm a Muslim I'm not using the word of God

More specifically, there's the Tariqah of Allah The path to God that was built by our ancestors, the Prophets.

The Prophets, so it's exclusive to Prophet Muhammad.

All of Islam is exclusive to Prophet Muhammad.

Oh, so where is Muhammad?

Prophet Muhammad too, but the interpretation of what Prophet Muhammad said are sometimes different. Some say, Oh, the ancient ones in the early days were Sunnah. If the NU said, Muhammad said, no. Because the interpretation is different. It's a small thing.

In Catholicism, is there a difference?

Yes, there is. In Catholicism, it's like this, the sign of salib is if you pray. If you're a priest, it's not like this.

Okay. if it's a priest, he won't do this okay it's also true if it's a catholic, there's Jesus if it's a protestant, there's no Jesus

what's that, Khabib?

don't ask the priest

don't ask the priest

please if it's a protestant, because Jesus has been lifted symbolically, there's no Jesus anymore so Jesus is already in heaven and in the hearts of the protestant there is no Jesus. So, Jesus is in heaven and in the hearts of the Protestants.

Why do you know more than us?

Because you haven't been Catholic.

No, I haven't. We're wrong.

We're wrong.

It's in the podcast.

If it's someone who speaks Muslim or Muhammad, the framing is funny. If he's worried, it's true. But when was that?

When was that, but when was that? It was on the podcast.

It was on my podcast.

On the podcast.

Moslem, I was asked, if there was no Islam, what religion would you be? Catholic. I'm Catholic. Why?

Because the religion closest to Islam in the Quran, the closest to us are the Christians. Now, they are called Catholics and Protestants Why not Protestants but Catholics?

Historically, the closest to us is Christians in general so the closest in teaching to us is Christians. Why not Protestants?

Because Catholics are more hierarchical everything is neat in hierarchy to the Vatican

Allah, Allah, it's similar, right?

Yes, right

Yes, right? Just mention it I want to hear it, Kot

Can I drink first?

Yes, you can Cleo, the best water

Right, so it's not emotional So open with the light one light to make your fast more comfortable

Cleo is really pure

Really light

Why do Chinese have so many shops?

Why do Chinese have... You're Chinese, you know the information

They have a lot of business

So why?

What do you think?

I don't know Maybe because it's because it was taught to trade.

Why in Muslim religion?

In Islam, trading is what was done by Prophet Muhammad. So it became part of Prophet Muhammad's Sunnah. But the history doesn't mean that if you trade better than others because in the past, traders were underestimated. In the old days, trading was considered something that was underrated, so to raise the degree of that job, the Prophet traded, the Prophet fought camel and so on. At the same time, because it was not trading

for preaching, but preaching through the trade route. Because if it was trading, it was out of town, out of the nation, the main thing was to preach. That's why the Arabs came here,

it's usually traders until now. Because from the beginning to here, bringing trade mainly not to trade But to find a life from trading, but mainly their life is to preach So if Arab people, maybe the difference is with Chinese people If Chinese people, they are mainly trading

If Arab people preach, so sometimes if there is a chance to preach They prefer to preach rather than trade So for example, in the shop of the Arab people, there is a seat, okay, the person who wants to buy it, buy it for a while, but the one who is long is the one who is hanging out.

We are talking about religion. Oh, I see. What is preaching?

Religion propagation.

Religion propagation. Missionaries.

Oh, like, come on, log in, log come on log in log in right

in christian is missionary

but he didn't invite him he's like a determiner like him but let's go back to parenting have you guys prepared yet?

tomorrow, what's his name? Vinika

Vinidut justidut, yeah

Just call her Vini Is she ready?

She's going to be a salesperson tomorrow

Open a shop

Done

Done?

I've prepared First, she can only do 3 professions

What?

K-pop idol

Okay

She's the idol

Yeah Why? Her husband doesn't agree No, it's good, why? Kpop Idol You like K-pop idol? Yes, because I really like Wonhyo Because he's tall My child is definitely tall Because he's only a 7 cm child

Because his father is tall Not because you like him Then his son is tall

That's right

Okay, the first one is K-pop idol

The second one is what? First, the advantage of Kpop idol? The advantage is, I'm the parent, right? If he's famous I can say, Mom, please take a picture with Chanwoo I can take a picture with Korean artists

Chan-noon?

No, not Chan-noon

Chan-noon

Chan-noon

Chan-noon

If that, you can be a vocalist

I'll be the one who comes

K-pop idols can't date My son is safe Can't date first

His son can't date later?

No, it's not like that Can he get a better one than his father? Can he get a higher rank than his father?

If we're talking Vincent looks at her like Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa we're just having fun okay, let's continue to the second one besides being an idol what's your profession? I'm an artist

artist? because business is hard now

America and China are fighting we're all affected when you're an adult, America and China are not fighting even though there's still a fight

maybe it's worse

oh, conspiracy

this is geopolitics

yes, I'm already a cheater

you're a cheater?

I'm a cheater do you know that after this, all your party will be in your contact

your statement

if you're a cheater, the second day you'll be in the police

you're wrong

the second day you is becoming an artist

The third one Oh, playing crypto

Businessman

Crypto business

No, what are you doing?

