When someone's using you:

I'm gonna fall, you're choking me!

What else am I supposed to do?

Just grab onto my shoulders or something!

But if I let go, I'm gonna fall! I just need you to be strong for me!

Well, I can't do a pull-up with you on my back! Why don't you help?

You don't want me to get hurt, do you? Of course not, but why weak to hold up my body weight with one hand. Okay, so you're just gonna suffocate me and make it harder to get up? Yes, and I know you can do this.

Okay.

Why is she still on you, bro?

Because she knows I'll get her to safety.

So that's what you call what you're doing right now? No, this is almost dying. Why are you doing that? I mean, you could just drop her. But she'll get hurt! Maybe. Or she'll grab your shoulders on the way down. But either way, if you do nothing, do you know what's gonna happen? We'll both fall off. But if you just had to worry about yourself, do you think you could get back on your feet?

Oh, absolutely. I mean, this is basically a ladder. Then why are you taking her with you? Well, because I don't want to leave her behind! We're attached! do anything for you or is she just dead weight? I'm just saying if holding on to someone is putting your life in danger and making it impossible for you to go where you want to go I don't think they're worth holding on to. If I were where you want to go I don't think they're worth holding on to. If I were you man I would just get her to let go.