Why?

We just met here

Yes, I know

Crypto business

Very specific Athlete, right? I'm sorry I'm sorry, I'm sorry It's so specific He's an athlete, not a father

He's so sad He's so sad Every morning he's like

I can't have a son like that

I can't It's so sad He's not brave He's a girl

What if the kid doesn't want to?

Yeah, I'm sorry.

The dad first. He doesn't want to. What do you want your kid to be?

I have a slightly different plan.

Okay. We'll listen to the last one.

What?

What? What's the difference?

If I were to plan for now, but I don't know if it will change in the future. In my head, when the child is older, his profession will be more focused. What he likes, what he doesn't like. If we see his profession as less promising or less convincing, we will focus more on the profession that is closer to that. So we don't give too much pressure to the child.

I disagree. Well, it's a debate.

But if I agree, it means he's looking for a middle way. His son doesn't feel like he lives according to his parents' expectations. But his parents, who have experience, also directed his son to meet in the middle. So his son also doesn't betray the will and interest after his will. That's why, like looking for a partner, the parents only choose from men or women who are fast. But between women and good men, which one? It's up to him to choose.

Oh, according to his passion.

But if the parenting, you guys, there's a Nikita Willy's parenting, there's VOC, VOC, what's that?

VOC, the fierce one.

The firm one.

Like us back then.

Do you know VOC?

I know, Dutch. Dutch colonization.

That's right.

Working as a roadie.

That's right.

Robuscha.

That's right.

That's Japanese.

That's right. G30 SPKI! That's right!

I just thought that it's so exciting

Yes

Are you firm?

Firm or not? We're parenting Fjord Vincent

I'm more like more like maybe there should be a little bit of VOC.

So it's strict. There are rules that will be made by his father.

There are some rules that can't be violated.

So those are the principles in your opinion. Does that usually refer to your faith or your ethnicity For example, in China, you can't do this Or in Catholicism, you can't do this

What will you emphasize? I'm not that kind of person, Vip Not too much of this religion, this ethnicity, this, this I don't really believe

So it's just the principle, Vincent's principle

What is Vincent's example? For example, like I said earlier, the one that was almost deleted Okay um login login

dad

mom

dad

mom dad

dad

dad

dad

mom dad i want to log in to Islam Or I want to move to Protestant

Actually, as a parent, we are Catholic We must direct first Dad, mom, as Catholics, our lives are like this We are on the right path

Safety is only on the path of God

That's right

We have to be careful Like the professional problem We have to guide If we give pressure to the child The child will be stressed It will be weird

Like we hold him It will be wild

But the child is forced to not be the best Islam

I'm a priest

You mean you're a priest in the church to be educated by the priest?

No

You don't like to be a Muslim

Why am I wrong? Don't blame her I was wrong from the beginning I'm only this tall and I'm already 38 years old It's okay, it's okay That's a personal opinion

For example, my son, I won't... If he wants to convert to Catholic or Protestant, no. No, he can't. But if he's forced, he's already big, he has faith. No, I will try as hard as I can... to not let the religion of Islam out.

What if he fights or... if he's getting more violent, I think there's a solution. uh Okay. If he wants to convert to Islam, I'll fly him abroad.

To the afterlife.

So he can see the world first. So he can decide what he wants. But if he wants to convert to Islam, we can only pray for him. So that it's the best way.

So this video will be watched by our children?

Yes.

He'll watch it in 10 years.

He'll understand.

I'm afraid of my digital track

Why?

My mom is so stupid I'm embarrassed, my friends said Your mom is so stupid What am I supposed to say? It's just gimmick, don't worry

Why are you like that? No, you don't look stupid But you look naked

Naked?

You're not like that in the camera

I can see that, you're actually smart

even not acting he doesn't look stupid he looks like a fool he looks honest

yes, that's right I saw that today a prophet's grandson said that you have to know that

and it's true, I think, if I get such a thing, I will definitely be like Muhammad. I will fully educate my child to give the greatest blessing I feel. As a Muslim. But in the end, because I'm a Muslim, I won't force my religion to my son because it's about the heart

you can't force it

but if his son is a Fini

and his husband is an Islam

his husband is my son

for example

why do you want to join the Catholic Church? because you're dating we'll meet first Oh my! For example! Why do you want to join the contest? Because of your girlfriend!

We will meet first.

We will discuss.

It's a double trouble.

First, our religion is not suitable. Our tribe is not suitable too?

No.

But...

It's hard to find a room.

What?

It's hard to find a room?

Yes, it's hard to recourse

You can ask her

It's hard to recourse No, no

So, what about the guy?

I will ask my son I will explain it slowly Your boyfriend has a different religion from you Yes, but I love him If you love him, prove it Invite him to your religion.

Oh, I see. Okay.

He's baptized. His name is Rizki. So, Alexander Rizki.

Oh, I see. But if his name is Hussein, it's hard.

Alexander Hussein.

Stefanus Hussein.

Stefanus Hussein.

Vincentius Hussein.

Oh, I see. But Hussein Vincent Hughes Hussein Oh, I see

But Hussein's name is not too...

His name is Hussein!

Oh, really?

Oh, his father's name is Khabib, right?

Correct Why is his father's name Jafar? Yes, Jafar is his father's name Khabib

When I was in junior high school, I was asked to be his student He said, Jafar, Jafar, hahahaha

Oh yeah, that's why he called me Jafar

He was so polite

And he was also like, yeah He was so polite when he was around us That's why It's easy to find out his name Because it's usually in our last name Birth certificate

Actually, what we usually keep in our childhood is our mother's name Don't let it be known But I live in Kampung Harap My school is in a school where all Arabs are average So I already know No, the school is not in Pecinan

Pecinan

Because we live in the Pecinan environment

no, it's not in the Chinese district, it's in Pecinan

oh, the name of the area is Pecinan yes, Pecinan means Chinatown oh, Chinatown, so it's not in PIC?

no, it's in Bondowoso yes, East Java

East Java, we're from Madiun

I'm from Bondooso

Bondooso

You're from East Java, right? Yes, East Java has many cities

Charuban

You're talking too much

It can happen

I know

But, what about the parenting? The parenting now What do you mean? What do you mean to let your child grow up as a good Chinese, as a good Catholic?

Is it strict?

In food, for example You can't use your phone for screen time, or you can watch it, but only Chinese phones

What's that?

No, this is still a baby.

I prefer...

I'll go first. Who's going first?

You go first.

Okay, me.

I'll go first.

I swear, my friends, find a husband like this.

Very patient.

Yes.

That's why I told him, if you're old, don't be a virgin.

Oh, yeah. If you're older, don't be a virgin Oh yeah, the world is a mess

The world is a mess You can try, but it's up to your dad Because he's tall, no one would dare to wrap him up Right? Even a virgin would say, wrap the girl up

Okay, skip, no more parenting

So if you have a dad, he can teach you This is alcohol So you won't be a if you drink with your friends

Why not?

Why not? You can't drink, right? If you're forced to drink, like 17, who should you drink with?

The world has changed, bro

Bro!

Now it's so different, you know?

We can't be so rigid, right? We should be the ones who change the world Not us following the world change rules

But it's so hard

The Prophet is always being brought down

Jesus was also sent If we, Prophet Jesus, Prophet Muhammad were sent It was to change the world From ignorance To the way of life According to the judgment of God

But in Islam, how is it, Mr. Hussein? If the children according to the guidance of God. But in Islam, what do you think, Ustaz? In this perspective, are we going to raise our children according to our rules, or leave them in their own world?

We can just control them from there.

That's a good question.

That's a good question.

Why are you reviewing it?

You're the one who's reviewing it.

Actually, if we believe in the rules that we believe in. In Islam, for example, there are rules that are the attributes of the mercy of nature. Universal across time. Only then the way of education is different. That's why Sidnali teaches us to raise our children in accordance with our children's time, not according to our time. So that it is easier for him to be influenced.

And because he will live in his time, not in our time. So it will be easier to face the challenges of his time. And Vincent has already spilled it. So in the Qur'an there are principles of parenting. One of them was earlier, Vincent has already spilled it. So, in the Quran, there are parenting principles. One of them, Vincent spilled it earlier, is communication.

As in the story of Prophet Abraham and Prophet Ishmael, when you want to scold Prophet Ishmael, Prophet Abraham suddenly said, Come on, I was told by God to scold you. No, but communication. My son, there is an order in my dream from God that you have be a slave? No, but through communication. My son, there is a commandment in my dream from God that you must be a slave.

How? Then, because it was explained in a good way and explained in a complete way, then Prophet Ismail said, well, this is for the sake of goodness, just do it. So, communication is important. Including Prophet Muhammad, when there were companions who came to ask for the guidance of Sayyidah Fatimah, termasuk Nabi Muhammad ketika ada para sahabat datang untuk meminang Syeda Fatima, Nabi Muhammad memastikan,

oh ini sahabat, orang yang baik, kemudian diberikan ke anaknya Syeda Fatima. Kamu mau gak, cinta gak sama dia? Oh gak, wahai Nabi. Yaudah ditolak. Sampai Syeda Ali datang ditanya, kamu suka gak sama dia? Dia orang baik, tapi pada akhirnya kamu yang menentukan. Do you like him? He is a good man. But in the end, you decide. Do you want to be with him?

Oh yes, Saidah Fatimah is silent. Then the Prophet said, Sukutuhari Doha. Fatimah's silence means yes. He married with the choice of Saidah Fatimah. Because the one who wants to marry is Saidah Fatimah, not Muhammad. The Prophet only ensures the good.

That's the second, the most important thing is faith in Islam. Oh, teaching about faith. Yes, so that, even though we will die, maybe we will die before our child. Even though we are dead, even though there is no teacher who sees him, no one sees him, he realizes that there is God who sees him, so he is still good. Even though there is no one to support him.

Where is the strong?

But, if I see Fior and Vincent, I become thoughtful. Why? Now there are many young couples, especially those who just have children. They start to think about the emergency fund, school fees, the future.

Oh, that's right.

No, don't put it on.

That's right.

That's really important.

Because life is not just about thinking about today, but also the future. Especially if you already have child, the responsibility is greater that's why you need to have an asset that is safe haven that can be maintained for a long time

I also have that

I'm in the athlete club oh my god, you're in the athlete club wow, you're so cool I'm so happy to be in the athlete club I'm so happy to be in the athlete club I'm so to continue! I'm going to continue! I'm going to continue!

I'm going to continue!

I'm going to continue!

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What is it?

The gold But that's my gold from gold Yes

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Bro

That's why you need to be given the best bro! A kid should be given the best education

That's a good one! The best investment if I'm the educator

Education!

We also, since we were in Catholic school What's your responsibility as a parent? Education! Yes, that's right! The best education for the kid

I thought, what was it called? The best investment for the kid If you have a kid, education I thought, NASA was it called? The best investment for the child, if you have a child,

education. I thought,

a future, right?

If that's already inherited.

It's already.

It doesn't need to be inherited.

But, yes, since I was a kid.

You're Habib.

Oh, yes. I thought so.

So, later, if I'm born, then I go out meet the people This is Habib

Wow, cool

Like a son of a priest

No, not like that

Simba

Simba

I want to ask If you're Habib, will you still work?

Of course, I will work.

Really?

No, that's why I'm Habib Industry. So, I work in the industry. I'm a Habib for the money. Why? Because if I wait for donations, it will be a long time to be useful to others. So, I'm an industry, it was made for my philanthropic missions

if for example a husband receives YouTube Adsense, is it okay?

yes, but I don't

oh really?

no, I don't get Adsense I'm from 2018 means 8 years no, I don't get Adsense

so the monetization is in Ovin?

Ovin, never in Ovin don't you understand how to make it? One, I don't understand Because I'm stupid That's my parents So my father said

If you can, when you become a preacher Not only not receiving the envelope From the person who preached But you give the envelope to the person who is offered, but you give the envelope to the person who is offered. Oh, giving.

Correct.

Then, the second, because in the past, actually until now, I often give perspectives about tolerance Islam, which is full of love, and it often times in some parts, it impressed by what I hear from some people I don't want to assume that Habib is intentionally saying things that are sensational and controversial just for the essence so that it's high

that's why I don't put the word essence

I'm afraid that if it's from the essence we can't choose the fish, Habib that's right! so what fish is there that smells that's not good Habib doesn't want to get money from that So, what kind of fish is it? What kind of fish smells bad?

She's starting to talk about it.

I don't want to do it.

It's smooth to go up 10 o'clock.

It should be 10 o'clock.

I've experienced that, Fior.

What time? Pumping. So, I've experienced that when I was still blocking. Blocking. Bitcoin? No, it. Back then when I was blocking, there were adsense in the blog

Like in WordPress, blogspot Oh, blogspot Yes, that's right The adsense was activated, then there were real ads, sensational ads For sure, for real The sexual ads, or maybe gambling

that's out of our control until someone asked this is a content, why the ad is like that? what about Habib? no, it's not us who put it it's just like that

that's the negligence of Comdiggy

Comdiggy, oh that's the one who set up the blog?

no, that's the ministry

digital ministry even in this content there must be a title comment So that's for setting up the blog? No, that's for the ministry Digital ministry

Even in this content, there must be a comment about the title

Of course

Yes, there are spam comments

Even in our anti-title content, there are comments about the title

I don't know myself

Just scold them

Most of the comments are in Kamboja

Complete If education, we we talk about education, investment is education, right? If Fiora, I'm also an educator. I think everyone is also an educator. That's part of parenting.

Yes, that's right.

So, Ali Imran, Imran's family, has a child named Saida Maryam. Maria, in the Catholic tradition, she gave birth to Jesus. Oh, that's called in Muslim,, Jesus was born.

Oh, in Muslim, it's saida, Maria.

Maria, Maria.

Maria, Maria.

Maria, Maria. Jesus is the prophet Jesus in Muslim belief. Yes. This saida, Maria, when it was small, it was given, the main investment was education. So it was taught to a teacher named Nabi Zakaria.

Zakaria.

That's the main investment. That's why I'm one of the educators.

Religion education, right?

But religion education must be done from a very young age, right?

Yes, from a young age. How many religions can we... I mean, at the age of five, is our concept of hellish heaven still absurd for a child? Isn't it surprising?

That's a good question.

That's a good question.

You're a good reviewer.

A lot of reviewers.

I mean, how old is it when we have a religious concept? Sometimes maybe at the age of 4 or old, the stories of the Prophet. But the stories of the Prophet are mostly miracles, like entering the stomach of the Prophet.

Is that what a small child is ready to accept?

Entering the stomach of the fish?

Yes, the stomach of the fish.

Yunus!

Yunus!

Yunus!

Yunus goes to jail, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yunus, Yun and Sulaiman, there is a parenting lesson about how one day there was an incident about one case where asked to Daud, his father, and Sulaiman, and the answer was a back and forth. And it turns out that the truth is in Sulaiman, his son, not Daud, his father. It means that sometimes the right thing is our child, because a father and mother must be open to their child if indeed the child is more correct than us in one and two cases. About education, actually, education in Islam, in Surah Ali Imran,

the education of Imran to his children, to Saidah Maryam, was done even before they were born. Even before it was made, that's why before it was made. That's why before it was made, we always prayed. Even Imron's family was a Nazar. Or we educated ourselves, prepared ourselves mentally and physically.

Then when we also make a connection with prayer and in accordance with religious orders, when it is in the stomach, it begins to be given positive readings, positive suggestions, especially when it is born. And what is taught is mainly two things in Islam.

The first is mercy, because Islam is mainly about love, as in love in Catholicism.

Catholic, yes.

Then the second is good morals. Morals. Yes. And the second one is Ahlak yang agung.

Ahlak.

All of those are sources of faith. That's why Karen Armstrong said, I am grateful because 80% of my faith was formed when I was young. And that's the privilege of a parent. So, if possible, he should know his God,

know his father, know his ancestors, know all, he knows his God, knows his father, knows all the good things from his parents, so that he can get an investment, a reward for his parents. So, while he is praying, his parents get the reward because he knows his parents.

School of Minggu, if we ...

Right. But if possible, this is it we can teach it ourselves. It's a pity if we only learn from others, so we only get the reward from the teacher. Our religion is strong.

True.

If you're 7 years old, you're already obligated to pray. If you're 10 years old, you have to pray hard. They say if you don't pray, you'll get beaten. Yes, in the hadith, you'll get beaten yes, in the hadith, you will be beaten but in the indonesian language, you will be beaten but the meaning is to be made hard

to be taught if you don't pray, you will be punished pesantren if you go to Vinika who will teach you about religion

you or Vinika?

me we are surprised Who will teach you about religion? You or Vincent? Me.

We're surprised. I think it's Vincent. I think it's Vincent.

If there's a viewer, are you sure you can teach religion?

I can.

How?

My dad can.

No, you can't. You can't ask your dad to do it.

I... I'm strong, I'm not afraid

He's not confident

I'm not confident

But why can you speak like that?

Because I'm better at the book than you You're more likely to be a church than me I'm not too much of a church

But now you're in the church

I'm the one who But now you're more religious Actually I like to read Wikipedia I like to scroll down, click again, click again So I often read about religion, war, history History, books, right? I like to google, and then go to the Google Play

Because now you don't have to go to one place to learn but you can access it anywhere

I also memorized it but I like to change the name For example? Like before, Yusuf Yunus

Crucial to change history

There's one name

Change the name and the history will be changed

Who has Ismail and Ishak? the father is Abraham Abraham, right? Ismail became a Muslim, Ishak became a Catholic Christian

I don't think so

it's true

if it's from Vincent

I trust him more

you guys are from the patriarchy

no, no, no there's no patriarchy, don't be patriarchy I've known Fion for years Since Janda Pirang era That's right I met Fion for the first time in her content

What's the context? Janda Pirang?

I was Janda Pirang

Not Janda Pirang in my understanding Really? What? Blonde?

Yes, Pirang You don't have to use the joke

oh yes, but it has a different meaning

it means that

Pirang's fighter

okay

Pirang's girl

yes, Pirang's girl

yes, Pirang's girl

we met in that time and it has changed a lot so, yesterday, was it Caesar's birth?

or... well, that's it, Habib I'm so sad, Habib I've been waiting I want a normal birth

I've told Vincent if I'm about to give up when it's a normal birth, you have to encourage me so I can have a normal birth why? because I'm about to give up, when I'm born again, you have to cheer me up so I can be born again. Why? Because I'm afraid of surgery. I'm afraid of getting a back injection.

Don't get a back injection.

For example, Abdul Muhrim.

There's a husband who can be stabbed.

Oh, yeah.

Cun, Cun.

You know.

Cun, I'm afraid of surgery. He's used to it. He's used to it He's been touched a lot

No need to be honest

No need It's true, this is a good story

I'm scared of being operated I'm scared, I've seen it on TikTok The needles are really long

I'm really scared

Why are you surprised?

It's a habit

Because my friends are a lot like Muslims I'm really scared it, because I have a lot of Muslim friends

I'm afraid of being injected here, I'm not afraid of being injected in Black Black I'm afraid of being injected here So I'm determined to be normal, I practice all kinds of things Then many people say, Khabib, that if you're normal, you feel like a mother So I also want to feel like a mother Now you're a mother But many people say that on TikTok

Yes, many people who are not normal, their motherhood is not enough

Is it true, Habib?

No, still, first Vincent said, no matter what, a mother is a mother, she wants to be born normal If it is necessary to be a Caesar and forced to be normal, it is dangerous for her mother. And that is not good. Because in Islam, having to breathe, protecting the life of a human being, is the main thing. At the same time, I think they both have the value of their struggle. So, birth is jihad in Islam.

If you die, you death with a noble condition, the death of a martyr. Well, both have the value of Jihad, the difference is, if normal, Jihad is, uh,

the weight of the pain. Right? Yes, yes. The weight of the pain, maybe at most a few hours, or even one or two days,

but the weight is on the pain. But if it's cesarean, the struggle is more to the long weight in waiting for the recovery, right? Because if it's cesarean, the recovery is very long. And even 1 or 2 years, you can't get pregnant again, right? So the struggle is different.

One is more to the weight, the other is more to the duration of the recovery.

And the effect of the biopsy is still long.

I'm allergic to biopsy, my intestines can't move.

This is a total biopsy. When the arm is broken during the surgery. The effect lasted for a week. I was still not focused.

It was so painful. I had to do it again. I had to press my stomach. It was so painful.

That's why in Islam, no matter how bad your mother is, she will always be kind with a kindness that you can't pay with anything. When she gave birth, she will always be kind to you. When she gives birth, she will give her life. When she gives birth, she will give her heart and her milk.

And when she gives birth, she will give her body and everything.

What a noble mother.

Yes.

Don't you say that I'm a shaming mother? Oh, you're a shaming mother. foreign I'm sorry. I am Kodusaya Ibu Yeah Don't have a I'm a

tomboy

the society

the the the

the the That's from when you're pregnant, you're afraid, you're not thinking Are you afraid to die in your current position? Like, you have a child, you're afraid to leave him If I have that feeling

Because he lives in a conflict zone

No, there's a conflict zone

There's a feeling like, oh, I wasn't afraid to die For example, it's normal, but when you have a child, there's a feeling like you're afraid to die And this, maybe, the fear of being naughty.

If you already have a child, don't live a strange life. Right. I feel like I have to be an example. Because the effect is his life. If we teach him wrong, Oh, my father used to be like this. Then later on, he will always remember it and it will make them traumatized

So, try not to teach them weird things

My dad hit my mom so hard that her knee was hit to the door

I don't know what happened to her Okay, next! That's an example

My dad was a judge He was like this, and his daughter was like this That's an example, right? Yes. My father used to gamble. Like this, and the child did it.

Yes.

Because the first school in Madrasa for children is for the parents. Because the first time the child learned was with their eyes. The ears, which is the source of information. From seeing the parents and hearing what the parents say. But this is interesting. In the past, we usually saw little children, for example,

taught to read the Quran. Then, the TPA and TPI were crowded.

What is TPA?

The place of learning the Quran. The place of reading the Quran. But in the mosque, usually.

In the mosque, it's called.

The message is crowded. Then, the children finished reading the Quran. It's a place to read, but in a mosque, right? Yes, it's called a mosque. It's a popular place. And then, Hafiz. The kids have memorized the Quran. Now, maybe we see... It's not a reference, but I see kids...

The angels want to challenge, you know? How?

The angels want to challenge?

They hit the truck.

The one with the truck.

I think you were in the window. No, I was there.

Yes, Om Telolat Om. I think there are many children like that. Yes, I mean, we have seen it.

Maybe there are some who are as religious as that.

Oh, it's different.

Yes, yes. In the past, the school was called Raudo tul Atfal. Raudo means park. Atfal is for children,, the kindergarten. We also know the concept of education, the kindergarten. When they were young, education and school

were in a playful context. Not a serious doctrine to be easily accepted by children. That's why they like stories and so on. Well, the challenge is now, the learning,

when the child is a child, he has learned not only from his home, but also from his surroundings. Now, he can access his phone anywhere. That's right. For example, I have a program called Habib for Kids. Habib educates children about tolerance, Islam, and so on.

In our context as parents, we have to realize and regulate that education is not only at home or around the house, but also on the phone. When can they hold their phones, what can they access with their phones, and so on.

TikTok. But how old are you, Vini? He can hold a cellphone, and what he can access with his cellphone and so on Tik Tok, Tik Tok

But how old is Vini?

Well, look

How old is she?

3 months I'm still so young, I just gave birth

Have you eaten porridge yet?

Just a little

Oh, eating porridge, that's 6 months, right?

In Madura

2 weeks already eating banana Seriously? I'm Do you guys listen to your grandmothers? We want to try the duck of Tretan

3 months old baby!

How can you eat duck? 3 months old baby!

I'm the one who defend your baby

I saw the content of Chef Arnold's restaurant

Arnold

He eats duck, right?

We want to try that Not for the baby Arnold Arnold Arnold

Arnold

Arnold

Arnold

Arnold Arnold because it's allowed in Catholicism yes, it's allowed but not in Muslim, because it's forbidden

yes, of course

it's forbidden

yes

what about Buaya?

it's forbidden

it's forbidden

it's forbidden, right? like Platypus

what's the point of going to the mountains? it's forbidden to go to Platypus

there's still Pecel Pincu what's the point of going to Platypus? What's the point of having a platypus? What's the point of having a platypus?

What's the point of having a platypus?

What's the point of having a platypus? What's the point of having a platypus?

Maybe he meant the platypus bread

No, I meant the platypus

So, the question is Does your mother-in-law

join the parent-team? Do you guys mix up in parenting? I'm not mixing up! Okay. My mother-in-law, right?

Your mother-in-law and your mother-in-law.

No, mother-in-law.

Vincent can do it.

You!

You're talking to my mother-in-law? You're talking to my mother-in-law?

Exclusive.

No, no.

Because, because... Kak Mamat doesn't understand, the meaning is different, right? He said it like before, oh, you're so mixed up, it means, my mom, helps me manage, the context is not mixed up.

In a negative meaning.

Not negative, positive.

Yes, yes, oh, don't have negative thinking.

No, no, what you said,

but if you say it like that,

it's a mixed-up thing, right?

It's hard to say it positively.

Positive, I mean.

I mean, in Islam, first, parents and in-laws are also...

Very mixed-up! That's it! Very mixed-up!

Second, you are really open to all of her suggestions or are you also chosen?

We are chosen because there are a few suggestions from my aunt

For example?

For example, she wants to dye her hair She wants to use candied fruit oil So that her hair will be thick, that's fine But my aunt, I me to not use it. My mother-in-law told me not to use it.

She was afraid that it would be too much. It's more about different opinions. Maybe in the past, it wasn't that important. In the past, there was a minimum of information. Many people taught us to have faith in certain things. It was done.

But now, if we think about it, the more dangerous it is Now there are a lot of TikTok references, doctors, a lot of people write on Twitter Don't, don't, don't So what are we doing? More to what can be accepted, do it What is not, don't

We don't reject it, we just listen Because there are a lot of myths like that And maybe back then, it's not because our parents had bad intentions, of course they had good intentions, but in the past, the basics were not knowledge, but experience. The neighbor's child was given this, it was good,

but it was not necessarily objective for our children either. Now there are researches, so we can be more different.

But the eyebrows were cut.

No, if the child cries for example, the parent thinks, oh this is a sticker or a fan fan? yes, there is this is starting to get into the mystery vampire sticker

oh, Chinese

hahaha

the title is not Chinese

vampire, vampire

this is a sticker sticker I'm not a ghost You're a vampire I'm a ghost

Ghosts have a myth

on the wall

Vampire

Where is the myth?

The name is Chinese

I mean, there's a ghost In my time It's a ghost that's shocked

or hit In our time, it's stuck on the paper It's gone

I don't know

No Because of myth And my cousin still

The paper here If it's stuck

The Chinese one

No, no, no, it's different

Usually, if it's Chinese, it's said vampire No, it's a different language usually, in Chinese, they say it's vampire

no, that's a joke

it's a joke

oh, a joke

because in Chinese, vampire is

there's a ghost

it's silent

yes, I know

that's why I said that

but in Indonesian, it's a joke it's funny in Indonesian, it's a joke

in Indonesian, it's a comedy

it's not a simulation.

It's a horror movie.

We can debate with your wife.

It's okay.

There's a funny comedy called...

Rituan Remin.

Rituan Remin.

I like it.

We like to watch it. We watch it at night.

I also watch it. I don't watch it in the summer.

The first time. Mr. Gibran The one who was given coffee so he won't get sleepy

Right?

Why is that? New York-Madura When did we get a New York-Madura ticket? We got a VIP card for the rest of our lives

She knows

I know

Where's your house?

In BSD

In Greenwich

I'll send you the address

It's there there right? When I was in Cesar, she saw my urine and my urethra

You went to the operating room too? I went to RSP Why? Yeah, RSP Why did you choose to be a nurse? If you accompany her when he's normal

it's to give him the spirit

yes

if Cesar, why do you feel like you have to be in there too?

because because actually in the Bius he's holding it down oh no, totally

no

so he's still like that

but he talks normally

talk

but he's not in Bius, he's not normal either

hahahaha

swap him not normal But he's not in the cinema, so it's not a problem. It's his husband.

It's not a problem.

Actually, those are crucial moments. Life is like death. Giving birth is hard. I just want to be by his side.

Are you afraid, Vincent? Afraid of his mother or his child?

I'm sure. I'm concerned. At first, I was so nervous I even cried before the surgery we have to prepare our hands first we have to use sterile hand sanitizer

and when he was going to the operating table we couldn't go in until the bios was working then we can go in I cried when I were outside, I cried

because I was afraid I was afraid that there was a police station here until suddenly I cried

but it's still like this

the scream is still there already in the bus, bro

whoa, whoa, whoa

so that's it what I mean is earlier what if the father because the one who gives birth and gives birth is his mother. So the one who is noble is only his mother. No, because when the mother is in her womb,

the father is in the heart and in his mind, in my opinion. His mind prepares for his future, prepares his health, makes sure of the life and safety of his father, mother and son. So actually he is pregnant too, but in his head, in his heart

and we will not be a mother if there is no father

that's right

yes, he is the one who produces, I mean he is the one who how to say it

no, we already know

he is the public

we

are you the public Yes, that's right You're the public, actually

I'm the public

He's the investor

He's the producer I'm the producer I won't be called mother if it's not Vincent

Oh, I see

You just know it

I just know it

That's basic knowledge Yes, we're tolerant I see. I just found out. That's basic knowledge.

We are tolerant.

What is he going to ask?

Do you have a target? Planning for when you have a second child? When you have a third child?

As soon as possible.

Do you believe in this?

Do you believe in many children, many blessings? I mean, children. I hope you want as many children as possible. If you are Chinese...

Like people in the old days, yes.

Even if you are Chinese?

If now, it seems to be quite stressful.

So, how many children do you want?

As many as the sand in the sea and the clouds in the sky.

I want two.

Eh, he didn't hear.

Two.

Two.

Oh, two. He didn't hear it Two Usually, the one who wants to have a lot of husbands is the one who limits the wife Because the wife is the one who decides But this is the opposite, she has a lot of sand Aren't you tired of being pregnant?

I really like being pregnant Because I can kiss my husband

Because it's the purpose of a daughter when she's pregnant

No, because when I'm pregnant I'm like, I'm like, I'm just like, I'm so sick of myself I'm so sick of my stomach, there's a baby and I don't feel lonely I'm usually afraid, if I'm left by my husband, in the apartment, I'm afraid I used to live in an apartment before moving to a house, I'm afraid there both of them If you're afraid of both of them, there's no devil You're afraid of both of them?

What can you do? If there's a devil, what can you do? He feels safe and comfortable because he's with his mother

I also feel safe because I have my child

Oh, you feel blessed

Yes, I have a friend, so we face the devil together

So, two children If Vincent has two children If Fior, it turns out she likes I'm sorry So, two kids Vincent and Duana And Fiora, she likes it

I want to punch Vincent

No, don't move your legs I'm going everywhere No, no

I'm going to punch him in the butt

No, it's a joke I'm kidding, I'm kidding I'm kidding I'm kidding I'm kidding

I'm kidding

I'm kidding I'm kidding I'm kidding I'm gonna be a I'm gonna be a I'm gonna be a I'm gonna be a

I'm gonna be a

I'm gonna be a I'm gonna be a I'm like this You don't know When I was breastfeeding my baby It was so painful It was bleeding And the baby was split in two And he was like

Honey, you should try to get a DBF

What is DBF?

Direct Breastfeeding

Some people use DOT, some people use DBF And breastfeed the baby You should try to breastfeed the so that the acid is not dry Eh, you try to dilute it first, it hurts so much Blood, the problem is that I'm annoyed Eh, the pudding

The pudding, the problem is that I'm annoyed If it's already bleeding, this is the bleeding one If it's bleeding, the acid turns pink It can't be drunk So I'm in a hurry So I pumped the acid so it wouldn't hurt too much

So the acid didn't turn pink

So Finika can drink it So the baby blues was because of that And at night she was so tired She had to wake up at 2 AM Every 1-2 hours she had to wake up And she felt uncomfortable

She felt uncomfortable in her body And if He felt uncomfortable. He felt uncomfortable. He was afraid of pain. He was afraid of being injected. We had a commitment from the beginning that he had to be injected. He was stressed at night.

Sometimes he had a little bit of pain. That's why he... When his son cried, he was sad. He didn't want to stay still. He was given a a DBF.

Hectic, right?

Hectic, like a mess at home. She didn't want to stay still. So, she was quite stressed. But after a few days, the nurse could teach her. So, she could calm down. In the afternoon, the nurse would ask her to play with her baby so that she would be tired.

Then, the baby would to sleep at 10 or 11 So the sleeping time was already set So now at 11 he's already sleeping Yes, between 9-10 or 11 he's already sleeping He woke up at 4 at night Now he's pumping

So at 4 he's breastfeeding and then he's sleeping So he's not too sleepy If he's sleepy, lazy, he would do it for 1-2 hours.

Yes, I still wake up every night to pump. But the baby also wakes up. He has to take a nap, right?

So he can grow up.

But I agree that, especially in Islam, in the Qur'an, it's said to take a nap for 2 years. And in terms of health, it's really good. health is indeed that good and even said Sina Omar Ibn Nusratal it is one of the education and the right of a child is through milk not only the right of the body but the intellectual mind the character of the parents is is shared through milk.

But there are also women who are difficult to produce milk. That's why it's difficult in the Qur'an to find a mother who is a milkman. Still through the mother's milk.

Because there was no Sufor.

Yes, there was no Sufor. And that's more important before we go to the driver's license if there is a mother who is a driver's license, it's better I want to ask, before closing, it's been 1 hour and 16 minutes I want to ask, if I don't have a driver's license for example, my child doesn't want to breastfeed, but wants to use a dot

I just pump it, is it still okay? Or is the reward reduced? No, the reward is the same, right? Because the important thing that is calculated from the reward is your effort. If you can't afford it because of an emergency, you want to use a breast pump or just a pump, it's okay.

The most important thing is what is the best, you can give from the milk to your child. That's what you do.

Oh my God, Masya Allah.

And also the most important thing is what the child needs the most and the most important thing for us to give, besides what we discussed earlier, is one of the blessings that is often forgotten by others, which is more than wealth, it is time of space. So, the presence of the mother and father

to their children. So, being present for their children is the most important.

I hope you stay healthy, Fion.

Thank you.

Be patient. Be patient.

He's so patient.

He's a patient.

He's patient.

He's patient. He's patient. He can listen.

I can see it from his handling. I can see it. He's so patient.

He's so patient. I'm also patient to be his wife.

I have to admit it.

I'm starting to get mad Do you want to drink first? Come on, let's toast I'm starting to get mad Do you want to drink first? Come on, let's toast

Enough 🎵